I know the first thing you are probably thinking is that it is impossible to be friends with the opposite sex, With men and women intermingling in various circles of life that were gender-specific in the past (home, the workplace, sports, school), people of the opposite sex are discovering new common ground and more reasons to be friends. But with the media constantly showing male/female friendships evolving into romantic relationships, many are convinced that a long-term, truly platonic friendship between individuals of the opposite sex just isn't possible. Romantic interest, physical attraction and sometimes, the jealousy of significant others can threaten to sabotage a cross-gender friendship. However, those risks can be circumvented by setting boundaries from the start. It's tricky, but it can be done.


Below are 5 ways to be friends with a member of the opposite sex by Wikihow.

1. Decide What Your True Feelings Are

Determine how you feel about the person, and how they feel about you. Be honest with yourself.
Do you find yourself fantasizing about what a relationship would be like with them?
If you weren't in a relationship, if they were single, or if something else wasn't in the way, would you probably be romantically interested?
Do they seem to be romantically inclined towards you? Remember that actions speak louder than words. Trust your gut feeling.
Do you really believe that this person is better suited to you as a friend than as a romantic partner? Why? Your answer to this question is what makes all the difference, and what will keep the relationship platonic when or if boundaries ever become blurred.

2. Define Your Relationship


Define your relationship as a friendship from the start. In any relationship, cross-gender friendships included, communication is key. Presumptions can lead to broken friendships, misunderstandings, and other problems down the line. Egos aside, address why you both want to be just friends. There's a period in most opposite sex friendships when you question whether or not you should be more. Address it early on. Both of you must want a strictly platonic friendship and understand that's all it will ever be. No matter what anyone says, it is possible to be just friends as long as you have that understanding (and a commitment to the friendship as just that) from the start.


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3. Include Your Significant Other

Talk to your significant other. Ask your friend to talk to theirs. Any insecurities or trust issues within a relationship will be magnified by a cross-gender friendship, especially if the friend is obviously attractive. The opposite-sex friend can often become a scapegoat for relationship problems, and a repeated source of contention. Honesty is the best policy.
Acknowledge any borderline feelings from the start, and provide a reason for friendship that outweighs those feelings.
Remind your significant other that you're committed to the relationship, and why.

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