SMH. No worry leave am. They are telling u wat to do, u are dere saying u don't want him to hate u. If he accidentally knows you have being hiding all dis bull crap in ur mind, he will love u more.


Man behaving like woman mtweeee

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

You amuse me. Citing your submissions, it's obvious that you're more concerned about what people will think about you, thereby denying yourself and family the rightful thing to do under the circumstance which is to show him the way out. Dear, all the real people I know don't live on other people's opinion, instead they strive to do what the think and know is the best solution to any need at a given time.

In fact, let me dissect your hidden thought and fear. What exists between you and your so called friend now is a frenemy relationship, because the boundary that hold the possible friendship both of you had in the past broke the very day you allowed an overfamiliarity to creep in.

So far, he's more of a predator to you, and you allowed this to persist because of your potential leechlike attitude. Yes, I say have a leechlike like attitude because you're allowing his potential future breakthrough in the music world to keep you entangled to his predaceous disposition.

Bleep what outsiders will say and learn to build your hope and happiness around your ambition. . . . Doing this will help you live a conscientious lifestyle which is equal to a happy lifestyle.

hmmm. Thanks a bunch bro. I'm motivated by this, I must say

frubben:
SMH. No worry leave am. They are telling u wat to do, u are dere saying u don't want him to hate u. If he accidentally knows you have being hiding all dis bull crap in ur mind, he will love u more.


Man behaving like woman mtweeee

don't blame me bro. Tonight na tonight. I'll be a man and tell Him. Hope the result aint gon be bad

fergieboy:


Now that's the spirit am looking for.. Now man up and do what u gotta do..

okay!!!

Tell him directly

Tajbol4splend:
Tell him directly

i will bro, tonight.

You are too nice, sweetheart. He has overstayed his welcome. Ask him nicely to leave as it was only going to be a temporary situation or else he has to contribute more money to the household for his upkeep--food, utilities and rent. Get the police and his family involved if it gets ugly, he is holding you folks hostage--you all are entitled to your own space and privacy. Who needs a friend like that? Good luck dear.

Mustiboy:
i will bro, tonight.

I'll truly be glad

amross16:
You are too nice, sweetheart. He has overstayed his welcome. Ask him nicely to leave as it was only going to be a temporary situation or else he has to contribute more money to the household for his upkeep--food, utilities and rent. Get the police and his family involved if it gets ugly, he is holding you folks hostage--you all are entitled to your own space and privacy. Who needs a friend like that? Good luck dear.

yea sis. We don't ask Him for anything though coz that'll only give him the chance to feel He stands a ground. All he does is to sweep the house whenever I've gone to school. But when I'm back, I do my thing myself.
I'll tell him whenever we're having our supper tonight. I just hope He doesn't get hurt coz I never wanna hurt him

Mustiboy:
you see sister, we never had an agreement on him staying this long. He just came like He's the arbiter of the house and like he owns it. Somefin like that would never happen if my dad was alive. So, how can you say I'm doing eye service help? I don't take credit for accommodating him or anything. He should have asked in the first place if I could agree and not just bumping into my house like he's sure I wouldn't say no

don't get it twisted. . What I meant by eye service is that you are just enduring and not finding the situation pleasant. .stylishly tell him something that will make him leave. .your mum deserves her privacy no matter what..even your friends you think will leave or laugh @u will even c reasons to it...also help your friend by looking for a cheap one room accommodation ..

uzobaby:
don't get it twisted. . What I meant by eye service is that you are just enduring and not finding the situation pleasant. .stylishly tell him something that will make him leave. .your mum deserves her privacy no matter what..even your friends you think will leave or laugh @u will even c reasons to it...also help your friend by looking for a cheap one room accommodation ..

my friend is stingy, I must say. He hardly buys anything with His money. So, I don't think He'll be willing to rent a room somewhere. He love awoof things

Mustiboy:
my friend is stingy, I must say. He hardly buys anything with His money. So, I don't think He'll be willing to rent a room somewhere. He love awoof things

join all the advice given to you and do the needful. .or keep on enjoying his stay..the world will not fall if he leaves. .but the way you keep defending him makes it seem you still want him around. .you know better

uzobaby:
join all the advice given to you and do the needful. .or keep on enjoying his stay..the world will not fall if he leaves. .but the way you keep defending him makes it seem you still want him around. .you know better

aiit ma'am

i think u are the type that accommodate on the expense of ur privacy,u should have told him right from the onset .

Long ago, while iin my parent's house. We had tenants that can easily double as an extended family, though twas inconvenient for us because my parent rode herd on everyone equally, we share our home with total strangers daily.
Truth iis, I personally can relate to being subjected to same treatment since I left my parents abode to live alone.
Your Mum iis unintentionally building an exotic wall of favour for ya'll via alms n accommodating your friend.
#MyCandidOpinion iis that you stomach all your frustration n allow the head of the family to decide on your friend's fate.

take care of home before impressing the streets.

