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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 3:32pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Richiy:your kids wont suffer but what is your preparation towards the family.... 200k... |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Richiy(f): 3:34pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
nnaemekanwachuk: And I should start saying it now. Really |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 3:36pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
ATK4Joy:l can see you going higher than the highest... l have respect for ladies of your calibre ... you showed me that your contribution in the family will be worth while ...... success will follow you to your,home.... l pray that your future partner will find tbis virture in you. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 3:37pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
ladypearl45: Here comes another virteous woman indeed |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Ihuomadinihu: 3:39pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
There is really no point abusing women that would answer No to this question. I take a huge exception to that. It is a man's duty to provide for his family and a salary of 50k demands exceptional financial mangement skills. Everyone has a class and naturally one would go for who fits his/her class. It is a nobody's fault you are unable to find a wife with just 50 thousand naira salary. The best bet is to look for a girl that would be able to manage with you under such tight budget. The problem with men is that they see good things and think they can easily get her to fit into his income. And when that girl is unable to fit in,he lables her a Gold digger. That's a big mistake. Why not go ahead and look for someone you can afford. On a normal situation, 50k can hold a family down depending on the number of people in that family. However,you will discover that it wouldn't be enough as the children start dropping. So how do you make ends meet. Under this current economy,i wouldn't advise a girl to go for it, or a man to think towards that,when there is no support income. How much is a bag of Rice? Can you cater for a family with just 50k? These are good questions to ask. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 3:41pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Vanillaskin:unfortunately you waiting for Anty linda who is 36 no family?? Sha no love lost no one foynd but if l may ask at this your age what have laid down? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 3:44pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Ihuomadinihu: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by sanpipita(m): 3:50pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
kaboninc: What an idiot. You have common sense, you dont demean women but you insist to dictate where women belong, i wouldnt be surprised if you cant even comprehend your own english, empty vessels walking around and calling themselves men |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nenergy(m): 4:16pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Richiy:Hahaha. I understand May your happily single days be more than the sad and may you be "double" soon |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by daygee12: 4:24pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
WHAT SALARY IS THE LADY IN QUESTION EARNING BEFORE CONTEMPLATING WHETHER TO MARRY A GUY WITH 50K OR NOT. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
elfmann:Is not about how much i earn but how much the man earns is the subject for discussion. If he earns 50k monthly...Is he going to remain on that 50k job forever?...that's why i mentioned prospect, his income shouldn't be limited to his 50k job if he must settle down. I personally don't like being idle or the house wife stuff, so will certainly get a job, but he's the man and not me. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by kaboninc(m): 4:28pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
[s] sanpipita:[/s] Sharrap! I was thinking maybe you'd have found light but you have shown to be this fu.cktard reta..rded pig! I do not claim to be perfect but I know for a fact that you are worse off than men who belittle their women. My last response to you, mad rat! |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by KvnqPrezo(m): 4:29pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Earning 50k isn't the problem but how it's been managed..
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Some healthy marriage is not earning that amount...
