We have been friend for more than seven years and she is very good she tell me everything about her includin her boyfriend im responsible for most things in her life includin her admission to university i advise her a lot she always come to my room,sleep together on d same bed chattin wit each other just on a platonic way. There was a day she came to my house normally we are on the bed dat day listen to music in my room the only thing i can remember is we started kissing each other i was suprise we started lookin at each other since then my life has never been d same thinkin about her everyday is my hobby pls advise me. She is avoidin me now should i go for her i dont have anybody in my life presently she is what i think all through

Good for you!

tell her your mind even though u don't want to go into a relationship with her

big deal it happens all the time

follow yah di!ck or yah head, you are still young

kai!

You are not in love,the chemistry you have is lust

You are not in love,the chemistry you have is lust

WORD

[b]poster,
this is d exact situation i found myself,with a girl who happens to be my ex-course mate back in school,I've been responsible for so many things in her life especially her academics and morally,we actually confide in each other,few months ago we started seeing our selves,we hang around oftenly.not until she sent a luv text to me,in my state of confusion i later called her to enquire if she really mean wat she said as per d txt message,she ignore the question,to my utmost surprise we started loosing the passion we both invested in our friendship,it's quite unfortunate that till now we've stopped calling eachother.i only hope that with time we'll come together again as friend
in essence,u need to be careful else u loose her just like wat im going tru right now ,i will advice u to make up ur mind to define ur relationship with her either u guyz want to remain friends or lovers,what ever the response will be should not make u guyz have hatred to yourselves[/b]

My Gee, dont start what u can not finish, the moment you start the real thing, u will start seeing all the mistake in this world about her, and before you know it, everything will turn the other way round. meen chill and just be friends.

Cheers

go and cut ur hair

tkb417:

go and cut your hair

Oh oh!

coolier:

Oh oh!

you ruined a good friendship by kissing, not to mention she has a boyfriend. This just goes to prove that a man can't be friends with a decent looking girl without wanting to struddle her doodle

Awwwww you are half-cute with your fluffy looking fro . Well call her and tell her your feelings, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain

Dont do that to your friend direct her to me, I can save you the trouble

Maybe just give shooter a try

Well said Kev

I need more advise pls

^^What advice do you need?

The point is that,when a girl and a guy gets too close to the extent that they confide in themselves,emotional feelings will start developing.It is the normal way of life as attractions is easily erupted between this two.i have personally had the experience.You should note that too mush closeness to the opposite sexes will certainly result in romantic feeling.

To avoid being in lust. Take her 2 be ur younger sister. I am sure u wont want to av emotional feeling for ur younger sister.

pls kindly fall out of lust dont think this is love cos it was wen u kissed her that u started feeling this way,its natural but i doubt if its love,

MY guy u r not in Love with her, Its ur dick that in love with her pussy and you lips in love with her breast.
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Dont ruin her relationship ask God to give you Yours.

I have often said that men and women can not be friends and this is another example why I believe so. One party always wants more but is usually too shy to say so because he/she doesn't want to lose the friendship. But what is the point in being friends with someone you either want to sleep with or date? It is just torture; tell her whats on your mind and see what happens. Either way, your friendship is never going to be the same again.

@jidesamuel gud advice,
@poster u know wat is right, stay calm nd follow wat ur head is sayn, don't listen 2 ur heart,

You dont love her, you are just lusting for her, love doesnt wait that long.

@ whitesturd, wow!
@ post, which would you prefer, to tell her about ur feelings (make sure it is not lust) or to keep ur friendship

All of you saying he's suddenly 'in lust' with a girl he's been friends with for 7 years are funny. lol

'love doesn't wait that long'? wtf?

isn't it when you want to quickly mount the babe that you act fast? romantic feelings come up when you're good friends with a female you think is acceptable. and it's a two way thing. one person doesn't kiss, two people do. if she didn't want it, she'd have pushed him away.

guy, ride on jor. you guys have to sit and talk about it. pretending it never happened won't work for too long. especially if she's unhappy with her relationship. because if she does have a steady bf who she really loves, i don't see why she has to come to another guy to confide in and be sleeping on the same bed with.

would you guys like to hear that your gf's sleeping on the same bed with another guy?

Give me one gud reasn u attached ur pic to your?guy go barb ur hair, dat afro no fit u.

i dont think there's any wrong in a friends becomin lovers, it happens.

i think there's smthn wrong wif guys and girls hangin close when not datin, u can talk casually but sleepin in the same bed, that's over d line.

d fact dt d fellin u have started after u kissed her signifies dt u dont love her.

just d sudden realisation dt u can get more romance/sex is shacking ur brain.(been there)

ADVICE:
it will be very difficult to get her out of ur head, cus lust is as strong as love just dosnt last as much
just go ahead and ask her out, u really dont have much option here.

if ure lucky she refuses then u ld be able to get her out of ur head, if she agrees, well just go along with d relationship and see what happens.