I am a 23-year-old girl, about to marry a man I truly love. About five years ago, I ended a quite painful relationship, and my husband-to-be helped me to get over it. We started as friends, but gradually fell in love and grew to appreciate one another. Eventually, he proposed to me and I gladly agreed to be his wife.

Our wedding's due in September. We haven't had sex so as to consummate our relationship on our first night together. Although neither I nor him are virgins, we agreed to wait until after our marriage.

All was going well, until I ran into my ex about two months ago. Long story short, we met up, had a few drinks and ended up in his apartment. Recently, I found out I'm pregnant. Neither I nor my ex want to continue our affair, and I feel terribly guilty.

The million naira question is: do I tell my fiancee of my one-night stand, or do I seduce him and make it appear the baby is his? "

What advice could you give her?

Register for an antenatal class dear and be an honorable single mom; you don't deserve that man.

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Your wedding has been fixed and you still have one night stands??

I bu ezigbote okpo!
Common fiancé you can't spell but you can drink.

Jeez! This is shameful #NoOffence


If you truly love your fiance as you claim. ...call off the engagement...how can you live with the fact that you're carrying another man's child?

It's not even the issue of having an abortion & pretend nothing happened.

I'm sorry for being harsh

seeing post like this makes me wana remain single sometimes...SMH

ok u need to come clean or at least let him know... SECRETS before wedding some how ruins d marriage.... also its best you have a 3rd party like an elder or a parent or pastor around to calm him down when he is being told.

even if he loves you so much do not expect him to father a one-night-stand baby. AND PLS DO NOT ABORT. this is very sensitive... you may need to run out of town for a while.

EXes usually ruin things

prittygift114:
I am a 23-year-old girl, about to marry a man I truly love. About five years ago, I ended a quite painful relationship, and my husband-to-be helped me to get over it. We started as friends, but gradually fell in love and grew to appreciate one another. Eventually, he proposed to me and I gladly agreed to be his wife.

Our wedding's due in September. We haven't had sex so as to consummate our relationship on our first night together. Although neither I nor him are virgins, we agreed to wait until after our marriage.

All was going well, until I ran into my ex about two months ago. Long story short, we met up, had a few drinks and ended up in his apartment. Recently, I found out I'm pregnant. Neither I nor my ex want to continue our affair, and I feel terribly guilty.

The million naira question is: do I tell my fiancee of my one-night stand, or do I seduce him and make it appear the baby is his? "

What advice could you give her?

First and foremost its fiancé and not finance pls correct your topic before ppl will diss you.
This is really difficult oo
I won't even advice you to opt for an abortion
I wouldn't blame you for making the mistake but with this you would loose the trust of your fiancé. Seat him down plead and tell him what transpired, Just accept your fate, he may end it with you. Tho its a difficult decision, but its better to go with a clear conscience. If he still loves you after all, then be happy! I wish you the best of luck.
Again, have u told your ex about it.

Women! One Night Stand.....!

Rubbish

True life story....... e dey happen ve xper it

This is highly shameful.
This is a disgrace to womanhood
This is a disgrace to everything

Go to Gambia with bombs tied to your vjay and just blow your life and that of dictator who refused to vacate his lost seat . By this you will save a lots of people who deserve to live .You and I know you don't deserve one .

rosalieene:
First and foremost its fiancé and not finance pls correct your topic before ppl will diss you.
This is really difficult oo
I won't even advice you to opt for an abortion
I wouldn't blame you for making the mistake but with this you would loose the trust of your fiancé. Seat him down plead and tell him what transpired, Just accept your fate, he may end it with you. Tho its a difficult decision, but its better to go with a clear conscience. If he still loves you after all, then be happy! I wish you the best of luck.
Again, have u told your ex about it.

yes I told him none of us want us back...

prittygift114:
yes I told him none of us want us back...

Your English sha...

Ayam not Understanding you!!!!
Biko why?
Konji na Bastard

Simple solution














Drink sniper. You go wake up in another world and guess what..all your problems would be solved. Osho bam bam

the capital of sokoto state is Nigeria

please don't tell your finance o, just let your account balance know whatz up! gbam!!

