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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 27, 2017
firstking01:
And who's this bombastic element of a hoeundecided
Malewhore! Stop talking trash, do you have what it takes to be loved? You use teeth shave her
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Dani4tech(m): 3:26pm On Jan 27, 2017
angry angry

Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jan 27, 2017
Spartacuss:
Don't mind him, he is lazy. Send a private mail to me or contact me through my profile so I can help you shave it.

Waiting! for your contact.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Perfectionist11: 3:27pm On Jan 27, 2017
Sincerely,there's nothing wrong with your request..its kinda romantic & it shows your wild side..but you shoulda shaved him first & then ask him subtly later to reciprocate..

And I think you need to study your Guy's mood..no matter how exhilarating some stuffs are..if they are done/proposed when the other party isn't in the mood it may not be done.

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by rxgodwin(m): 3:27pm On Jan 27, 2017
As funny as it sounds, Tell him to recommend his barber since he isnt one.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Adelivinggreat(m): 3:28pm On Jan 27, 2017
Babe, I should b ur next boyfriend...I'm a specialist in anything down town
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by HARDDON: 3:29pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

@ first bolded, epic ansa
Second bolded: that is the statement of a lady who wants a man she can manipulate! sissy guy
third bolded, you are still a baby! instead of asking him if he can shave you, why didnt you buy a shaving stick, take him to the rest room and shave him? ofcos, baby mind wudnt reason that

My Verdict:

You aint ready for a r/ship yet let alone marriage!
invest more in your brain

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by rxgodwin(m): 3:29pm On Jan 27, 2017
Then again, timing and approach is key to hitting your target
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by firstking01(m): 3:29pm On Jan 27, 2017
Oyind17:
Malewhore! Stop talking trash, do you have what it takes to be loved? You use teeth shave her
My curiousity, is it that you didn't go to school or you just lack the plain ability to comprehend a simple phrase??, for the sake of ban i 'll pass...you sound so dumb.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by darlenese(f): 3:30pm On Jan 27, 2017
My hubby shaves me only when I'm heavily pregnant !

You are not pregnant , you are not sick , why are u seeking for trouble


Abi hand dey pain u?

Stop fantacising my dear. U need to change ur mindset before u even think of marriage !
Kagawa10:
Lmao. Why would you ask him such a thing in the first place? He really gave you a deserved reply. You no get hand to do your thing? Smh.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Tenny05(m): 3:30pm On Jan 27, 2017
Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo
Benita, you very right, Don't mind those girls.

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by HARDDON: 3:31pm On Jan 27, 2017
darlenese:
My hubby shaves me only when I'm heavily pregnant !

You are not pregnant , you are not sick , why are u seeking for trouble


Abi hand dey pain u?

Stop fantacising my dear. U need to change ur mindset before u even think of marriage !


aint nothing wrong with sharing this kinda moments, just not with the wrong kinda gurl.

she wrong
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by shakes101(m): 3:32pm On Jan 27, 2017
This is one of the reason i broke up with my ex, what ever she watches on movies(love movies) she will implement immediately, using it on me, i told her to stop it, she refuse and she always takes advise from others to come display in our relationship, so the best thing i did was to quit the relationship, later she came begging that she was wrong, already my mind has gone off her side.
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by silverspringle(f): 3:33pm On Jan 27, 2017
Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo
Thank u! My sister's hubby is d best guy i ve ever come by but guess what The guy hardly smile, very unromantic but provides everything for the family. My mum don talk tire. You will think u are not welcomed to his hous with his face but thats not true.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Kaykay(m): 3:33pm On Jan 27, 2017
jonaifame22:
Since u've been on NL, u dnt even know that I'm a barber, contact me lemme shave it for u, so far it's the one down below, it's not his job! It's something I can do

Are you a 'transgendered'. Your picture showed you as a He(male) yet you choose to classify yourself as a 'she' and more bearing a feminine name .. Yahoo yahoo spotted. Check yourself, your water loo for deceiving/defrauding people is eminent.

