op, I have also experience this before. trust me it is hard to let go but with time it will pass.
My only advice is don't let other girls pay for her mistake please.

You can keep using the account or create another if you love the forum very well. There are lots of eagle eyes. Avoid pms from anyone for now especially from the ladies.

Just forget about the lady and move on, some ladies don't deserve love

Seriously am not the type that do like to comment but I will in this situation.....
Please let go of the lady, her friend and the other boyfriend, don't even give her friend green light or attention because she would manipulate you and take advantage of your emotions.... Forget that 3 of them ever existed in your life.... Now give time some time it will heal you will find someone that will love you and not cheat on you. When you remember this day in some months and years to come you will Be thankful to God that you made the right choice....... My 2 cents

alexialin:




It's over mehn! She should bounce off! and keep her lies to herself.. Devil my foot! Smhhhhh.. Cheating is one thing I can never condone.. Dare not cheat on me boo.. He knows that already.. No cheating and I won't on him.
Try move on.. I understand how it is.. But u just need to move on.. It's well

Lol, guy, you just said it, its over, obviously, alcohol won't do shit, you will just end up worse than ever, pick up a book, a bible or an inspirational book and read. I know girls are cheat but I just believe when you are getting to a certain age, you should not even think of double dating. You will be fine.

Shossie:
Lol, guy, you just said it, its over, obviously, alcohol won't do shit, you will just end up worse than ever, pick up a book, a bible or an inspirational book and read. I know girls are cheat but I just believe when you are getting to a certain age, you should not even think of double dating. You will be fine.

Lol am a lady ooooooo for goodness sakes * rolls eyes * AM NOT A GUYYYYY!!!!!!!! Please?

alexialin:




Lol am a lady ooooooo for goodness sakes * rolls eyes * AM NOT A GUYYYYY!!!!!!!! Please?

its not bad, I am a guy anyways, just acting like a girl, lol but you girls, una too dey cheat, kilode?

Shossie:
its not bad, I am a guy anyways, just acting like a girl, lol but you girls, una too dey cheat, kilode?

Oh! Lol.


Well not all girls cheat.
And moreover to have a dedicated babe? Takes the grace of God likewise in guys too.. Most guys cheat like kilode

I have a GF and i love her very much. i want to share Good Morning text sms with her everyday.

adastacy1:
Reading through all these, I have some questions for you, before giving advice, but won't be able to ask them here, can I send you a PM?

You are looking for husband from the troubled poster ?

sguy0:
Shossie, how I wish I could hibernate till this feeling wears off

Baralatie, if it's that easy, I'll not even do this, even alcohol can't solve my issue right now, I wake up with the worst headache whenever I attempt it, as I don't drink much.

Dextology I see you and understand the latter part of your comment slowly, I'll close this account as soon as possible and continue with the "ghost mode". Just that I have been reading a lot how some people find solace sharing personal stories here.

Alexialin, I immediately asked her "why" when that guy came in calling her baby, but she couldn't say anything, but when I left she resorted to sending series of very long sms and WhatsApp message heaping Blames on the Devil. Saying what will she tell her parents et al.

CuteHector, I must say that I am not here looking for pity nor anything else, I just wish to talk to someone. The only person I could confide in, share my worries and joy turned out to be the one who could betray me. Getting a grip on myself is what I wish I could do right now. Just typing here relieves me a bit. But for how long.

I cannot stare her in the face anymore,

Firsttking01, thanks, but that will be once I am out of this trauma.

Emasel, know the funny thing, Peace has been calling saying she want to explain certain things to me, but I am scared if I pay for her flight to come over to Port-Harcourt , she might end up bringing Hope alongside whom I don't want to see. Hope presently doesn't know my whereabouts as one cannot just waltz into our office like that.

Peace wont bring Hope along cause she just exposed Hope's infidelity.

Peace will be seeking her own gain right now especially if she isn't in a relationship.

But none of these fishes can be trusted.

sguy0:
I won't be able to quote individual responses, adastacy1, you can, but I'll prefer you post it here, cuz I might not respond via email.

lol seems d mods don't like to see the truth.. They hid ur thread

The moderators should kindly explain why my thread was hidden