Thrash!

A man that is not ready for marriage isn't ready. This mostly has nothing to do with the woman.

guys na de this thread pass...gay alert?

dollyjoy:
Actually, Marriage does not prevent men from cheating.

like it stops women from cheating too.... my friend, cheating is no respective of any gender. whoever wants to cheat will cheat.

people just need to understand the concept and rudiment of being [size=16pt]LOYAL[/size]

dollyjoy:
Actually, Marriage does not prevent men from cheating.

Buh it turns wives to monitoring spirits...

Nigerian girls are bonafide leeches!!!

A man who doesn't want to be tied down should not commit to any lady, because the females see relationship as a case where they own you and you will become their emotional wheelchair

A man is no obliged to be loyal to one woman. It is better and easier to love many women than one

99.9% of guys in relationships/marriages feel trapped. The woman wants the sexual passion in you to die rather than sleep with other women. A wise man shares his love among all ladies.

OF ALL D THINGS U YARN, NA ONLY NUMBER 5 DEY CORRECT, D REST NA STORY.

No 5 should have been the only item listed it is the sun set summary of all.... Delete no 5 and watch how the guy falls in place

8TH reason, they luv being tagged baby's daddy!

Partly true

Okay.

dollyjoy:
Actually, Marriage does not prevent men from cheating.

It should....

Old story

importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.


8. Add yours

instead of failing to commit. I think every man should know what to do before marriage. Mae sure your guy read this.
http://familyparliament.com/Thread/10-things-every-man-should-know-how-to-do-before-marriage/

HML my bro

importexpert:
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can you imagine.

Yes o i agree 100 percent cos that's how i think and that's why i am still single.

No.5&6 applied to me.

As human beings, we are all imperfect, yes. However, problem arises when someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with continues to be superficial and fails to share his/her hidden weaknesses (bad attributes), which are usually visible to oneself and hidden to the outside world - except those (outsiders) with an innate sensitive and analytical abilities. Pretense is evil.

Financial things, don't want an expensive lady inwhich i may be beaten by another rich guy tomorrow.

They are afraid of sending someone to the other room...they just want there spouse to belong to the kitchen

the truth is that Mrmeen is still young and does not like to be tied down no no no. maybe after sampling all the models whether black, white, short, tall, dwarf, fair,Arabian,igbo , petite , Asian, Togolese, Hausa, fat, milf , Yoruba, bbw , models, tattooed, and the likes then maybe I can talk about settling down.

Interesting
http://diaryofastylishdoctor..com.ng

Hmmm, if i talk nau: well, som of us don make som very serious mistakes by bein lured by a very calculative & subtle lady to marriage. At that point, we don try make we "elope", bt God pass us sha, Pstrs, Family members, Neibors & Colleagues don fight & preach say make we stay. Haba, wetin put us 4 dia condition? Sometym, na Conji, sometyms na money, sometyms na outright foolishness! Wht ama tryin to say, men hav seen som oda men made very serious mistakes in marriage partners & thus messed up d beautiful institution called Marriage, thus resulting to marriage errors lyk Adultery, Wife Battery, Murder & divorce. If only people would take their careful tym & FIND THEIR OWN SPOUSE, then Marriage would b desirable & young people of today wouldn't b aversed to it & its fears.
All u listed is simply because d bros didn't trust the institution of Marriage wt d said lady. Minwhile, all na End Time things sha.

STORY!
He doesn't love you and he already has someone he believes is 'better' than you.

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importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.

8. Add yours

#ace#

dollyjoy:
Actually, Marriage does not prevent men from cheating.

but i will never CHEAT wen am married

sometimes when I hear the word "marriage", fear go just grip me. God dey sha

dollyjoy:
Actually, Marriage does not prevent men from cheating.

Women cheat d most, and pretend innocent after Dat

[quote author=ICQuinn post=50718392]Commitment? What's a commitment? Op please explain, I've never come across that word before, it seems very strange to me [/quote/]

When you're committed to something you do it regardless of the inconveniences..you don't accept excuses only results..

But when you're only "interested" in doing something..you do it when its convenient...