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| Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:31pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
"Date someone who could drop their phone next to you on the couch and leave the room, but you wouldn't even think of picking it up and going through the messages. YOU KNOW THAT THERE ISN'T ANYTHING ON THERE FOR YOU TO FIND. You know that they haven't been texting anyone else. You know that they only have room in their heart for you. Date someone who could come home late from work, or stay out with his friends until midnight, and you wouldn't worry too much about it. Someone you know wouldn't cheat you, even if his/her stomach was swimming with liquor. SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS EXACTLY WHERE HE SAYS HE IS, BECAUSE HE/SHE WOULD NEVER DREAM OF TELLING A LIE. DATE SOMEONE WHO COULD TEXT ONE OF THEIR CLOSE (opposite gender) FRIENDS, AND YOU WOULDN'T BE JEALOUS. You wouldn't wonder if she's prettier (he's better) than you. You wouldn't wonder if she/he is somehow going to steal him/her away. YOU KNOW THAT HE CHOSE YOU FOR A REASON. You know thai if he/she says NOTHING between the two of them, then it is the HONEST TO GOODNESS TRUTH. Date someone you could have a dream about cheating you, but wouldn't wake up and wonder whether he is really going around behind your back. You wouldn't take it as a sign. You wouldn't read too far into it, because YOU KNOW THE REALITY IS BETTER THAN ANY DREAM. You know that he would never hurt you, because he/she is wild about you as you are about him/her. Date someone who could go away on a business trip for a weekend and YOU WOULDN'T SECOND GUESS whether or not the trip actually exists. You wouldn't freak out about him/her getting a hotel room for himself/herself. You wouldn't get paranoid about whether he's/she's going to take advantage of the opportunity and invite someone back to his bed. DATE SOMEONE WHO YOU CAN ACTUALLY SAY THAT YOU TRUST. SOMEONE AUTHENTIC. SOMEONE WHO IS TRANSPARENT. SOMEONE WHO IS LOYAL AND RELIABLE AND HONEST AF. Date someone who isn't shy about giving you the password to his email, wifi, phone, or Netflix account. Someone who isn't overly protective when you ask to use his computer or borrow his phone for a minute. Someone who is willing to share every piece of his life with you as long as you are willing to do the same. Date someone who never makes you feel unattractive even for one second. Someone who never makes you feel like you should be having more sex with him/her or should be or should be wearing more lingerie. Someone who never makes you feel pressured to do something you're uncomfortable doing. Date someone who is fulfilled by you and only you and let's you know that. DATE SOMEONE WHO IS PROUD TO WEAR HIS/HER RING TO WORK. Who is proud to post pictures of you together on social media or prop photos of you onto his/her desk. Date someone who loves you. Someone you can trust. Someone you are sure would never hurt you." (By Holly Riordan). 5 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Please I take god beg you, no near my phone and I won't near yours. I love my privacy. Capisce!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rolex67:Which of the gods?, Amadioha?.  3 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
How imaginative ! Sounds like Telemundo... Paloma and Diego.. But then the reality is when such people appear, the voices in the head, the voices in the mind, the demons in the head ! obstructs our views and make us under-appreciate good people. Good people isn't the crux in the matter in live issues, but the clumsiness in the heads of people and the filth, impurity and logs in their eyes and the kill switch mechanism they have in their left hands and mind... Peace is an illusion. Mankind's greatest problem is the ability to stay put without vacillating, thrown away by barrage of storms that hit left,right and centre by wandering thoughts. Even when good people come our ways, they are shielded by the fears and the protective mechanisms we set in our own very minds ! It's not who we date, it's how cleansed our minds and souls are my brother..We should treat ourselves and get ourselves ready if dating is a phase in our lives we want to take seriously, cause the inconsistencies would just twitch the brain cells of the other person and then " Cablu-eee " Ps KreativGenius/Zykod/Jupxter - to a fellow great thinker - WordWorld ! I dedicate this piece to my new friends here Martin0 Lefulefu Belafonte Ubunja WordWorld Hasbydiamond 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rolex67: Why una too like to dey jump like kangaro.Dont tell me you spent not up to 2 minutes in reading that whole stuff. Check out my posting time and your response time. The post is not talking about privacy but TRUST. Chai oya do another frog jump make i see. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Just keep an open-mind in any relationship. Always expect the worse from people 'cause change is constant. 1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
 ∆ My phone ?? Don go there ∆ |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
@WordWorld....What do you have to say to this kinda mindset ? " Just keep an open-mind in any relationship. Always expect the worse from people 'cause change is constant. " I've addressed this kinda mindset in my comments above, now your turn ! Cc : Martin0 Cc: Ubunja Cc: Belafonte Cc: Lefulefu Cc: Hasbydiamond |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:I read it and got annoyed, why must a guy check his girlfriend's phone to build trust? |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Jupxter: Bro you cant give what you dont have. SELF LOVE comes first. How can you love another when you love not yourself. I really like what you wrote up there not just the TRUTH but the style with which you have expressed yourself, smooth and well knitted. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by ashewoboy(m): 9:47pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
really! who will do all that? how would you even know? what a crappy write up. you can do some of those things buh not all. na wa oh. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by makydebbie(f): 9:47pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rolex67:Team fingerprint we gat no worries. 
