Behira:
And after that?

Play the blue

MrPresident1:


IshiBiafra

Stop callin that afonja that, na una they invite insults most times.

bakila:

Is that thanks for the compliments or who send you go my picture place sign.

tnx for the compliment dearie

iSufferFools:
Look first and weep, you ignoramous. Seek the heel that will batter you to a mash of mashed potato for you to see the log of tribal bigotry in your eyes.

I'd prefer to slime slimy bigots like you and rid you of the bigotry that made you a demented ignoramous who showcase his unwashed anus for all to see.

Get a life loser...

hammerF:


Stop callin that afonja that, na una they invite insults most times.

And you are

Behira:
tnx for the compliment dearie

You are welcome beautiful. Are you a lawyer?

bakila:
You are welcome beautiful. Are you a lawyer?

Yep

Behira:
Yep

Ahha lawyers are not liars. They are intelligent smart and beautiful.

All these food for just one lady? This is ridiculous! This ppl will not allow me to get married on time. Abeg I dey look for the phone wey I dey use comment! Anyone with useful information can report to Shekarau for gift(bomb). I_dey_ma_house_come_beat_me

Jesus..shey na owner of Facebook pikin dem wan marry.because this one too much for dagote daughter seff.

This is very ok.

Shebi the woman must work and never rest.
Shebi she must take care of husband house children husband family and never tire.
Shebi she must be there when you call perservering come rain come shine.
Shebi she must give birth to your kids and never get fat tired or change.
Shebi you can cheat on her and she must be patient.
Shebi if you don't have change she must struggle and get money to help out in the house .
Shebi you can bring second wife (17years) and she must be glad.

And all this she must do without complaint.

Therefore is equal to: That gift is just a start.

The price of a lifetime of slavery.

kayalla:


it is not unfair.
if the man cant afford all that is in the list it is amendable, but if he wants to fulfill the list then it is well welcomed sah!

My dear, no mind the ignoramuses here talking trash.
I escorted a friend of mine to his introduction, on collection of the list, what was on the list was about 850k they elders negotiated and laughed over the list. At the end of the day, what was purchased from the list wasn't even up to 180k. It's just for fun.
BTW, the list/items you guys see there is not just for the girl's family. The ndị nne, the ụmụada, the ndị nna, the youths all share from this. It is a thing of joy.

ToriBlue:
Its Igbo culture, if you don't want to marry, you use the door, no one is forcing you either.

this kind of girl they get sweet kpekus

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Origin:
This is very ok.

Shebi the woman must work and never rest.
Shebi she must take care of husband house children husband family and never tire.
Shebi she must be there when you call perservering come rain come shine.
Shebi she must give birth to your kids and never get fat tired or change.
Shebi you can cheat on her and she must be patient.
Shebi if you don't have change she must struggle and get money to help out in the house .
Shebi you can bring second wife (17years) and she must be glad.

And all this she must do without complaint.

Therefore is equal to: That gift is just a start.

The price of a lifetime of slavery.

Nonsense
.

don't you want to see your daughter anymore?

All this for one babe...... Hmmmmm..its won't be funny when he finds out she used to be a runz babe

ToriBlue:
Its Igbo culture, if you don't want to marry, you use the door, no one is forcing you either.

Its an exploitative and unnecessary practice. You only see things like this in Africa

Marriage is not by force na, you people should leave Imo state peeps alone. Were those items not provided by a man?
If you can't provide what is required of you, move on. No be by force.

All for one congo

Ishilove:

My bosom friend recounts how people of her hometown taxed her husband sege. The man spent so much, especially when those thieving 'Umunna' people decided to squeeze the man dry. He spent close to 800k on the traditional wedding alone and for that reason treats the lady as commodity, even till date

Then thats fucke.d up...
Nobody put a rope on him to pay bride price or marry...
So why marey and treat her like commodity.?
HE IS A WEAKLING!.

Beautiful Nonsense....

A friend told me it happened in Owerri.

MrPresident1:


And you are

An ethnic bigot with no life outside Nairaland. We use his sort as the office messenger

PenisCaP:


Then thats fucke.d up...
Nobody put a rope on him to pay bride price or marry...
So why marey and treat her like commodity.?
HE IS A WEAKLING!.

No he isn't. Far from it because I know the man very well.

He was merely obeying 'culture'

janefrancisca:
Madam impersonator, its IGBO and not IBO and secondly let me just assume you are an igbo person and have witnessed the bride price scenario, you should have known that most of those things especially the yams,palm oil,soaps,tin tomatoes etc are shared among the umu ndom (married women) in the community...dis is because in the Igbo tradition, it is believed that the family is not just the owner of a child, the community owns and trains the child too. Ndi amaala too are not left out to..So my dear, I will advise u to draw near to your roots before u turn to efulefu. Besides whatever happened to negotiation? the family doesn't expect the man to bring everything...he should negotiate, no b man im b?

