Slikbae:
Thrash!

A man that is not ready for marriage isn't ready. This mostly has nothing to do with the woman.

best answer so far, if he is ready, he is ready and will definitely make away around all this excuses listed by the op, simple

I don't think its logical for a man to commit to eating only from one pot till the end of his life..but it could be more bearable if African women are open to the idea of surgeries,boob jobs(and exercising) so as to remain sexy and attractive to their husband after childbirth..like d whites.

Though some men are still gonna cheat but they'll wanna think twice b4 cheating on ladies like Allesandria Ambrosio,Gisele bundchen..Naomi campbell e.t.c cause literally they offer "almost" the same level of sexual satisfaction as the young chicks.

"But when you're only "interested" in doing something..you do it when its convenient..."[quote author=Perfectionist11 post=50788821][/quote] I prefer this thanks

That your number four sef.

If you are not sure of her, jejely free her na. Why play nairabet with a lady's time and feelings?

honestly I'm reluctant to commit cuz i wanna be on my own , i like my space and stuff we can be cool friends though but a relationship seems a bit boring and stressful i enjoy life without that stress

As for me,the main reason is "TIME".I can't imagine spending ma time in a relationship.I value ma \/\/ORK than anithing

No Good Marriage role models around him ...

In today's world some are married and living single so he may not be inspired to break the chain but one day you have to because the future relies on our actions today. Playing around will waste time you can use to do great things with people who are willing to understand you they might mock you if your faithful but on judgement day you will laugh last that bible adage is very true about friends

Since Eden men have been looking at us with suspicious eye

browndegreat:
Real matters

Na confirm matters, na legit matters. No be anyhow matters bros.

importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.

8. Add yours

Some could be due to Spiritual wives somewhere in the dark world.

Nice points

All this one na long tory. If a woman is worth it a man will commit

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importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.

8. Add yours

non of the reasons are true for a guy that wants to settled down. did you just said that he does nt want to loss his identity? so what will make of woman that change fathers to ur own name? HE IS CONFUSED AS FOR WHAT IS YOUR FEELINGs FOR HIM? hiya! confused kwa? HE HATE THE THOUGHT OF BEEN TIED DOWN? o boy you think like ajo striker ooo.HE IS NOT SURE THAT YOU ARE THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR HIM? please if you think so allow her to move on. egbuzila ya oge. HE IS TERRIFIED ABOUT THE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY INVOLVES. bro you are talking about broke guys. aren't you? TOO HIGH EXPECTATION KWA? no comment. HE IS UNSURE AND INSECURE? thats for inmature guys.

importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.

8. Add yours

non of the reasons are true for a guy that wants to settled down. did you just said that he does nt want to loss his identity? so what will you make of a woman left her parent,sibblings and change her surname to urs? HE IS CONFUSED AS FOR WHAT IS YOUR FEELINGs FOR HIM? hiya! confused kwa? HE HATE THE THOUGHT OF BEEN TIED DOWN? o boy you think like ajo striker ooo.HE IS NOT SURE THAT YOU ARE THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR HIM? please if you think so,allow her to move on. egbuzila ya oge. HE IS TERRIFIED ABOUT THE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY INVOLVES. bro you are talking about broke guys. aren't you? TOO HIGH EXPECTATION KWA? no comment. HE IS UNSURE AND INSECURE? thats for inmature guys.

FreeSpirited:
Its simply because they have no complete confidence and trust in your character....It doesn't take ages for a man to notice a woman of good character and virtue...and no man will want to leave such woman.

you nail it

dollyjoy:
Actually, Marriage does not prevent men from cheating.

mama de mama!

freeman95:


remove the 'h' from your words before i slap your face

see one of them oh

Commitment ke,I'm not even emotional

Commitment ke,I'm not even emotional

;Dhehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
just observing who will say, 'men are scared of committing to a woman who's gonna be a liability'
lmao....
but who fear epp...

Feelings get hurt this days...
Bless God, i'm almost numb to it!

judeefcc:
Too young , don't want to break their hearts

Nice but I think guys this days just don't want to commit.

Because of disloyal ho's around us

Sparkle75:



Nice but I think guys this days just don't want to commit.

its like a game of cat and mouse, guys are scared , girls dont have faith , now left for the guy to be convincing enough for her to trust him

4 is the main reason y I haven't gotten that 25karat golden ring for her n m just about searching for a new person.....2 is an issue too

ojun50:
We want to receive has many channels has dstv

Yorubas and this "h" factor.
Una Don carry am enter for writing?
I think say na only for talk una dey talk am?

importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.

8. Add yours

I concur

importexpert:
The fact that guys are usually afraid to commit are due to several reasons. Women always want to know why guys are reluctant to commit to a long term relationship or to marriage. These reasons listed below will give you an idea as to why they have fears of tying the knot!


1. He does not want to lose his identity

If you are the pushy and demanding type then he could be afraid that once he commits to you, he will slowly but surely change into the type of person you want him to be. He is afraid of losing his own identity and changing into a lapdog who has to do everything to please you. This could prove very scary for a guy and therefore he is reluctant to make any sort of commitment.

2. He is confused as to what your feelings are for him

If you have not really been forthright and clear about your feelings towards him, then he will be cautious about making a commitment to you. The smallest doubt about you and your feelings will make him reluctant to take a step towards commitment. Only when he knows for sure that you reciprocate his feelings will he turn bold and take the initiative!

3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"

4. He is not sure that you are the right woman for him

There could be a hundred reasons why he has certain doubts as to whether you are the ideal woman for him. He will never make a commitment unless and until he is convinced in his heart that you are the right one for him. Even though he has been dating you all this while, he could feel that there is something missing in the relationship and hence is not ready for commitment.

5. He is terrified of the financial responsibility involved

The very fact that commitment means a whole lot of new responsibilities make men nervous and reluctant to take a step in that direction. In case he is not really financially secure and feels that he will not be able to provide for his wife and family in the near future, he will not be able to commit.

6. He thinks that you have too high expectations

There is no way he is going to commit if you have been setting the standards too high or been having too many high expectations where he is concerned. See if you are the type of woman who has been very demanding, critical and a stickler for perfection in every thing. He is obviously scared of falling short!

7. He is unsure and insecure

If the guy is aware of his faults, failures and shortcomings, then he could become insecure and afraid of facing the future. He will naturally become less confident of being a success and making the relationship ideal. This insecurity will prove to be a huge blockage where commitment is concerned.

8. Add yours

5 is the real deal

1. He's afraid to fall in love...period
2. He is complacent and doesn't want to be challenged
3. He doesn't work
4. He would rather flex for the gram, holding his phone at night is lot better than a booty
5. He cares more about his friends opinions, so he should marry them
6. He's scared of responsibility
7. He's not a man yet and should continue to live with his mother so she can continue to take care of him.

1. He's afraid to fall in love...period
2. He is complacent and doesn't want to be challenged
3. He doesn't work
4. He would rather flex for the gram, holding his phone at night is lot better than a booty
5. He cares more about his friends opinions, so he should marry them
6. He's scared of responsibility
7. He's not a man yet and should continue to live with his mother so she can continue to take care of him.


I'm sorry this turned into 7 reasons why she won't commit.

All this 6point agenda 7 steps to make him fall 499 ways to know ur man 543777 ways to make him commit
all na wash men cheat they are naturally that way don't blame them

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