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I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 6:18pm On Feb 27, 2017
Hi guys, have been dating my gf for 5 yrs now and I love her so much cus shes all dat I need in a woman.....we have been through the ups and downs and we still love each oda very much...am 32 and shes 27....am doing gud business wise and financially ok to raise a family....i stay alone in a 4 bedroom bungalow and currently doing finishing touches to my own personal house am building shes got a gud job too an official car and her own private car....shes has a nice apartment and from a comfortable and respected family.....we ought to get married like 3yrs ago but she keeps telling me she isnt ready for marriage now infact she doesnt want to get married...her family, mom friends even her pastor has talked to her but to no avail.....
I really want to settle and have kids and I love her so much go be my wife but her constantly refusing to get married is killing me.....plz what do I do in this situation?
Some folks are advicing me to look somewhere else but I love her so much.....
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by LAFO: 6:22pm On Feb 27, 2017
She's not ready for marriage and you want to force her?

You may regret marrying someone who doesn't want to get married.
Talk to her family members and if after that she insist on being unmarried, Oga pack your load and loo for someone serious with marriage
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by TrapHedges(m): 6:23pm On Feb 27, 2017
Then you my man better love another girl

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Cutehector(m): 6:24pm On Feb 27, 2017
When women dey find husband to marry na him dis mgbeke dey feel funky dey do yanga... Nna my brother fashi dat love biko and face reality. U ain't getting any younger for goodness sakes
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 6:27pm On Feb 27, 2017
You can get good ladies around you that are willing to settle down with you. Sir, with every passing minute you're getting older. You can still find love in another lady. She's not ready
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 6:33pm On Feb 27, 2017
Well, things have changed. Some women don't see marriage as a priority & would rather have a life time partner with no paperwork involved. Because they feel it jinxes things. What does she say about kids? Does she want any?

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by ikp120(m): 6:36pm On Feb 27, 2017
Do not marry that girl, not even by mistake. If anything dare go wrong when you guys finally marry each other, she will either pull out without looking back or she go remind you say she no wan marry before but you dragged her into the shiit.

That's her type. Steer clear bro! cool cool cool

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 6:45pm On Feb 27, 2017
Cutehector:
When women dey find husband to marry na him dis mgbeke dey feel funky dey do yanga... Nna my brother fashi dat love biko and face reality. U ain't getting any younger for goodness sakes
lol...brother u got no chill....lmao
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 6:46pm On Feb 27, 2017
ikp120:
Do not marry that girl, not even by mistake. If anything dare go wrong when you guys finally marry each other, she will either pull out without looking back or she go remind you say she no wan marry before but you dragged her into the shiit.

That's her type. Steer clear bro! cool cool cool
true talk sha,,,, am trying to but is very difficult to let go after all dis years..
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 6:47pm On Feb 27, 2017
ZarZar:
Well, things have changed. Some women don't see marriage as a priority & would rather have a life time partner with no paperwork involved. Because they feel it jinxes things. What does she say about kids? Does she want any?
she loves kids...
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 6:49pm On Feb 27, 2017
baranzy:
she loves kids...

Yeah but does she plan on having any?
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 6:51pm On Feb 27, 2017
ZarZar:


Yeah but does she plan on having any?
yes but not anytime soon...
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 6:55pm On Feb 27, 2017
baranzy:
yes but not anytime soon...

There you go then! You can still have your wish of being a dad, if that kind of informal setup appeals to you.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by dupzy05: 6:56pm On Feb 27, 2017
undecidedBro she doesn't lyk u again#fact#
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by ikp120(m): 7:03pm On Feb 27, 2017
baranzy:
true talk sha,,,, am trying to but is very difficult to let go after all dis years..

You just have to bro
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by thunderfiremods(m): 7:41pm On Feb 27, 2017
tell her u re moving on...
no
make sure u chop her puna first..
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Chynwe(f): 7:45pm On Feb 27, 2017
Maybe she has a spirit husband,take her to a genuine church for deliverance
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Rukkydelta(f): 7:47pm On Feb 27, 2017
Not everybody likes marriage
Some people just love having fun don't want to get into boundage

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Headlesschicken(m): 8:32pm On Feb 27, 2017
cheesy grin Funny life,while some people are @Shiloh praying for a Husband In dis Buharis regime,someone x busy forming Gallant lady....
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 11:35pm On Feb 27, 2017
Chynwe:
Maybe she has a spirit husband,take her to a genuine church for deliverance
like seriously?
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 11:40pm On Feb 27, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Not everybody likes marriage
Some people just love having fun don't want to get into boundage
really? She isnt really fun and out going type...shes very homely, religious and dedicated to her job....she has a kind heart and has all the qualities of a gudwife.....the only problem is she doesnt wana get married...
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Mznaett(f): 12:17am On Feb 28, 2017
Hmm

Let her be please

It's not really her fault... After all,she loves kids and also love you too...but she's just scared of marriagesad...That was the kind of mindset I had back then sha.wink
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by valicious1(m): 3:11am On Feb 28, 2017
guy your babe na lesbian
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 6:34am On Feb 28, 2017
she's a career driven woman i bet she's set goals and getting married would somehow slow it down. there's a level she's hoping to attain give her time she'll come around.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by baranzy(m): 9:02am On Feb 28, 2017
[quote author=valicious1 post=54125814]guy your babe na lesbian[/quoteWTF!!!!
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Rukkydelta(f): 5:34pm On Feb 28, 2017
baranzy:
really? She isnt really fun and out going type...shes very homely, religious and dedicated to her job....she has a kind heart and has all the qualities of a gudwife.....the only problem is she doesnt wana get married...
Hmmm
Maybe she's scared of getting totally committed

Just like me scared of getting committed to a particular man for my life time at then he turns to what I don't expect

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by TosinDru: 5:57pm On Feb 28, 2017
Unlike most of the comments above, I would like to reason from her perspective. She could have some issues like health related ones (she could've been told by her doctor she won't be able to conceive or one of many other stuff along that line) and she doesn't wanna become a burden to the person going to marry her.
She also could literally not be ready for marriage. You kept mentioning she has a job, car and you're okay yourself but are those the recipes for a successful marriage? I don't think so.
Respect her decision, move on to someone else if you must.
Peace

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by enuk80(m): 6:28pm On Feb 28, 2017
u no cook d lie well

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by stuffsabouttara(f): 6:44pm On Feb 28, 2017
Your girlfriend is commitmentphobic. Read up about it.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 7:48pm On Feb 28, 2017
There must be a reason she don't want to get married yet (it could be psychological or something else). If you truly love her, go the extra mile to find out. Wish you luck bro.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by Nobody: 8:50pm On Feb 28, 2017
The bitter truth is that she don't want to marry you.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Doesnt Want To Get Married... by amakadihot87(f): 9:25pm On Feb 28, 2017
What exactly is her reply?.did she say she will marry you later or she doesnt want to marry you at all

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