Impersonator or efulefu, according to you "madam oyibo" I repeat is it an IDP camp? Nah you win spelling bee for your time. The problem with us 'Igbo's abi nah IBO" is that we love to discriminate amongst ourselves. If you pay that kind of bride price in your place, no problem. Shey it is the village that will live with the husband and wife after the marriage bah? As far as I am concerned, any family that collects this in the name of umu ada and the rest does not have their daughter's child at heart. The girl that will even agree to it no follow sef. That is why most IMO ladies are either still single or marry outside their state. Haba!! What is it sef. For your imformation, I am an "IBO" lady and we dong demand a mini market in the name of bride price, negotiations or not. You are practically selling your child off. If you you still practice it in your place, no wahala. Practice away ma!!!

Cutehector:
A sensible and ungreedy father won't demand all these...

but Let me educate you. All the items for the community not just the girls immediate family and the father does not have a final say on how or what will be bought, there is something called a list providing by the elders and kinsmen so most times the girls family are helpless because of they try to make problems or try to force a new law the traditional marriage will either be banned or not recognised. Though its fun (if you have the money) because you get to witness negotiations and friendly arguments during that period and do not be deceived because most times it is optional especially when it is obvious the couples dont have money, palm wine tappers and Okada riders have their wives and kids too, do you think they can afford to buy all this ? 1 love.

blacktallest:


Impersonator or efulefu, according to you "madam oyibo" I repeat is it an IDP camp? Nah you win spelling bee for your time. The problem with us 'Igbo's abi nah IBO" is that we love to discriminate amongst ourselves. If you pay that kind of bride price in your place, no problem. Shey it is the village that will live with the husband and wife after the marriage bah? As far as I am concerned, any family that collects this in the name of umu ada and the rest does not have their daughter's child at heart. The girl that will even agree to it no follow sef. That is why most IMO ladies are either still single or marry outside their state. Haba!! What is it sef. For your imformation, I am an "IBO" lady and we dong demand a mini market in the name of bride price, negotiations or not. You are practically selling your child off. If you you still practice it in your place, no wahala. Practice away ma!!!

Madam take it easy..... its optional not by force, just do the necessary bride price paying and leave the rest for latter. Most times the ladies are to blame, they want to arrive in grand style but end up waiting to their late thirties while waiting for a man who can afford to buy almost if not everything on the list.. Poor people in Imo are happily married with kids and they did not buy everything in the list and for the records, Its Igbo not Ibo, get that right please.

stevedre:

but Let me educate you. All the items for the community not just the girls immediate family and the father does not have a final say on how or what will be bought, there is something called a list providing by the elders and kinsmen so most times the girls family are helpless because of they try to make problems or try to force a new law the traditional marriage will either be banned or not recognised. Though its fun (if you have the money) because you get to witness negotiations and friendly arguments during that period and do not be deceived because most times it is optional especially when it is obvious the couples dont have money, palm wine tappers and Okada riders have their wives and kids too, do you think they can afford to buy all this ? 1 love.

Ishilove:

No he isn't. Far from it because I know the man very well.

He was merely obeying 'culture'

only a weakling does that bcoz i cant see how a woman u love dated and courted for yrs before marriage.
Bcoz u bought some stuffz for bride price now killed ur love for her.
dat should even make u love her more coz u spent on her..HE IS A WEAKLING

Is either he neva loved her initially or u formulated d story considering d fact dat u are a troll and core igbo hater...
And u are supposed to be a woman.
Dats shameful if u ask me.

coz i jst though abt ur story this morning and couldnt imagin any reason for a man to do dat.
It doesnt make sense.

them go soon say na mbiase this 1 happen,

stevedre:


Madam take it easy..... its optional not by force, just do the necessary bride price paying and leave the rest for latter. Most times the ladies are to blame, they want to arrive in grand style but end up waiting to their late thirties while waiting for a man who can afford to buy almost if not everything on the list.. Poor people in Imo are happily married with kids and they did not buy everything in the list and for the records, Its Igbo not Ibo, get that right please.

Dude, you get my point. I concur. Most ladies are to blame. God bless you Sir

PenisCaP:


only a weakling does that bcoz i cant see how a woman u love dated and courted for yrs before marriage.
Bcoz u bought some stuffz for bride price now killed ur love for her.
dat should even make u love her more coz u spent on her..HE IS A WEAKLING

Is either he neva loved her initially or u formulated d story considering d fact dat u are a troll and core igbo hater...
And u are supposed to be a woman.
Dats shameful if u ask me.

coz i jst though abt ur story this morning and couldnt imagin any reason for a man to do dat.
It doesnt make sense.

You are naive, unexposed and obviously very young.