T o the op, marriage is for matured minds doing matured things.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty, your fiancé don't love you enough, if I should tell my fiancé to do that, he will do it without questions.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jan 27, 2017
HARDDON:



aint nothing wrong with sharing this kinda moments, just not with the wrong kinda gurl.

she wrong
How is she wrong?
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by ekygirl(f): 3:36pm On Jan 27, 2017
Madam, not everything u read online about relationship is true & secondly u always bring ur relationship issues online, why can't u resolve ur issues with ur man privately without any one knowing? & thirdly u always complain about ur man, u don't complain about urself or ur wrongs, why? Re u saying u re perfect?
Pls if u want to av a success marriage life, learn how to deal with situations & don't bring everything about ur relationship online.

Thanks
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by thunderbabs: 3:38pm On Jan 27, 2017
Plz, if you find love help me tell love that he-she is crazy.

And watch what all this love counsellors post as yardsticks for a happy relationship. Counselor's hubby sef no dey shave hin wife down dere.

Define your own happiness. You will just scatter ur relationship ursef over things you read on social media.

Iraanu. Na him dey shave you down dere b4 u meet am ni abi i'm not even understanding sef
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jan 27, 2017
firstking01:
My curiousity, is it that you didn't go to school or you just lack the plain ability to comprehend a simple phrase??, for the sake of ban i 'll pass...you sound so dumb.
troll

You are saying what you won't do
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by KingGBsky(m): 3:39pm On Jan 27, 2017
Having sex before marriage leads to disaster in marriages.
This trend of youths having fiance and fiancee for the sake of sex is the desire of the devil for youths to destroy their marriage, sex in a relationship before marriage is a sin against yourself and against GOD. Do you know you share blood during sex hereby connecting your soul to the soul of the other partner in blood sacrifice. This is what the devil really want from man especially youths for condemnation.
Such marriage can never work, trust me. It will never work.
Those giving fake advice out of lost/lust should shut up and change their WAYS!!!
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Duru009(m): 3:40pm On Jan 27, 2017
I guess u are fat and dirty......
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Touchey: 3:42pm On Jan 27, 2017
I will shave you wink
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by micflo28(m): 3:43pm On Jan 27, 2017
...you keep making such inordinate and obscure request will make him come up his you can hardly fulfill.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by woledami: 3:44pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

it isn't a bad thing asking your spouse to do that for you. afterall you own each other by virtue of love and companionship. The problem there is how you communicate your feelings and trust me if you serve the food well, you will enjoy every bit of him. of course as a man, he has ego. but believe me you own him, so tame him and serve the food right. don't be afraid to try it again, but this time, do iit diligently. let me know if i help.
have fun

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by woledami: 3:45pm On Jan 27, 2017
KingGBsky:
Having sex before marriage leads to disaster in marriages.
This trend of youths having fiance and fiancee for the sake of sex is the desire of the devil for youths to destroy their marriage, sex in a relationship before marriage is a sin against yourself and against GOD. Do you know you share blood during sex hereby connecting your soul to the soul of the other partner in blood sacrifice. This is what the devil really want from man especially youths for condemnation.
Such marriage can never work, trust me. It will never work.
Those giving fake advice out of lost/lust should shut up and change their WAYS!!!

are you married? sorry to ask cause i see all these in another direction.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by zinny377(f): 3:45pm On Jan 27, 2017
Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....
Exactly oh! Don't start applying everything u read online cos some persons aren't disposed to somethings. We all love differently.


Warn yourself ooo

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by BekeeBuAgbara: 3:45pm On Jan 27, 2017
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by firstking01(m): 3:48pm On Jan 27, 2017
Oyind17:
troll

You are saying what you won't do
Lol, still very dumb...abeg, swerve with your low self esteem.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by stunningjudy(f): 3:50pm On Jan 27, 2017
Do MODs actually read through threads they push to front page? Seun pls ask them to read to desist from sending crap to front page. Op, I want and checked your previous topics lo and behold , it is safe to conclude that you are very PETTY! Keep following yeye rules from online counsellor that probably doesn't have a stable relationship. angry
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jan 27, 2017
firstking01:
Lol, still very dumb...abeg, swerve with your low self esteem.
Ediat, you are the one with low self esteem. Tell them you are king of headie so they'll fall for your love trap like Aanu did. Getawt!
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Talk2aik(m): 3:51pm On Jan 27, 2017
My dear, since you have a calling in shaving 'downstream', kukuma go open shaving store grin

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