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Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by obi123: 9:55am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Men are to provide for the family and if by chance a woman is also providing for the family along with the man as expected by the recent economic brouhaha or whatever the case may be, that doesn't mean that the man should then be forced to do what he doesn't want. what a load of bollocks 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Amhappy(f): 11:01am On Apr 03, 2017 |
smartty68: I agree. Nothing is as sweet as doing things from the heart. Even God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 11:04am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Funkybabee: Really appreciate your responses. Click on my signature, really want response from people like you. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 11:08am On Apr 03, 2017 |
obi123:but do you know it doesn't make sense to have said this without correction? I asked for opinion as that was what i thought, i want to learn also like many have learnt one or two things from the thread. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamac(m): 12:11pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
Just now where i want to refill my gas cylinder, a little boy has is short jean trouser down and the parents are not there, as i was trying to help the boy pull his jean trouser up a man said he cannot be doing all this nonsense as his own duty is the financial needs of the house, that other chores is not negotiable. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Funkybabee(f): 1:15pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
bamisepeters: u are wlcm |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by obi123: 1:44pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
bamisepeters: Marriage is all hands on deck, if everyone chips in then the ship wont sink. why cant everyone just willlingly do stuff around the house why is this an issue in a house that you live in. Men whose only responsibility is financial end of being divorced from their children , they havent got a clue whats going on with the kids, they expect their mum to know EVERYTHING, forgetting that a child will benefit from both parents involvement in their upbringing . A woman should not only know how to cook at home , she should be involved in every aspect of that home, to avoid a situation whereby if anything happens to the man then she is clueless and vulnerable , likewise a man , if anything happens to the woman, its easy to run out and go and marry any woman forgetting that not just any woman should be the mother of your children. my husband gives our son a bath, if i am in the kitchen, he feeds him if i am not around i dont need to thank him why should i ? we dont have any help at home, its just us, i shouldnt force him to do anything that needs doing, he is not doing it for me, we are both doing things that are necessary and not anyones jobs per se . This idea of its a womans job to do this, its a man's job to do this is why men and women are so stressed up and feel unneccessary pressure in their individual roles whereas if everyone shared in these so called roles , the stress is reduced , men have been paying bills since the begining of time they need help sometimes, women have been taking care of children from the beginnning of time, they need help too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by drkhenny: 2:13pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
The truth must be told. For any woman to think of sharing chores with her husband is a classical example of a misplaced priority. A responsible and loving husband knows his duty and definetly will know when to help. Its not a duty of a wife to instruct or give orders to her husband. From generation to generations it has been the duty of a woman to take care of the house and a man to provide the needs of the family. For those that think that my wife is working and also making money, then we should share the chores accordingly are just making fool of themselves because for any amount your wife makes it still doesnt belong to you and she wont share it with you. As a woman, if you are an advocate of gender equality, you are gradually destroying your own marriage. Even God said you should respect your husband 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by ChristyB(f): 2:49pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
In a home where there's love, this means nothing cos the husband will always want to assist. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Sarah20A(f): 5:04pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
Jay542:jik or hypo I don't care but you need something to make that place whole again |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Sarah20A(f): 5:05pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
pocohantas:really? But that is the truth |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Adek15(m): 6:30pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
mifavour:cool But is it that he helps u or you guys shared it. Just wanna understand |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Jay542(m): 6:49pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
Sarah20A:Mee?? |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by mifavour(f): 8:56pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
Adek15:he actually does it without me asking 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by obi123: 9:48pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
ChristyB: God bless you for this comment,everything gets done quick because it's all hands on deck |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 9:54pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
obi123:please don't be so quick to judge my opinion, we are all learning, you have pointed out many things which you have hidden with your first response. I am not a relationship writer, speaker and counselor that doesn't seek for other people's opinion of things, a tree doesn't make a forest, the day a man stop learning is the day he is called to where he came from. Thank you for taking your time, i do appreciate. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 9:56pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
drkhenny:you raise a valid point many ignored. Thank you for the light you brought to this topic. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Adek15(m): 2:16am On Apr 04, 2017 |
mifavour:good. I would do that again and again for my wife but the day she asks, hmm.... |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by mifavour(f): 2:34am On Apr 04, 2017 |
Adek15: if she does it politely nko 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by mikolo80: 5:08am On Apr 04, 2017 |
keepingmum:is it right for women to use feminism to increase rate of divorce, single parenthood and gold digging? learn to mind business that affects us all. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by mikolo80: 5:13am On Apr 04, 2017 |
eyinjuege:will you be happy if your brother chop vegetable? |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by obi123: 9:54am On Apr 04, 2017 |
bamisepeters: you are welcome,, i was a bit hasty with my first response , my apologies |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(m): 5:20am On Apr 05, 2017 |
obi123:joyfully accepted. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Adek15(m): 11:54am On Apr 06, 2017 |
mifavour:I might.. But the way some people are saying 'wife not cook' kinda things, hmm... |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:50am On Apr 12, 2017 |
raayah:ur straight up blunt n naughty remarks usually gets to me, ur fun n cool n I like that, can we be friends off here tho.. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 12, 2017 |
raayah: Is our work o, #softwork |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Winter4: 2:06pm On Nov 07, 2018 |
So I think this thread should be revived. Should Men do Chores |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 10:58pm On Nov 07, 2018 |
bamisepeters:You are correct 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 11:23pm On Nov 07, 2018 |
Jman06:They are not necessary lazy because those house chores are easy. Many men don't do house chores( depending on which) because when growing up their parents specify the kind of chores to do. Sweeping, cleaning, cooking are for ladies while fetching of firewood and water is for guys. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Jman06(m): 6:16am On Nov 08, 2018 |
asuustrike1:Fetching of firewood and water, cleaning the house, clearing of grasses around the house etc are still house chores and they are not easy! Even cooking and sweeping are not easy tasks... This mindset of yours is the reason why many guys think it's normal to leave their houses unkempt. |
Re: Is It Right To Share House Chores Between Husband And Wife? Bamisepeters' Blog by Nobody: 6:35am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Jman06:Those house chores are not difficult. It makes you stronger when many of these tasks are given. Do I support guys not doing those house chores you mentioned? No. But for women to have that mindset that house chores should be shared is a stupid assumption. Do I support men not assisting their wives? No. Infact a guy right from bachelorhood or teenager should perform those house chores. It makes them responsible. Our parents were the ones that sink that idea in us to think certain house chores are for boys and girls. This African mentality had made many to think that all men need in marriage is sex and food |
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