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Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 4:38pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Some people are just commenting without understanding what the OP is talking about I am from cross River, I thank my parents after eating in my parents house, I thank my aunty and her husband after eating in their house and not my parents even wen they are present dey never pick offense because there is non to pick in the first place. My thank you has always gone to the provider or server of d food... In my parents house it's a necessary I say thank u to them... But outside my home and d meal not prepared by my name den she gets no thank you. there is no disrespect in that 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Bigsteveg(m): 4:39pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Mr man, keep your beliefs to yourself. We don't go about thanking everybody. Why will my wife go about thanking my mum for eating? Who does that? Keep your opinion to yourself and don't be too judgemental next time kingphilip: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by nelsonose: 4:40pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Hmmmmnm |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 4:42pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
nursennenny:I'm not sure you get the OP very well if not u won't be talking about age and greeting mother... In my place my mother/father doesn't pick offence if I don't say thank you to dem after eating food not provided by dem or prepared by my mum, the thank you goes to who cooked or served the food |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Bigsteveg(m): 4:42pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
emi14: So with all the comments, you still don't know what the issue of discussion is. Na wah o |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 4:45pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Bigsteveg:some people are just commenting without knowing what the topic is about they just go ahead to comment and call OP names |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Apina(m): 4:47pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
snowblaq:Madam home training, Do u know how I was brought up? Or u are assuming that by proxy, what's obtainable in your family also applies to mine? Or because he refused to acknowledge her after eating his food in his own house, therefore he lacks manners and cannot train his children appropriately? Madam home training, You have a very narrow sense of judgment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by emi14: 4:55pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Bigsteveg: If you are christian you suppose to understand me if you're not..never mind is not your fault. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by savagefinder: 4:55pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Bigsteveg:eh...its just a two letter word.. if you tell her the thank you and later ask your wife in private why she asked you to say thank you, doesn't it sound wiser? than coming to nairaland of all places for advice? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 4:58pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
emi14:what has religion got to do with this post na |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Lizy100: 5:00pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Oga my husband tells me thank you. She is your mother and she helped in cooking it. Respect to elders demands you tell her a simple thank you. Or are you egoistic? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 5:02pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
savagefinder:is it a must to say thank you to someone dat didn't partake in d preparation of a meal or provided money for it?? Even if it's my parents, apart from in our home(my parents house) they don't get thank you from me the thank you cos to who ever provided d money,cooked and served the meal.. My parents or oda elderly people never get angry or complain wen I don't thank dem in such scenario |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 5:03pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Lizy100:it was never stated his mother in-law assisted in cooking d meal... |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by emi14: 5:05pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Henrybright: Brother my comment is like joke only people familiar with bible can understand. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 5:06pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
emi14:sister the post has nufin to do with religion |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by nursennenny(f): 5:08pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Henrybright:in my culture, it's to every elderly person present. Even there are 20 of them, it's still expected of u. Thanks for saying about your side tho .i appreciate |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by dingbang(m): 5:10pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
nursennenny:I always knew u are humble.. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 5:14pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
nursennenny:that's what people should understand, what you do in ur place might be different from wat oda ppl do in oda places so dey should let d OP be... People just insult d OP and den talk about respect at same time 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by iammolise(m): 5:25pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
it's not such a big deal mehn (if she's older though), it's part of the norms and habit our parents inculcate in us.. But i believe this time around, it's not his direct parent so it has to come from both ends... The mother inlaw should give him that courtesy as the head of the home and he should reciprocate in respect, that's how it works in my place( a man is supposed to comand respect irrespective of the age he is, he's a man and not a boy )... To finish Let me add that... "EGO" destroys homes like fuel on dried grass. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by nursennenny(f): 5:26pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Henrybright:sorry if I sound disrespectful in any way. I never meant to. Forgive me and us |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by LesbianBoy(m): 5:27pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
snowblaq: I hope you say "thank sir" to that elderly neighbour of yours or that elderly gateman that guides your street gate after you finish eating the food you bought and prepared yourself! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Henrybright(m): 5:29pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
nursennenny:lol... It's kul... |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by savagefinder: 5:34pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Henrybright:hmmm..OK..I've heard you..don't say the THANK YOU.. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Raheemzee(m): 5:35pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
mastermaestro:Mr. Cultured!!! I salute you! It's your type that insults and beat your mother's age mate on the street.... I hate pretenders! #spits |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by ccqueen(f): 5:37pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Bigsteveg:There's no such thing as imposing traditions here,whenever you marry someplace that has a different culture from yours,be ready to adopt some of their ways.By the way,a simple "thank ma" doesn't hurt.That your reference no follow because that one is personal. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by cybriz82(m): 5:40pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
mastermaestro: dude is nt from dis planet..nobody ask u who foot d bill or kick d bill....we all do it in form of respect...thnk ma or thnk sir wudnt kill u...mama thnk u for eating our food ooo..mama thnk u for teaching my wife how to cook ooo.mama thnk u for not poisoning my food ooo..simple. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by cybriz82(m): 5:44pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
mastermaestro: |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by achieverme(m): 5:47pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
BellaElla: Thank them for what? That sounds stupid |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by josgolf(m): 5:48pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
You are thanking her for giving birth to such a lovely wife you got married to. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Bigsteveg(m): 6:02pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
ccqueen: It's no different at all, some say thank you after eating some don't believe in doing that. How about the wife respecting her husband belief as well and not disturb him about saying thank you. I personally can't say thank you to a mother in law that comes to visit me in my house, except maybe she was the one that cooked it. Even in my house, we don't say thank you after eating, why should I start with my MIL. This is even the first time I'll be hearing this in my over 30 years |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Bigsteveg(m): 6:08pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
savagefinder: Well according to the write up, the wife came to challenge him later in the room, it's not my story am just a contributor like u. |
Re: Is It Right To Say 'Thank Ma' To Your Mother-In-Law After Eating? by Bigsteveg(m): 6:09pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
emi14: Okay o...but u see Steve in my name nah? What does being a Christian has to do with thank you after eating |
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