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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by dabrightt: 3:17pm On Nov 08, 2016
emmydollars4life:

STUPID IS THE GIRL GETTING MARRIED TO A MAN EARNING 500K AND THE GUY LOOSE HIS WORK NEXT MONTH
I Wonder ooooo
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by dabrightt: 3:20pm On Nov 08, 2016
dasparrow:
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Mr Dipo should stop complaining and find his level. If he cannot get an employed female graduate to marry him, he is free to pick one illiterate girl who cannot construct a simple sentence in English as his wife. This is Nigeria and people marry people who are from their socioeconomic level. Don't you see affluent Nigerians? They make sure their sons and daughters equally marry from affluent families.

Back in the day, our mothers stood by our fathers when they had nothing. Yet, once a little change entered our father's pocket, they quickly forgot our mothers - the wife of their youth - and started marrying younger women like it is going out of style. So, don't blame young ladies who ain't trying to stick it out with some broke Nigerian niggas who come on the internet to whine like puppies. Make your money as a man and then marry so you don't raise your children in abject poverty.
No fex pele
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Dfinex(f): 3:21pm On Nov 08, 2016
goingape2:


nope!


just curious and wanted to ya reaction base on that question!

ok..truth is I need to re-evaluate my life, my attitudes and approach towards relationships and life in general, work on my self to be a better person, know what I really want in a man. then and only then I will be sure I'm ready for a fresh start up.
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by faitheverest(f): 3:22pm On Nov 08, 2016
Oga if na your sister you go gree??
If Linda na your elder sis, you go allow f***p
Ana akogheri
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by dabrightt: 3:22pm On Nov 08, 2016
dasparrow:
@Post



Back in the day, My mothers stood by My fathers when they had nothing. Yet, once a little change entered my father's pocket, he quickly forgot my mothers - the wife of their youth - and started marrying younger women like it is going out of style. .
Expirience is the best teacher..sorry
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:22pm On Nov 08, 2016
ItsMePuffPuff:
I was aftessi g yer meme ,I already addressed the thread

Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by adeowo84(m): 3:23pm On Nov 08, 2016
Frankraj:
If you are a young man and you want to marry all the ashawooo graduates everywhere wey use runs finish school and use runs to pay school fees. Most of them pretend a lot they claim to be innocent but one thing they can't hide is how materilistic they are. So if you are a guy planing to marry a Nigerian graduate even 300k a month will not be able to take care of the marriage other wise she will be cheating on you even after you married her and she will fvking other men to collect money

guy u talk true...as a class rep for one of d uni in d south few years ago, i see ladies who runs virtually everything, now how can such delude soul be comfortable and be faithful...i see on facebook and i shake my head cos some even stoop so low to sleep with me o...

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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:23pm On Nov 08, 2016
faitheverest:
Oga if na your sister you go gree??
If Linda na your elder sis, you go allow f***p
Ana akogheri

nwa nkea sef! grin grin grin grin
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:29pm On Nov 08, 2016
kellyimma:
Nice one, Mr dipo.

mmmhhh... nwa aba mere agree, ihe adigo mma! grin grin grin
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:33pm On Nov 08, 2016
goingape2:
naija women are olushi from the very beginning!

a fresh graduate girl much have fvkced all her way through during undergraduate and after but when the clock is moving faster, thats when you will be seeing them forming innocent and gentle.

dont marry a naija women!

all of them are very stvpid and gold digger

Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Frankraj: 3:34pm On Nov 08, 2016
lefulefu:
bros oo u talking about runz babes .were u unlucky to date a campus runz babe?? Its easy to know them.

To very sincere with you 90 % of all the young girls in nigeria now are into runs, what differenciate them are the once who go to club, those who are call girls and those who are short time girls . And the fee they charges for fvk both small or high fee , all are runs girls
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Catastrophe1: 3:37pm On Nov 08, 2016
I just dey observe
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:38pm On Nov 08, 2016
Dfinex:


bros no vex carry ur frustration go one place. ....what is all this?


chaiii... nkea wutere gi well well! grin grin
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Nobody: 3:38pm On Nov 08, 2016
trendyprettygir:

Unrealistic twitter post.

A woman might choose not to marry a guy because he earns less than 200k; however this does not mean she is not a wife material.

A woman might insist on marrying a man who earns 1M and yet she still makes a good wife material.