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My 2cent from www.romanticpie.com |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by kaboninc(m): 4:37pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
herbie27: Hmmmm... Are you most concerned about what he earns and not even what you can do. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
kaboninc:I just said what i can do. Or are you more interested in him being jobless while i'm working?. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Newbeginnings(m): 5:10pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
nnaemekanwachuk: So that is why Nigeria has a high poverty rate |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by kaboninc(m): 5:14pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
herbie27: We all raise eyebrows about the earning capacity of the man. That's good...to an extent. A man has to work to take care of himself and family. That is settled. However, the major question would be - is a woman more concerned about what her husband earns or what she can do to supplement what he earns... |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
kaboninc:I already gave you an answer by using myself as an example. But to think of it, there are men who don't even want their wives to work in anyway...while there are those who think their wives must work, it all depends on who you're getting married to. I personally won't spend 365 days doing nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by tosyne2much(m): 6:23pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
ExInferis:Hahahahaha lag don kill me die 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by maasoap(m): 9:18pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
A successful marriage is not depended entirely on how much the man earns monthly alone. What about the woman's income in addition? It is not about money alone too. Many of us started our marriages with something far less, it is only getting better with determination. It is even good to be through the thick and thin with one's husband than marrying a ready-made one that will not have respect for you and you too won't have any say because you married as a result of his enticing financial status. I'm thankful for the wife you gave me God, she married me when my income was even less than 20k. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by itzmejerry(m): 9:49pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Newbeginnings: am sorry dude if I said something wrong buh you gat to understand me clearly dat was long time ago and my mum is a trader she sells onions in d Market so dere was a kind of support to him anyways and yu cant tell dis dude not to marry cus he earns 50k per month #justsaying |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by MVLOX(m): 10:26pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
[quote author=Newbeginnings post=503835 I am talking about men and purposes and standards... Just remain virgins, because many of the broken hearted girls all around are the handwork of guys like such.[/quote] I couldn't agree more with dis cuz am a living testimony to dat fact.... but all am saying everyman can ply same part so done see guys whogo down Dis lane as lame o r not hardworking or not serious |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by tosyne2much(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
zubby55:I use your testimony as a point of contact bro 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by abimic(m): 11:03pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Ideally, in this present day Nigeria, 50k doesn't seem feasible to cater for settling down but nothing is ideal anymore. Time and chance happen to them all, the race isn't for the swift, nor the battle for the strong. A man earning 200k could suddenly lose his job and what becomes of his wife, she runs! ? Anyway, it's better to move from 50k up than move from 200k down. If the man seems hardworking, diligent and with Grace, things could turnaround for good in no distant time. Come to think of it, even with 100k, I can't even contemplate a girlfriend much more wife, anyway, priorities differ. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by romeoetin(m): 11:05pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
ATK4Joy: Nollywood |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nuelyoyo(m): 12:09am On Oct 22, 2016 |
Julietcutie:something tells me this is the Juliet I know. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Leriebloom(f): 1:45am On Oct 22, 2016 |
kaboninc: If you notice in my comment I used the term we, which means it involves both parties. You still haven't clarified me on the tag "ladies like me" tho |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by mypains: 3:35am On Oct 22, 2016 |
truthsayer007:some of you lack the ability to start with what you have and people like you can hardly build a house because they want to START when the money is available? Do you realise you have to save money to get things done? So because the husband nd earned 27k means it was with that he married? What happened to SAVING? Dude people save money to do their wedding and the lade probably added and NO, husband might have other side hustle to supplement his 27k. Life is a process. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Nobody: 6:35am On Oct 22, 2016 |
ohn1759:If the guy is hardworking and I love him,why not?......I will be working too and will be adding up to d 50k |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by Julietcutie(f): 8:10am On Oct 22, 2016 |
nuelyoyo:which Juliet |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nuelyoyo(m): 8:26am On Oct 22, 2016 |
awakeuche:my brother, that was how one was asking me how am being paid in my sales work, asking if is based on commission or salary, she was also asking me how I go about selling, whether I use a vehicle to run around. Bottom line is she wants to have a clue of my income and mobility. And this questions were coming a day after I approached her chatted her up and got her contact - after church service, how on earth would u be asking such bearly 24 hours after, she even wan know the area wey i dey stay for the town, at best u can ask me what i do for a living , other thing you wish to know will be revealed as we get along, mbanu! She wan know deep things, even when I never state my intentions. So I have started loosing interest in her, and Na teacher she be oh for private school, her salary for no pass 20k. No woman wan suffer, they want to know the level of Ur pocket before committing themselves to you for marriage, and I no blame them. The way Nigeria has been from time past has made many people materialistic, people want to associate with you only coz of the things they want to benefit from you, and this mindset has been extended to relationships and marriage. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Who Is Currently Earning N50,000 Monthly As Salary? by nuelyoyo(m): 8:30am On Oct 22, 2016 |
Julietcutie:I know a Juliet who works with Nigerian Prison's Microfinance Bank in Abuja. We served together in Kwara and attended same university. If u ain't her pls disregard. |
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