This question is for the guys, if a girl professes love for you while in a relationship with another man and finally leaves the man for you would you totally be comfortable and trust that girl?

WHat goes around comes around. . .she cheated on her bf with you. . .she's gonna cheat on you with another man!

ThoniaSlim:

WHat goes around comes around. . .she cheated on her bf with you. . .she's gonna cheat on you with another man!

yeah,but not always

i dont necessary agree with thoniaslim, d relationship she is leaving might not ve been necessary working fine, but if u see proof she really loves u and u can tell by her character wat kind of person she is, then u can trust her. so its 50 -50 whether she will do d same or not to u.
i left someone i was dating then for my husband now why becos i had reasons 2 and i was damn glad i did.

candyshore:

i dont necessary agree with thoniaslim, d relationship she is leaving might not ve been necessary working fine, but if u see proof she really loves u and u can tell by her character wat kind of person she is, then u can trust her. so its 50 -50 whether she will do d same or not to u.
i left someone i was dating then for my husband now why becos i had reasons 2 and i was damn glad i did.

Couldnt have said it better

candyshore:

i [b]dont necessary agree with thoniaslim, d relationship she is leaving might not ve been necessary working fine, [/b]but if u see proof she really loves u and u can tell by her character wat kind of person she is, then u can trust her. so its 50 -50 whether she will do d same or not to u.
i left someone i was dating then for my husband now why becos i had reasons 2 and i was damn glad i did.

True. . .that's a good point. . .I guess I was looking at it from only one point of view. . .and that is. . .all was well with her and the first guy. . .and she just cheated on him for no reason at all. . .

no way, she already cheated on me with her bf

candyshore did u date your husband and the ex at the same time? or you ended the relationship with your ex before starting a new one with your husband?

The girl in question claims her boyfriend like knowing where she is all the time but aside that he is a wonderful person. The new guy who happens to be my friend sure knows how to make the ladies love him. smooth talking, ice cream bringing phone calling kind of brother. Most of the girls he has been with have always had a man . i have told him that karma will catch up with him one day oh

U guys forget that MOST people are not really single at the onset of a new relationship.Meaning that you meet a new person,cheat on your current partner,then dump the old one before continuing the new relationship.

Thats the usual pattern,so who will cast the first stone?

shooze:

candyshore did u date your husband and the ex at the same time? or you ended the relationship with your ex before starting a new one with your husband?

The girl in question claims her boyfriend like knowing where she is all the time but aside that he is a wonderful person. The new guy who happens to be my friend sure knows how to make the ladies love him. smooth talking, ice cream bringing phone calling kind of brother. Most of the girls he has been with have always had a man . i have told him that karma will catch up with him one day oh

Then they both fools who are perfect for each other!

MrPrsdent:

U guys forget that MOST people are not really single at the onset of a new relationship.Meaning that you meet a new person,cheat on your current partner,then dump the old one before continuing the new relationship.

Thats the usual pattern,so who will cast the first stone?

i quite agree with mrpresident.even if there is no physical cheating,you are already cheating with the thought its normal.except the girl in question did bnot make any move to to leave the othe guy

Like someone said,its a 50/50 tin.
Personally, it might take me a bit of time t b secure in that relationship.
Also, if it happened bfore, it can happen again. its not abt d action,but d mindset .i.m.o.

I personally can't trust a girl that left her guy for me. Whether the girl would like to admit it to herself or not, i would account for most of the reasons why she left or started seeing faults with the guy. I know i don't Have the ultimate game and if a girl can freely jump from one relationship to another then she can do the same to me.
Besides if a girl doesn't have a good relationship with a guy she would break up with the guy and stay alone for a while before entering a new one.. So no matter how you look at it really, jumping shows a flawed mindset

It would all depend on what kind of relationship (s)he had with the ex.. but presumptively NO