firstking01:
Do you ever know that girls hate it whenever they are not benefitting anything from you?, meaning there's no how you'd be a friend with a girl at the o level without her conciously or unconciously making demands from you...so, at your first statement, make your intentions clear to her before anything...

Yes. Right from the onset it has to be crystal clear to both the guy & the lady that they're not dating.

if she says let's be friends first,

If she says let's be friends first. She's not after platonic friendship. She wants to assess u for dating. Don't waste ur time with her, if platonic friendship is what u want.

let it be on the grounds that there's absolutely not gonna be benefits from both sides.

As for telling a girl that there is no benefit for both of us, I beg to differ here. There are many guys who think that a lady has nothing to offer them other than sex. Personally, I don't subscribe to that viewpoint at all. Females have quite a lot to offer males apart from sex. It all depends on the type of female one is relating with.

Nma27:
I'm in Church

Ur body is in Church and ur mind is on NL.

obadizena:


Ur body is in Church and ur mind is on NL.

Yewandequeen:

Happy Sunday YRH!

The Topic here, as u can see, is : Can the opposite sex be platonic lovers?
What's ur opinion?

obadizena:


Happy Sunday YRH!


The Topic here, as u can see, is : Can the opposite sex be platonic lovers?

What's ur opinion?

Well honestly no I doubt.

Yewandequeen:

Well honestly no I doubt.

Hmmm!

It's very possible poster.
I have good male friends
You set the rules from the onset
If he or she can't cope, they will eventually stop bn friends because they r not benefiting anything, but in the long run you both can fall in love.
Friendship helps you understand people
Sex is not the ultimate!