The harsh realities of life and the present state of the economy, is enough for every lady out there to do a rethink before marrying just anybody.

Who would pay the bills? How about food? Rent? School fees? Is it your fellow twitter users, Dr. Dipo or your fellow nairalanders?

I sincerely do not agree that a woman should just marry anybody, simply because he is a man and earns "something".

People should stop typing false misleading and unrealistic post as you can end up marrying a girl who you think is a wife material because you earn 50,000 and at the end of the day she starts cheating when things turn do not turn out right.
There are ladies married to very rich men who still cheat on them as if there is no tommorow.funny thing is that such guys the married ladies hang out with are mostly poor and they use their rich husbands money to sponsor such guys.a married lady who wants to cheat will cheat weather the husband is richer than bill gates or not.

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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Frankraj: 3:39pm On Nov 08, 2016
adeowo84:


guy u talk true...as a class rep for one of d uni in d south few years ago, i see ladies who runs virtually everything, now how can such delude soul be comfortable and be faithful...i see on facebook and i shake my head cos some even stoop so low to sleep with me o...

I wonder why a guy will have a girlfriend who is on facebook and she has more or less 1500 friends and you are calling her your girlfriend and you say you are dating her ? Do you know how many guys that fvk her in a week through Facebook and they book hotel . If you have a girl you say u date that's on facebook , my brother she is nothing but an online prostituttte .don't decieve yourself .

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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by millionboi(m): 3:41pm On Nov 08, 2016
TheRealestGuy:
Most materialistic girls end up staying at home for a long long time.

Most 'men' can smell materialism from two miles away, and that's when we plot to 'hit and run'...
e.g linda

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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:43pm On Nov 08, 2016
Dfinex:


lolsss. ....taking a break actually.


i refuse... ngwanu, come let me break your break... grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by laprince(m): 3:44pm On Nov 08, 2016
eph12:
Don't know about you all but guys earning even less than 100k get married every week. Forget about those girls running their mouths online, they do leave their madness online. And the few that continues their madness offline, well they're what they are, few and inconsequential. They will always find reason to want to be unhappy. It's in their blood.

A gentle flow of undiluted wisdom.
Many likes for you.

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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Dfinex(f): 3:45pm On Nov 08, 2016
metallisc:


chaiii... nkea wutere gi well well! grin grin
lolss...no mind that guy.
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Dfinex(f): 3:47pm On Nov 08, 2016
metallisc:


i refuse... ngwanu, come let me break your break... grin grin grin grin grin
lolss...my own criteria pass Linda Ikeji own oo
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by metallisc(m): 3:49pm On Nov 08, 2016
Dfinex:


lolss...my own criteria pass Linda Ikeji own oo

Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by tosyne2much(m): 4:10pm On Nov 08, 2016
Olumaeme:
Na 200k Dipo they talk like moi moi.
How many average Nigerians earn 100k per month not to talk of 200k
When according to United Nations, we are living averagely below $1.

Let's look at the salary scale of the Nigeria Civil service, before you would earn 200k, you will definitely be a big man, even in some private firms, 200k is not even easy to come by.

Some Nigerian ladies are very greedy and selfish, instead of them to invest the time they used in chasing and looking for rich boyfriends to better their life.

This from poor homes are even annoying, immediately they meet you, they start talking about house rent, school fees, hehehehehehehehehehehehehe modaran, Na me born you?

I am extremely happy I met my woman even before I was 21 and we have been together from the days I make 20k to 30k to 40k and now hundreds of thousands, and she also been contributing meaningfully and significantly to the growth.

But, had it been I don't have anyone and was able to get to this present stage, I will never ever marry a lady who is not up to par in terms of finances, I will never get hooked to a liability... Lai lai.

You know this naija gals think they are wise, I tell guys that when you have a good car, you don't even need to spend much, maybe 2-3k for the first 2 dates, because they will be running after you and all you need to do is little promise and they will cook with their mine, give you all the styles and you dump them.

They might even have a boyfriend but will treat the poor boy like trash just to make things up to you.

Abeg, make I go hustle...


God bless the Real and True Nigerian women jare!
I find this comment very Intriguing... Nice one bro
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by trendyprettygir: 4:12pm On Nov 08, 2016
lefulefu:

There are ladies married to very rich men who still cheat on them as if there is no tommorow.funny thing is that such guys the married ladies hang out with are mostly poor and they use their rich husbands money to sponsor such guys.a married lady who wants to cheat will cheat weather the husband is richer than bill gates or not.