Guy wey u dey stay...inbox me your state n address lemme come n eject dat devil for u. Wen he's gone u pay 4 d service

vimi:
Long ago, while iin my parent's house. We had tenants that can easily double as an extended family, though twas inconvenient for us because my parent rode herd on everyone equally, we share our home with total strangers daily.
Truth iis, I personally can relate to being subjected to same treatment since I left my parents abode to live alone.
Your Mum iis unintentionally building an exotic wall of favour for ya'll via alms n accommodating your friend.
#MyCandidOpinion iis that you stomach all your frustration n allow the head of the family to decide on your friend's fate.

hmmm. As much as ur opinion is in contrast with others here. It's apparently n considerably reasonable. But bro, you mean I should just pretend all is fine? Hmmm. Now, this is confusion

FuckyourMama:
Guy wey u dey stay...inbox me your state n address lemme come n eject dat devil for u. Wen he's gone u pay 4 d service

ah! Bro abeg free my nigga. I like Him

wait he stayed with u guys a year plus now?
and ur mum is comfortable with it?
if na my mama she ain't wicked o ,u don't call it wickedness if days how u tagged it she will pack him and his belongings take him home to his parent and won't ask for my consent simply because she won't like to hear dat ha child is in a different home staying dere for two days not to talk about 1yr....guy man up stop being a nothing, because if na gal self she for don tell ha shap shap,


bro call him and talk to him like a broda u claim u guys are tell him your family needs space if him like mak him hate everybody. u pple prefer pleases human at d expense of ur own happiness u go cry o

Kindly tell the dude to leave ur house. If u keep doin things based on what ppl wuld say. u wont live at all cos ppl wuld complain always.
You have tried for accomodating him this long, tell him to leave by december end.
Your happiness is important also. All the best bro!

and later yu go dey shine eye for your gf like say na your prick big pass, ordinary man wey no carry gun, yu no fit tell make him comot yur house. shioor!.
This is why i don't keep friends(and friends dont keep me) . I am annoyingly Blunt...even to those i love. It's called tough love. And to hell with yu if yu cannot deal with the truth.
Btw OP. You Are A Pucci. dem for exchange yu for sanitry pad!

amross16:
You are too nice, sweetheart. He has overstayed his welcome. Ask him nicely to leave as it was only going to be a temporary situation or else he has to contribute more money to the household for his upkeep--food, utilities and rent. Get the police and his family involved if it gets ugly, he is holding you folks hostage--you all are entitled to your own space and privacy. Who needs a friend like that? Good luck dear.

get the police? No no, there will be no need for such, the guy'll be reasonable enough to leave without been forced.

It's almost night time now,
Please,let's know the outcome...
I pray liver never fail you....

oga op dis tin dey very easy,tell am say ur papa pple don dey suspect am 2 dey sleep wit ur mum,kum dey act lyk frnd since una no dey related and say dem dey threaten ur mum 2 send him(d boy)packing or dey send her packing.

Mustiboy:
He works and He's also a prospective musician. He makes noise at night whenever he's rehearsing with his lyrics. I tell him to stop but he won't. I jokingly tell him to stop some things i don't like(I'm not brave to tell him directly and i don't wanna hurt him) but he just won't listen. I tire my brother

Never displease yourself to please anyone. NEVER!

That's all I can tell u.

lazeal:
Never displease yourself to please anyone. NEVER!

That's all I can tell u.

thanks bro

Agboki:
oga op dis tin dey very easy,tell am say ur papa pple don dey suspect am 2 dey sleep wit ur mum,kum dey act lyk frnd since una no dey related and say dem dey threaten ur mum 2 send him(d boy)packing or dey send her packing.

ahn ahn? Bros. This one big pass my mouth o

LaClickLaBend:
and later yu go dey shine eye for your gf like say na your prick big pass, ordinary man wey no carry gun, yu no fit tell make him comot yur house. shioor!.
This is why i don't keep friends(and friends dont keep me) . I am annoyingly Blunt...even to those i love. It's called tough love. And to hell with yu if yu cannot deal with the truth.
Btw OP. You Are A Pucci. dem for exchange yu for sanitry pad!

lol. Bro, chillax naw. Tonight na tonight

sevantex:
Kindly tell the dude to leave ur house. If u keep doin things based on what ppl wuld say. u wont live at all cos ppl wuld complain always.
You have tried for accomodating him this long, tell him to leave by december end.
Your happiness is important also. All the best bro!

thanks bro. It's all about to get down. I'm just waiting to tell him after supper

Mustiboy:
my Dad's dead. And if I was to tell him it was my mum that said He should move out, He'd hate my mum

i'v bn reading ur post,coments&reply, but wen i got here! i undstand u r a 1st class oluku(ode) or 419 blogger. if not, ur mumu frnd like u wil hate ur mum if u tell him to get the hell out of dat house? or he's d one feeding ur home all togeda? u r a disgrace 2ur late father behaving like inbec, ur type wil be afraid to pull woman pant 4s*x. and why is anoda man coming to levrage on ur late dad? i suspect he killd ur dad cos ur mum supose 2go to his house,i tink he doesnt have house? now u got 2intruda rit dia wit u, they wil both kill u like ur dad, be brave to send away d 2now or remain dump 4ever and stop disturbing us here.

Op, u don tell the nigga to leave ur house? abi liver cut u.