Dear Friends please I need your advise.
I have this guy have been dating for months, and we have not had sex before.
what troubling me now is that he once dated my friend, not like she is my close friend, we just gist sometimes when we see our self in school, at the first instance when the guy was asking me out, I had to make some findings, then some people told me he dated my friend, when I asked him he told me everything that happened in the relationship, how she cheated on him and treated him like shit, I took pity on him and I decided to date him,but i did not tell my friend. the day she found out she was crying and she reported me to her friends that I snatched her boyfriend, I gave her some space then later explained everything to her, she said she has gotten over it and she is cool with it.
We have been dating for months now and we are doing good, he has improved me both spiritually, mentally, and physically.
But I don't know why I have a bad feeling like maybe "he used me to get back at her" maybe "he wants her to be hurt the way she hurted him " maybe "he wants her to realize what she lost by not valuing it". (cus he loved her so much) this questions just keep popping into my mind. I feel so scared that he might wake up one morning and say he is going back to his ex, I feel guilty most time because I interfered into their relationship. I just have this random thought most time.
Please I need some advice......

I think he saw something in you,that is why he came for you. He improved you physically,spiritually,mentally,that alone is enough for you have trust in him.

all tat crap is what ruins a good relationship


oh.. n you said you took pity on him n decided to date him?? who dafuq does tat?

bullshlt

babe let it go...don't let those thoughts ruin what you have with him. We all have doubt sometimes but what you will ask yourself is, is it worth it? if yes, den let it go!

Why letting ur mind playing tricks on u...u are in a relationship, face it.

ifybae:
Dear Friends please I need your advise.
I have this guy have been dating for months, and we have not had sex before.
what troubling me now is that he once dated my friend, not like she is my close friend, we just gist sometimes when we see our self in school, at the first instance when the guy was asking me out, I had to make some findings, then some people told me he dated my friend, when I asked him he told me everything that happened in the relationship, how she cheated on him and treated him like shit, I took pity on him and I decided to date him,but i did not tell my friend. the day she found out she was crying and she reported me to her friends that I snatched her boyfriend, I gave her some space then later explained everything to her, she said she has gotten over it and she is cool with it.
We have been dating for months now and we are doing good, he has improved me both spiritually, mentally, and physically.
But I don't know why I have a bad feeling like maybe "he used me to get back at her" maybe "he wants her to be hurt the way she hurted him " maybe "he wants her to realize what she lost by not valuing it". (cus he loved her so much) this questions just keep popping into my mind. I feel so scared that he might wake up one morning and say he is going back to his ex, I feel guilty most time because I interfered into their relationship. I just have this random thought most time.
Please I need some advice......

The repercussion of dating someone out of pity is what is actually troubling you, just deal with it fam.

ifybae:
Dear Friends please I need your advise.
I have this guy have been dating for months, and we have not had sex before.
what troubling me now is that he once dated my friend, not like she is my close friend, we just gist sometimes when we see our self in school, at the first instance when the guy was asking me out, I had to make some findings, then some people told me he dated my friend, when I asked him he told me everything that happened in the relationship, how she cheated on him and treated him like shit, I took pity on him and I decided to date him ......

Bull crap..! Read nothing afterwards

[email]you date him out of pity[/email] naija girls are just annoying... Who is Yor daddy??

You took pity on him and decided to date him...

thorpido:
You took pity on him and decided to date him...

you taking it the wrong way. wanted to make him happy again

ifybae:

you taking it the wrong way. wanted to make him happy again

Then I'll say you should stay with him and continue making him happy.

However,there are no guarantees in relationships and he may break up with you the way he did with his ex.You also may not have a good relationship with that friend of yours again.Like you also said,there is a possibility that he may reconcile with his ex in the future.

ifybae:
you taking it the wrong way. wanted to make him happy again

excuse of the century

ifybae:
Dear Friends please I need your advise.
I have this guy have been dating for months, and we have not had sex before.
what troubling me now is that he once dated my friend, not like she is my close friend, we just gist sometimes when we see our self in school, at the first instance when the guy was asking me out, I had to make some findings, then some people told me he dated my friend, when I asked him he told me everything that happened in the relationship, how she cheated on him and treated him like shit, I took pity on him and I decided to date him,but i did not tell my friend. the day she found out she was crying and she reported me to her friends that I snatched her boyfriend, I gave her some space then later explained everything to her, she said she has gotten over it and she is cool with it.
We have been dating for months now and we are doing good, he has improved me both spiritually, mentally, and physically.
But I don't know why I have a bad feeling like maybe "he used me to get back at her" maybe "he wants her to be hurt the way she hurted him " maybe "he wants her to realize what she lost by not valuing it". (cus he loved her so much) this questions just keep popping into my mind. I feel so scared that he might wake up one morning and say he is going back to his ex, I feel guilty most time because I interfered into their relationship. I just have this random thought most time.
Please I need some advice......

oya balotteli giyam 1

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kenir:


excuse of the century

Gosh!! you so impossible

kenir:


excuse of the century

Gosh!! you so impossible

ifybae:

you taking it the wrong way. wanted to make him happy again

You wanted to make him happy