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| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
WORDWORLD: It's not about self love...Read my piece once again, you're hasty ! Cmon brov, you can do better ! "It's not th spoon that bends, it's we " - Matrix, remember this message passed to Neo? It's not good peopledon't come into our lives...It's our own barricades of fear, insecurities, second-guessing, doubts...etc..of self-inflicting thoughts that throws us into storms of uncertainities shielding us from healthy social interactions and not people biko kwa ! It's we treating ourselves and purifying the soul that we can see better...This and more is what i say, cause people don't recognize good persons till they're gone most times...You see what i mean now? |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by MissJoy29(f): 9:48pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Chai! And I had all that in ONE guy! He was unarguably the best. Wherever you are EM, this post is dedicated to you for being everything up there and more...  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
makydebbie:Same way I will be sleeping jejely, person wey I no send message go come open my phone with my finger, I will just wake up. Always be security conscious .1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:50pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rolex67: Babe no be Swahili i write na. Where d tin talk say "guy check girlfriend phone". See as you jump like FROG wey snake dey pursue. You no read am jor na NONSENSE u dey wan. Radarara!!! |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
MissJoy29: When we treat you ladies this way, una no dey suspect? I hardly ever hear good treatment of ladies go down well. I don join the Ubunja crew...No more nice-treatment of ladies. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by makydebbie(f): 9:51pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rolex67:Bae lemme teach you. Phones that uses fingerprint to open, when you reboot your phone, it requests for pattern or whatever you use as backup password. So before you sleep, reboot your phone. You kuku know day time he no sabi your pattern cos na fingerprint you dey use. I dey sleep like dead woman so na my scope be that. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:53pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
makydebbie:Chai, I like this babe o . |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by makydebbie(f): 9:53pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Jupxter:Lol, I'll love to see your try with my protective measures. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by makydebbie(f): 9:54pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
makydebbie:Na the work wey dey do . |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by mazimee(m): 9:55pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rolex67: Na your kind of person phone me dey like to touch. If you hide too much, you end up getting me curious |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
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| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:58pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
makydebbie: Trust me, i won't use three minutes to unlock it...You no know scores sha...I dey look you dey laff, finger print unlock technique that has been perfected since over 10 years now... All i need is a tablet of valium in your drink self, make i no go too technical... The more protective the world goes, the more extreme people go to unlock what is protected...Yinmu.. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 9:58pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
mazimee:I don't cheat, I just want you to respect my privacy, guys don't know their boundaries in a relationship, why should a guy check my phone or ask for my social media passwords? It doesn't make any sense and I won't give. |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by MissJoy29(f): 9:59pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
Jupxter:See you na! Are you sure you can be an acclaimed bad boy? That one actually requires more work than being a good guy. Besides, who mentioned anything about "treatment" in the post? 1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by dollyjoy(f): 10:00pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
The reason I don't follow most of these online advice is because they are usually given by people who do not have real life experiences about the things they actually advice people about. I mean,what in heaven's name is date this or that, how are you supposed to know the person you have fallen so much in love with is insecured or has shortcomings you might not be comfortable with? What in heaven's name is wrong with not giving your passwords out because you feel there are some things your partner is not supposed to know so long it won't affect him. What manner of silly post is this.  3 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
MissJoy29: Hahahaha @ That one actually requires more work than being a good guy. I was a bad guy until 23-25 oh ! I met God how Paul met God, and that was my turning point ! If you know how hard i was before ehn.... |
| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by makydebbie(f): 10:02pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
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| Re: Have You Ever Dated This Kind Of Person? If Not, Try Biko. by Nobody: 10:02pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
dollyjoy: God bless you...A person hiding passwords while dating isn't dating with purpose...People and insecurities sha, the insecurities of the one hiding is more than the one snooping...Yeye, an wetin people dey search for, dem dey see sha !  |
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