There is just one thing I'd never do. I would
never, ever encourage a friend to cheat.
Especially when I have witnessed her man trying
to show her love in every way possible. If a
friend cheats on a man who really tries, who
shows her love ,you feel guilty .
Do not encourage her ! Angels are only found in heaven .
She went through his phone and discovered what
he has been doing behind her back. Ask her one
thing "What has he done in your presence
?" Has he ever held a woman in your
presence? Has he ever disrespected you to that
extent? Has he even given you doubts? Have you
ever suspected it through his actions? When you
ask your friend those questions and she answers
"No!" Tell her to never invade her man's privacy
because she will end up losing faith and probably
something good as a result of one silly text or
two.
Whatever he does behind your back should not
be your problem but as soon as you go through
his phone you immediately make that your
problem. Do not touch your man's phone . It does not belong to you unless he gives it to you... be a good friend

Nomfanelo99:
There is just one thing I'd never do. I would
never, ever encourage a friend to cheat.
Especially when I have witnessed her man trying
to show her love in every way possible. If a
friend cheats on a man who really tries, who
shows her love ,you feel guilty .
Do not encourage her ! Angels are only found in heaven .
She went through his phone and discovered what
he has been doing behind her back. Ask her one
thing "What has he done in your presence
?" Has he ever held a woman in your
presence? Has he ever disrespected you to that
extent? Has he even given you doubts? Have you
ever suspected it through his actions? When you
ask your friend those questions and she answers
"No!" Tell her to never invade her man's privacy
because she will end up losing faith and probably
something good as a result of one silly text or
two.
Whatever he does behind your back should not
be your problem but as soon as you go through
his phone you immediately make that your
problem. Do not touch your man's phone . It does not belong to you unless he gives it to you... be a good friend

right on point hun,remember the saying "what you don't know,will not kill you" nothing can be hidden under the sun forever.

skylane:
right on point hun,remember the saying "what you don't know,will not kill you" nothing can be hidden under the sun forever.

couldn't have said it better myself

Lovely post

It is necessary a girl does whatever she wants with her guy's phone and vice versa.



There should be no secret in a relationship.
If you you shouldn't know about his happenings in a device called phone, then one day you will know and that day it might be too late because you will definitely be at loss.
The earlier one finds out, the better for one and the better one's future.

Bluezy13:
It is necessary a girl does whatever she wants with her guy's phone and vice versa.



There should be no secret in a relationship.
If you you shouldn't know about his happenings in a device called phone, then one day you will know and that day it might be too late because you will definitely be at loss.
The earlier one finds out, the better for one and the better one's future.

Couldn't agree less with this post with atleast a like...if we can't have access to our phones then i doubt if we love and trust ourselves @nomfanelo99.

Nice,

The ish is, whether u have access to their phones, or passwords, someone that wants to cheat will still do it and cover up their tracks.

Trust is important tho, and its something we humans easily lose,

The main thing is to hope that the person you love, loves u as much as u love em

Nomfanelo99:
There is just one thing I'd never do. I would
never, ever encourage a friend to cheat.
Especially when I have witnessed her man trying
to show her love in every way possible. If a
friend cheats on a man who really tries, who
shows her love ,you feel guilty .
Do not encourage her ! Angels are only found in heaven .
She went through his phone and discovered what
he has been doing behind her back. Ask her one
thing "What has he done in your presence
?" Has he ever held a woman in your
presence? Has he ever disrespected you to that
extent? Has he even given you doubts? Have you
ever suspected it through his actions? When you
ask your friend those questions and she answers
"No!" Tell her to never invade her man's privacy
because she will end up losing faith and probably
something good as a result of one silly text or
two.
Whatever he does behind your back should not
be your problem but as soon as you go through
his phone you immediately make that your
problem. Do not touch your man's phone . It does not belong to you unless he gives it to you... be a good friend

u got my pm?

naija1stpikin:
u got my pm?

no I didn't

Low self-esteem and self worth is the problem here...

So op when he gives you hiv or std then what?

Everything you typed is hateful and with a friend like you damn who needs an enmy.

naija1stpikin:
u got my pm?

firstking01:
Couldn't agree less with this. post with atleast a like...if u we can't have access to our phones then i doubt if we love ourselves @nomfanelo99.

what happened to trust in relationships? i blv if you can't trust your partner thn i do see the need of being in that relationship .

Nomfanelo99:

no I didn't

check again

AngelSweetLips:
Low self-esteem and self worth is the problem here...

So op when he gives you hiv or std then what?

