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Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Divay22(f): 8:49pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
After all the hectic day with work and kids he wee na come in the night for a movie ticket abi let him comma collect |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Vincente74: 9:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Lollipop247: I no fit laff!!!!! |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by cnonyechi(f): 9:42pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
eyinjuege: Ur comment tooooo long. Ah ah |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by ayaside(m): 9:48pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
This is great topic.I have a girlfriend and she is really wonderful. She is in a different state.I asked her to visit my family home sometimes knowing fully well my mum is gonna tell her my "likes and dislikes" while I am learning hers too.I observe my personal hygiene to almost 100%.I don't believe in stressing anybody to do anything for me.I wanna eat,I use the kitchen(but I will appreciate it more if she could help). My mum been telling her these things and she says her dad does almost everything in the house.We know what that means.And mum knowing me too well knows that I might tolerate that for a while but not long.She been telling her but Gf thinks she knows me better than mum..Bottom line.Learn to keep your house and you will appreciate your spouse help |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by eyinjuege: 9:51pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
cnonyechi: I probably talk too much in real life |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by NevetsIbot(m): 9:54pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
ArchyDesmond:Darn! That house would be super. How much dyuc charge? |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Funkybabee(f): 10:00pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
bamisepeters: is not right or proper for man to be sharing home duties with wife. any woman who is forcing her husband to do it is not a good wife,thou there is nothing wrong with husband helping her wife but forcing or makes it as his duties is very wrong . which y men should be careful whenever they want to marry any woman saying it right bf she marry such man must be very careful with her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by haykes(m): 10:11pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
So gender equality u ladies are claiming wright, thats y u marry two husband and two children when u don't do the needful try that with me and landed in your family house u just want to become ilemosu |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 10:13pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Funkybabee: Thanks for sharing your opinion, but does that make such woman a bad wife? |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 10:15pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
ayaside:thanks for sharing. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:21pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
nairalandfreak: You help her not share house chores. Nothin is bad in that but when a woman sees it as her right. uuhm wahala loading! A reasonable man who truely loves his woman must not be told how to help out when it comes to house chores but to the woman its not a Right but a privilege. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Funkybabee(f): 10:24pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
bamisepeters: not really,but u know a small little thing can make a marriage to fall apart e.g are those thing mentioned here. A wife must respect her husband no matter how they were close or know each other, that's how a marriage without crisis can occur becuz men have different character and principles and some woman character can be very worst some times because the day that man refuse to do his duties she mentioned is the day crisis can start and a woman must know how to build her home that' is why I said such man must be very careful. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:48pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
TrumporIdie:as if women aren't doing that already 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by UTEWUOJO: 10:51pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
A man that has a hectic day in the office returns home for meal and to rest, and one fucking wife ask him to come to the kitchen for chores sharing? TROUBLE de sleep INYANGA de wake am. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 11:04pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
It's all wisdom. If the wife works, then the husband should be wise and humble enough to help her out, it's a sign of love and honor. If she's a full housewife and the husband is the only one bringing money to the house, she should be humble and wise enough to understand she's responsible for the other aspect of home building, and the husband caring enough to help her too. If both are wise and humble, chores won't be a source of bitterness 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Cuteamigo1(m): 11:45pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
the thought of some formal sharing of chores with my wife is off putting although I agree I will help when necessary but making it some form of a right and duty expected from me is what I won't tolerate. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Gerrard59(m): 11:46pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
bezimo: Today's economy doesn't favour such. Unless the man is very financially comfortable. I entreat equality in the home. However, and unfortunately, many "educated" people disagree with my idea. Then again, I advise a traditional man gets married to a traditional woman and modern man to a modern woman. I for one cannot marry a traditional woman. UTEWUOJO: I doubt you get it. A normal situation implores the lady to prepare the meal. However, we've situations where the man comes early and there's no food and still waits for the wife to come back and cook, clean and do all sorts. Question is: What was he doing all along? I repeat, unless the man is financially comfortable. Such scenarios aren't favourable to both parties in the long-run. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bezimo(m): 12:17am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Gerrard59: That's the foundation of many divorce case in the West.Equality concept cannot be applied in marriage. Somebody must be the head.That is the man, the husband not the wife.. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Juliearth(f): 3:47am On Apr 03, 2017 |
While some women may be forunate to have husbands who dont have an issue with helping out,some may not be that lucky. Inasmuch as its cool and romantic for a man to help out with some of the chores,it is outrightly a matter of choice. Women should apply wisdom in doing this....dont force your man to do the dishes or cook just because your friends' husbands do that... 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Juliearth(f): 3:51am On Apr 03, 2017 |
bezimo: God did not create Adam and Eve to be equals. Equity may be advocated for in the workplace(anyone who is qualified for a position should be given a fair chance regardless of the gender) and not in marriages...Women often get this cue of a perfect marriage(supportive husband who does the dishes,cook...) on the social media. However,they fail to realise that most of what is on the social media is staged... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Juliearth(f): 3:57am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Gerrard59: |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Juliearth(f): 4:02am On Apr 03, 2017 |
eyinjuege: Spot on! |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Juliearth(f): 4:05am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Jossyroyal1: Different strokes for different folks |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by ddeola: 5:36am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Am a married man and I can tell you that everything you do to ease your wife's stress as far as house chores is concerned is for your own good in every way you look at it. The home belongs to the both of you. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bezimo(m): 6:24am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Juliearth: Well stated. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by livinbygrace: 7:34am On Apr 03, 2017 |
emerged01: Are you for real?I guess you are a man-woman |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by emerged01(m): 7:50am On Apr 03, 2017 |
livinbygrace:I see nothing wrong bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by ayaside(m): 7:58am On Apr 03, 2017 |
bamisepeters:Not a problem |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by ArchyDesmond(m): 8:40am On Apr 03, 2017 |
NevetsIbot: Just a token .... Few thousands .... Pls mail me on architectdesmond@gmail.com |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by begwong: 9:29am On Apr 03, 2017 |
We share everything with my spouse with no grudges, except for the 9months pregnancy! 2 Likes 1 Share |
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