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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by cnonyechi(f): 5:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: Better tell ur wife to take dat child to a day care and go get a job. You are spoiling her and she is capitalising on it. Please take charge of your home before you get high bp. Its ur money use it wisely 3 Likes |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by mrsfavour(f): 5:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
[quote author=Cutehector post=54748036]It will correct her senses! Pls go ahead..u have my support! [/quota pls go ahead and give her some punishment but be soft on her BC of the baby. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by BBBlaze: 5:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
My broda, na one chance marriage u enta sooo....u cant satisfy ur wife financially wit dis ur little salary because she is d money type...i would advise u talk to her heart to heart, asking her to manage wit u or get a divorce because soonest she will cheat on u because of money... Moral; pls felow men dont marry a woman dat cant manage wit u financially! 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Akaujaa(m): 6:07pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Oga, sorry to say that unfortunately you did marry a wife material. My wife saves some cash from the little I give her for foodstuff, her upkeep and general home maintenance. Any day she suspects am out of cash, she'll give me from the ones she saved. From same money I give her for her upkeep, she still buys me gifts like boxers and singlets from time to time. Take your wife through a marriage course once again that's if you ever did that before your marriage to her. 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Cutehector(m): 6:09pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
[quote author=mrsfavour post=54909564][/quote]hmm. Ur profile pic tho |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Viikan: 6:10pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Don't punish her... If u do she might get the money somewhere else u won't like.. . Just talk to her |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Jman06(m): 6:11pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Marriage like every other love relationship shoud be a give and take affair. I'll give gifts of love to my wife, but not this kind of employer-employee arrangement in her supposed home. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by donodion(m): 6:14pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
The trend of wives inflating cost of anything,just as Nigerian Senate pads budget have been in Vogue since time immemorial. Most ,if not all does it and it's outright dishonesty. Now here's another fact, bros,you spoilt wife. And she's gone overboard. What you need to do henceforth: 1. Keep your financial details private.No more my wife knows how much I'm earning. 2. Cutting her off from financial information includes but not limited to; how much you spare with relatives, family members, including pastors honorarium. 3. Keep making provision for your home, however any expenses outside immediate domestic needs, carry out a follow-up.Keep such details in your diary.Believe me the day you will use it in defense is coming. 4. Talk less when it comes to planning.Evidently your woman came.from an environment where it is believe " a woman is to parasite her man". It.wont be easy at first, but you will get use to it.That will save you a whole lot of heartache and disappointments from unrealistic expectations about her. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by bamasite(m): 6:23pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
It is time to talk! heart to heart talk where only one rule applies to both parties: SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!! |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Alohamora(f): 6:23pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: Mr man. So what do you want us to do for you? Teach you how to run your family? I believe you guys must have been together a years now and you should be able to communicate with her. So you want Nairaland to teach you to handle your wife? No wonder she treats you anyhow. You can't even act like a real man. Big baby! |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 6:29pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Joavid:Ladies knows themselves very well, @Skypeme. Contact this poster for advice' she can help you out. For me i go just read coments. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 6:30pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
HARDDON:You wan know everything about this family abi? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by yankeypha: 6:30pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Wife Wahala, even do you buy car for a woman, any day you will quarrel with her, she will insult you, and denied that you never did anything for her, but stop calculating money you are giving to your wife, is normal, |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by DRPAIT123(m): 6:32pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Going by the nollywood standards,here is my advice,dont hold back her allawee,so you will not ingest poison in your next meal(because this your wife looks callous,am not sure anyway) Going by the hollywood standards,lovingly sit her down,ask her why she behaves that way,settle the rift as the head. Most importantly pray together A family that prays together stays together. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Jelal0007(m): 6:33pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Dyt:Feminist alert!!! The kind who blame MEN 4 all they go thru. 2 Likes |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 6:37pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
[ quote author=Joavid post=54748259]This is what happens when you mar ry longer an ex sexworker. Someone who's never satisfied and wants to live abo ve their means - (and in this case lack of) that is your cross, carry it. kikikikikikikiki if you stop paying her the 17.2% for two months, be prepared to starve o. cos when you drop money for food, you won't see food. the cash in your wallet will grow wings, your ATM card sef fit miss. so carry your cross![/quote] |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by otunbateekay(m): 6:40pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
@Op...I feel for you. I really do. my advice for you is to brace your self. o ti ri nkan kan. I'm talking from experience. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by egokudiowomoney: 6:41pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
I now agreed that woman is equal to problem
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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: This man must be a mathematician, as I never marry I no get experience for this realm o But wait o, you mean as a married man I'd paying my wife salary in addition to providing for the family? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:41pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
I'm yet to see what the woman did wrong |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by MKO3255(m): 6:42pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
bro my advice to u just considered this as first and last mistake despite she is rude to u may be the way u approach her pls take sometime to come down then sit her down by putting some sense in her head politically and puke all the pain you go through due to her unsatisfied act i promise she will listen to u even apologize for her wrong deeds |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 6:43pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
kimbra:11,200 x 100=? see ur mouth. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by SycophanticGoat: 6:44pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: You seem like someone who feels comfortable in self-deceit. It's quite glaring to you that you married the wrong woman but you don't want to come to terms with the reality. I wouldn't be surprised if that wife of yours has some other nigger taking up about 40 -50% of that salary you give her. When women have someone taking up their money due to the fact that they love such a person and cannot do anything about the money they give the person, they often behave like this. So I think its best for you to be more realistic and open to options especially when she continues with her terrible attitude. I don't mean any insults though. Just stating the obvious. 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Ikville(m): 6:49pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Dude, u r d man! But to be brutally honest wit u, u dont hav a wife. She's more like a domestic staff who, aside from doing all d house chores, also hav babies for u. If i gave my wife a fraction of my monthly income, it wudnt nearly almost a 'SALARY'. Apparently she realizes her actual roles in d house than u do, probably why she augments her 'SALARY' every chance she gets. If u dont wake up & change how w things work in d house, she's gonna walk away from doz 'duties' once she achieves her financial target or wen u lose ur job. & guess wot, it wont be her fault cos u programmed her dat way! But u claim u luv each otha, so i guess dat can still make it work. Gud luck, man! |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by kaboninc(m): 6:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme:. Please penalize her.. .i mean punish her very well. People are beginning to abuse certain privileges especially inflating contracts or bills or expenses. Do they think it's easy to make money? Do they think money falls from the sky? Or that people actually work to earn money? Please punish her very very well. She'll say you're stingy but if we all dig deeper, I wonder where the stingy attitude comes from. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by kaboninc(m): 7:01pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
kimbra: Comnonnnnn Warayou saying? If you want to inflate, be reasonable, yes I said be reasonable and don't get caught. You just sit down here and b typing what you've not experienced before.. ... |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by kaboninc(m): 7:10pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: Did you employ ya wife? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by xammy(m): 7:18pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: i and boo will laugh over stuff like this SMH |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:23pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
cnonyechi:Whose money? his money or their money? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 7:23pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
zaynie:Hahaha! Anty the way you re defending this woman eeh.. E be like say you knows her wella? Im only consign about the rude part of her, no matter how the hubby confronts her she is very wrong to react the way she did "if what the husband said is true". |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by lyricalz: 7:33pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
ur mumu no get rival how on earth will you pay ur wife salary? you have used money to spoil her already this is why she is now lazy and money conscious.. imagine o, see as you mouth be like I pay my wife salary. mumu man. is ur wife one of ur properties, house girl or employee that you have to incur cost on her monthly. mumu |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by gragraboy: 7:33pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme:Nawao! |
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