Everything you typed is hateful and with a friend like you damn who needs an enmy.

low self-esteem would be the reason for one to go through the phone at the first place unless your partner is doing Suspicious stuff . At the end of the day no ones perfect, even the ones who pretend to be are not

WebSurfer:
Lovely post

thank u

naija1stpikin:
check again

nothing there

Nomfanelo99:

nothing there

Nomfanelo99:



low self-esteem would be the reason for one to go through the phone at the first place unless your partner is doing Suspicious stuff . At the end of the day no ones perfect, even the ones who pretend to be are not

If you are in a committed relationship going through someone's phone is nothing.

Nomfanelo99:


what happened to trust in relationships? i blv if you can't trust your partner thn i do see the need of being in that relationship .

Analysing it critically and based on your assertions, you are the one who's at the expense of not having trust here...if we trust ourselves, then we should be free with our phones.

Nomfanelo, girl you deserve a hug.

firstking01:
Analysing it critically and based on your assertions, you are the one who's at the expense of not having trust here...if we trust ourselves, then we should be free with our phones.

if u trusted the person you with at the first place thn i don't see the need of going through their phone.

CorGier:
Nomfanelo, girl you deserve a hug.

i need one

AngelSweetLips:


If you are in a committed relationship going through someone's phone is nothing.

your opinion but I still wouldn't go through my partners phone . As long as there's trust thn I'm happy .

Nomfanelo99:


i need one

Seriously tho, it's rare finding a girl who just "gets", you know.

Nomfanelo99:


your opinion but I still wouldn't go through my partners phone . As long as there's trust thn I'm happy .

Your talking from both sides of your mouth. The op you stated as long as they're not doing it to your face it doesn't matter basically blaming the woman for finding the evidence while the culprit is innocent. Your op is misleading and a childish and self hating advice.

AngelSweetLips:


Your talking from both sides of your mouth. The op you stated as long as they're not doing it to your face it doesn't matter basically blaming the woman for finding the evidence while the culprit is innocent. Your op is misleading and a childish and self hating advice.

bare in mind this apply to both parties . Yes u may go through your partners phone if u want to or want to know the real him . Once u find your finders leave the the relationship . Don't be a detective n interrogate them . You got what you were looking for in the phone .At the end of the day guys cheat n lust wether there's proof or not

CorGier:


Seriously tho, it's rare finding a girl who just "gets", you know.

yeah but at the end of the day we all have different opinions on such matters

AngelSweetLips:


Your talking from both sides of your mouth. The op you stated as long as they're not doing it to your face it doesn't matter basically blaming the woman for finding the evidence while the culprit is innocent. Your op is misleading and a childish and self hating advice.

you see,this life,everyone is entitled to his or her opinion,we only choose what best works for us,some ppl choose that way,according to a friend she calls it "phone Audit" she will always endup crying on my shoulders after doing that with her Guy's phone,therefore always ruining wonderful moments,the thing is just to be happy,stay happy,live happy,for its only a matter of time and carefully observation all dirty secrets will be out on its own,

Nomfanelo99:

yeah but at the end of the day we all have different opinions on such matters

Yeah, true that. I feel you, plenty.

Bluezy13:
It is necessary a girl does whatever she wants with her guy's phone and vice versa.



There should be no secret in a relationship.
If you you shouldn't know about his happenings in a device called phone, then one day you will know and that day it might be too late because you will definitely be at loss.
The earlier one finds out, the better for one and the better one's future.

I can find one thousand and one holes in this seemed perfect post of yours.

Does a clean phone equates a clean heart? What if your partner deletes her chats with other guys? What if she flirts and filters her phone?

Relationship is a risk, so is love. Once you open your heart to love, You become vulnerable and have taken a risk of getting hurt irrespective of the means and causes.

But then can't we just live and love hoping for the best?

Alondra:
I can find one thousand and one holes in this seemed perfect post of yours.

Does a clean phone equates a clean heart? What if your partner deletes her chats with other guys? What if she flirts and filters her phone?

Relationship is a risk, so is love. Once you open your heart to love, You become vulnerable and haven't taken a risk of getting hurt irrespective of the means and causes.

But then can't we just live and love hoping for the best?

nice one Miss, u very right,relationship is a risk,life is a risk,standing up from your bed is a risk,lying down there is a risk,so its just to live your life on a calculated risk,that's y I always say it will only b a matter of time all will come out on its own, you deserve a hot cup of coffee this cold n windy morning.nice one

skylane:
nice one Miss, u very right,relationship is a risk,life is a risk,standing up form your bed is a risk,lying down there is a risk,so its just to live your life on a calculated risk,that's y I always,it will only b a matter of time all will come out on its own, you deserve a hot cup of coffee this cold n windy morning.nice one

Thanks