Good. And hope you now get the idea.

A lady can marry a poor man and still cheat, it does not make her a good wife material.

A lady can marry a rich man and still cheat it does not make her a good wife material.

A lady can marry a poor man and be content, she maybe a good wife material.

A lady can marry a rich man and be content, she maybe a good wife material.

All is a matter of personal principles and moral standing.

A lady accepting to marry a man earning less than 200k does not qualify her as a good wife material please, that is the main essence of my first post!
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by nishola17(f): 4:15pm On Nov 08, 2016
rose54321:
rubbish..
It all depends on your standard of living, if you have been accustomed to something higher, then N200K will not be sufficient.
You would like your kids to go to a school either equal to or better than you did.
You would like to live in a house at atleast equal to or better than you did when you were a child.
There are so many factors, and so people should not just think N200K is the end of the world.

Its a big amount to some people, its all relative to the lifestyle you were brought up with.
Will you expect DJ Cuppy who is used to living large to settle for that, definitely not.

So please stop all this poverty mentality. grin
Very sensible comment . Money has always been and will always be relative
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Nobody: 4:17pm On Nov 08, 2016
Frankraj:


To very sincere with you 90 % of all the young girls in nigeria now are into runs, what differenciate them are the once who go to club, those who are call girls and those who are short time girls . And the fee they charges for fvk both small or high fee , all are runs girls
see my brother when u are in the univs u see different type of ladies with d/f orientation and ambition.there are those ladies who are just ambitious and want to make it big in life.there are those who just want to get a get a good degree and move on...and there are those who thinks that life ends in the univ.that life is all about breaching your skin,buying an expensive Iphone and flashy clothes.it is this 3rd group that enter into the runz game.if a lady is not materialistic there is nothing u will say to her that will convince her to do runz.its about a lady setting her priorities right.
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by nishola17(f): 4:19pm On Nov 08, 2016
Cut your coat according to your size , money is relative , go for who you can afford and manage ....simple
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by tosyne2much(m): 4:31pm On Nov 08, 2016
hadura29:


Dem yapa for NL Na,

Just tell myd44 Lalasiclala ishlove to hook up. You wey be Celebrity...
Celeb ke? shocked
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by goingape2: 4:34pm On Nov 08, 2016
Dfinex:


ok..truth is I need to re-evaluate my life, my attitudes and approach towards relationships and life in general, work on my self to be a better person, know what I really want in a man. then and only then I will be sure I'm ready for a fresh start up.
you are one hell of a strange woman!


i haven't see any of your type who boldly say she need to work on herself and re evaluate what went wrong during the last relationship and make it better in the future!.

i like you! your type is rare to find!

keep it up sure you will see a good man like your personality!

unlike we! we are given up base on our experience.
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by warmachine(m): 4:34pm On Nov 08, 2016
Joy1706:
Everybody has freedom of choice. If a woman wants a guy who earns above 200k monthly, that's ok. It's her life and her business. Doesn't make her wife material any less.



Kia....You again!!!!.....please get sense na....please embarassed
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by goingape2: 4:36pm On Nov 08, 2016
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Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by goingape2: 4:37pm On Nov 08, 2016
dabrightt:
Is your mum from togo
no
Re: Woman Who Won't Marry You Because You Earn Less Than N200k Is No Wife Material by Nobody: 4:41pm On Nov 08, 2016
trendyprettygir:


Good. And hope you now get the idea.

A lady can marry a poor man and still cheat, it does not make her a good wife material.

A lady can marry a rich man and still cheat it does not make her a good wife material.

A lady can marry a poor man and be content, she maybe a good wife material.

A lady can marry a rich man and be content, she maybe a good wife material.

All is a matter of personal principles and moral standing.

A lady accepting to marry a man earning less than 200k does not qualify her as a good wife material please, that is the main essence of my first post!
If she is earning a large sum herself then ppl might take her seriously if she talks about not marrying a man earning less than 200k and she has a point.If she is Dangote's daughter she also has a point.But if its coming frm someone who her dad is a gateman the guy would ask what's her own contribution to the table. Anyway we can all make wishes afterall Adamu the truck pusher hopes one day to get married to Kim kardeshian when kanye west divorces her.

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