EdegbeLine:
See girl, if I were your fiance, do you know what I would do? I will love you more after you have told me or I have found out before wedding, marry you but...hmmmm, I swear with my life, as my wife, I will frustrate you till you take your own life. Pr@stitute, that's what you re.

is that an advice?

prittygift114:
is that an advice?

You do not need an advice, what you need is to be castigated and send packing from planet earth because she is wicked and inhuman. And let me tell you this, your fiance might act as if he has forgive you if you tell him or he finds out, but trust me, in future he will surely pay you back because men hardly forgive such deed.

prittygift114:
is that an advice?

buh girl u get mind ooo...a man accepted dat wedding night sh*t n u still gt mind do am dis.sometimes u ladies shouldn't blame men when dey do wat dey do.u found a decent man n stabbed him at d bck..my advice is u call of d engagement by urself

Even if i knew the answer to your question poster, i would never tell you because you caused the predicament you are in right now so deal with it your damn self

prittygift114:
I am a 23-year-old girl, about to marry a man I truly love. About five years ago, I ended a quite painful relationship, and my husband-to-be helped me to get over it. We started as friends, but gradually fell in love and grew to appreciate one another. Eventually, he proposed to me and I gladly agreed to be his wife.

Our wedding's due in September. We haven't had sex so as to consummate our relationship on our first night together. Although neither I nor him are virgins, we agreed to wait until after our marriage.

All was going well, until I ran into my ex about two months ago. Long story short, we met up, had a few drinks and ended up in his apartment. Recently, I found out I'm pregnant. Neither I nor my ex want to continue our affair, and I feel terribly guilty.

The million naira question is: do I tell my fiancee of my one-night stand, or do I seduce him and make it appear the baby is his? "

What advice could you give her?

See this useless slut ooo... your marriage is due in few months time and your busy fucking big cassava all about just because your husband to be Said NO to Sex b4 marriage..




You know what will happen now? Plz just type your husband Num here and I will save you the stress of telling him your pregnant for your ex..



What's the assurance that you won't go and Bleep that your EX again once you get married??

it early do abortion, and save urself any sto ry,.... u be small pikin?

EdegbeLine:

You do not need an advice, what you need is to be castigated and send packing from planet earth because she is wicked and inhuman. And let me tell you this, your fiance might act as if he has forgive you if you tell him or he finds out, but trust me, in future he will surely pay you back because men hardly forgive such deed.

you have a point here. Thank you

Thank you all my fellow niaralanders for your comments and advice...... Trust me I no I was stupid and feeling terrible ryt now don't even know how I got myself into this mess........... I deserve all the insult and names.. But big thanks to those who reacted and showed their disappointement and finally dropped their advice.. Thank to the English corrector... Sometimes we make typographical errors ... I av right to it ryt now because of the situation at hand.....
Thanks

I just have to accept that today is meant to be a worrisome one, I went for medical test having to queue for long, got seriously tired and when I got home, my food had been eaten which made me sad a bit and I thought if I opened nairaland, I would get a bit excited with interesting stories and then I opened this thread I found this kinda story, too bad a day for me, I hope I don't see this kinda day anymore

StarBukola:
it early do abortion, and save urself any sto
ry,.... u be small pikin?

You fvcking murderer,

Tajbol4splend:


You fvcking murderer,

music to my ears,

More advice r welcome ed

StarBukola:
music to my ears,

Wetin I go talk I no know

rosalieene:
First and foremost its fiancé and not finance pls correct your topic before ppl will diss you.
This is really difficult oo
I won't even advice you to opt for an abortion
I wouldn't blame you for making the mistake but with this you would loose the trust of your fiancé. Seat him down plead and tell him what transpired, Just accept your fate, he may end it with you. Tho its a difficult decision, but its better to go with a clear conscience. If he still loves you after all, then be happy! I wish you the best of luck.
Again, have u told your ex about it.

u wouldn't blame her for making the mistake

jeez, luiz!

who the hell u gon blame me?