Developing your inner game simply means taking full use of potentials. You can attribute your inner game to both mind set and experience. Your inner game has a lot to do with your confidence. You can't develop confidence unless you believe in yourself and practice self assurance. Inner game has a lot to do with mind set too.

If you continue to perceive yourself as a sorry loser, then that is what you will project to the outside world. Have a positive mind set for encouraging results on your inner game. Here are some tips to work on your inner game.

Have a positive outlook in life. Think "I can do it" and chances are "you can do it". Winning a game, or topping an exams, to scoring with a girl is first "won" in your head. You have to think that you are going to do it to have a mind set for the "win". If you think you can't, then half the battle has been lost already.

Do not let the results obsessed you. Do the best you can and stop worrying about the outcome. In a game of golf, having a mind set of you winning the tournament is well and good. However if during the game you keep on obsessing about winning, you are definitely distracting yourself which could upset your chances of actually playing well.

Center your attention on having fun. Just have fun! Tell yourself that you are confident and self-assured. Tell yourself that you are ready to face the challenge. If you look like someone who is fun to be with, girls will gravitate towards you.

Do not be afraid to try new things. Be adventurous but not to the point of the ridiculous or dangerous. Life is too short. You need to widen and broaden your horizon to gain experience. Approach the girl. If she refuses to even acknowledge your presence back off and "rewind". What was the mistake in the approach? Think! Experience is the greatest teacher.

Do not dwell on what you cannot change. Work on your positive points and attributes. Do not waste your time lamenting on the negatives that you cannot change. If you are short, there's no way you can be tall unless you use platform shoes or science has invented a new human growth hormone. Focus on the positive. Develop your endearing qualities and you will be a better person for that.

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