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Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by krisafics(m): 11:53pm On Dec 06, 2009 |
I met dis gal in a cafe.So while discusing wit her,i found out that we ar 4rm d same state,same birthday mates,same age,same height,same club,same ideology infact.We hav many tins in common.Mind u i just met her 4 the 1st time.My question nw is do u think i hav found d love of my life?Or is it just a coincidence?Secondly,shud i tel her hw i feel about her?Plz help a broda. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Nobody: 11:54pm On Dec 06, 2009 |
Awwwwh how cute . Go ahead tell her how you feel |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Parohfrey(f): 11:54pm On Dec 06, 2009 |
time waits for noone. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by mamagee3(f): 11:57pm On Dec 06, 2009 |
It's Lust not Love. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by krisafics(m): 12:09am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@Ebonyey,she is dam beautiful chocolate colour by nature.Undiluted! @Phora_f,tanks, So i shud toast her abi? @Mama gee,i wud i knw is lust.Plz xplain because d gal her sef wz feelin my swaggar. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Nobody: 12:13am On Dec 07, 2009 |
Go for it then, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by zombader(m): 12:22am On Dec 07, 2009 |
so funny it happens though but give things time.if ur love fever is cured,then it's not love.anywayz tell her nofin coz i just don't feel it's real.my opinion though |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by krisafics(m): 12:46am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@Zombad,av u felt lyk dat b4 as in av u xperiencd such b4?She is dam beautiful 2 b ignord.Anoda tin b say i no wan fal my hand.@Ebonyey,tanks, ! |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Nobody: 12:48am On Dec 07, 2009 |
You are simply affascinated. It's not easy to come by someone whom you have so much in common with. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Explosive(m): 1:06am On Dec 07, 2009 |
Well, if its up 2 me i go with zombad. I think u r only fascinatd 2 finally meet someone who shares a lot of things wit u. I think u shuld give dis 'fascination' more time and see if it grows into somethin stronger. Anyways, dats my view |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by cantell(m): 1:14am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@Poster, Same birthday,age and ideology? Sounds cool but doesn't guarrantee anything. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by 190: 1:18am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@poster post her pic here lemme be sure it aint my lovely ope~ |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Pweety4me(f): 1:35am On Dec 07, 2009 |
^Lolz u know i actually thought of u when i saw dis topic because it resemble dat your topic i mean relates. . . . @Poster wat exactly do u feel? |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by 190: 2:27am On Dec 07, 2009 |
Pweety4me: the thing tire me my sister OPELOVELY has ran away from nairaland cos of me~ im still waiting 4 her 2 return back from exile~ she has made my laptop run faster since i had her pic on my desktop~ |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Pweety4me(f): 8:30am On Dec 07, 2009 |
^Hmm well maybe she has a bf already or just ain't feeling u like dat. . .she probably does'nt like d way u approached her or doesn't like d way u socialise or discuss in forum it could be anything or nothing at all just be cool about it. . . |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by ThoniaSlim(f): 8:36am On Dec 07, 2009 |
Could be a possibility. . .but you more fascinated with the fact that you both have a whole lot of things in common. . .just take your time. . . |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by kpolli(m): 9:28am On Dec 07, 2009 |
r u sure she is not u from another realm |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by frank317: 9:46am On Dec 07, 2009 |
boy meets girl and they talked, only for him to come here and ask some strangers who dont even know what they both look like or what they even discussed if he had fallen inlove. @poster, if you were my son i will flog you twelve strokes of the cain for dissapointing me. because even when i was as young as fourteen i was able to make decisions on my own. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Tcharged: 9:56am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@Poster It is called attraction and there is no guarantee that it will lead to love. Seems you are just facinated that you share height, state of origin, b/day etc in common, this does not guarantee anything. You can't tell it is love until you have really gotten close enough to know her. Just tell her you are interested in getting to know her better. Keep your love theory aside for now. All the best, man. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 07, 2009 |
I think to love someone you have to know them. That's a really cute story and very romantic, but I think you can't truly "love" someone the first time you see them. but I do not believe you can fall in love with someone at first sight. but I do believe that you can feel a spark that lets you know that there is something more than just attraction. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Nobody: 10:01am On Dec 07, 2009 |
frank3.16:ROFL nairalanders are funny
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Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by MoneyRule(m): 10:02am On Dec 07, 2009 |
I think u've found a friend of your lyf, most r/ships involving two of the same person usually don't last long, i think because there is no "vibe" - you think & act like the person, nothing to teach oda and nothing to learn 4rm each oda. Quite boring from my point of view. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Lity: 10:10am On Dec 07, 2009 |
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Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by krisafics(m): 10:38am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@all,tanks.But then i fink dis goes beyond fascination.Cos ds gal d feel me/gbadu me lyk craze.I askd her 2 sho up sumwhia so we can c,she agred only 4 me 2 decline later.We av arrangd anoda meetin again and she agred 2 sho up.Shud i sho up or decline again? |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Tcharged: 10:43am On Dec 07, 2009 |
OMG! Please show up and get your acts together. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 07, 2009 |
@poster a relationship with a stunningly beautiful girl of your age is doomed from the beginning. I can assure you ,that you will have nothin' but heartache and pain to show for it. Bigger BOYS than you will make you look like a wimp in her eyes Be warned! |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Spyker: 12:33pm On Dec 07, 2009 |
Wake up from the dream, this may not lead to marriage, you can date her but the age issue will creep up when the word marriage comes up. If you really think it is love, find out if she feels that way about you before you jump. Mind you, as it is, women are always interested in older guys and not their age mate. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by candyshore: 4:41pm On Dec 07, 2009 |
take ur chance, while it last |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by otokx(m): 5:11pm On Dec 07, 2009 |
did you say same age? |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by krisafics(m): 7:55pm On Dec 07, 2009 |
@Otokx,yes oh.We ar d same age.What do u fink? |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by Explosive(m): 12:05am On Dec 08, 2009 |
I think the ELDERLY (Mr prsdnt) guy is right. When she starts meeting older guys, how do u she would luk at u - like a small boy. But if u still want 2 meet her, then go. Afterall, talkin wit her isnt going 2 kill ya. |
Re: Love At First Sight: Am In Love Or Lust: by echobee(f): 7:45am On Dec 08, 2009 |
abi o |
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