My name is onyema donald, I have been on nairaland.com since 2014, I always create topics to help boost my blog traffic, but this time around this is my personal issue and I need your advice.
Am currently serving in katsina state batch a 2016, I met this girl named Joy about a month ago, she is a corper too but batch b. After spending time with her, I started developing feelings for her. She is not just another girl, I wanted her for life. I told her my past live in terms of relationship but there is this one relationship with sandra that I didn't tell her but she ended up discovering it herself. It wasn't a relationship though, just friends with sexual benefits.
Although we haven't met each other for the past 5 years but we planned meeting each other when I get to lagos in March 2017 before joy came into the picture. I ended my relationship with Sandra but our nasty sexual conversation was still in my Facebook inbox. Joy was going through my Facebook last night and saw the messages and was shocked and disappointed, there is no explanation that I have to give because she caught me red handed. I have prayed for forgiveness from God.
Please advise me on what to do because right now it's not more about the relationship but our friendship& how she will see me now. am so ashamed of myself.

There are two things you need to know

- Your case is hopeless. Just forget her.
- We don't need your name to advice you.

you can send trusted mature friends to her. Also be patient with her, while you continue praying to win her back. If she finally accepts you back, be determined to be very sincere to her, and avoid sexual contact with her until you are ready to settle down.

U started off on d wrong foot.

Trust once broken, is usually hard to fix.

On how to win it back, u hv to prove dt u mean wat u say by ur Actions....n accept d pains in good faith

So what you're saying is that she told you everything about her past dates and fvcks?


What's a one month old girlfriend doing in your facebook inbox?

Give her sometime...... she will get over it...... it's fine..... Just keep being you and make her see the reason to trust you.

Everyone has got a past...... but u should have told her!!!!

Tallesty1:
So what you're saying is that she told you everything about her past dates and fvcks?


What's a one month old girlfriend doing in your facebook inbox?

The same question wey I wan ask na guys like this dey fall bosses hand

Onyemadonald:
My name is onyema donald, I have been on nairaland.com since 2014, I always create topics to help boost my blog traffic, but this time around this is my personal issue and I need your advice.
Am currently serving in katsina state batch a 2016, I met this girl named Joy about a month ago, she is a corper too but batch b. After spending time with her, I started developing feelings for her. She is not just another girl, I wanted her for life. I told her my past live in terms of relationship but there is this one relationship with sandra that I didn't tell her but she ended up discovering it herself. It wasn't a relationship though, just friends with sexual benefits.
Although we haven't met each other for the past 5 years but we planned meeting each other when I get to lagos in March 2017 before joy came into the picture. I ended my relationship with Sandra but our nasty sexual conversation was still in my Facebook inbox. Joy was going through my Facebook last night and saw the messages and was shocked and disappointed, there is no explanation that I have to give because she caught me red handed. I have prayed for forgiveness from God.
Please advise me on what to do because right now it's not more about the relationship but our friendship& how she will see me now. am so ashamed of myself.

bro, you're a bitchh! U had in mind to play her but the God she serves is a Living God! Thank God you were caught, her heart is safer this way, you can't break it! U no get conscience ni? If same was done to you, would u like it? Shift Abeg cos I won't advice you!

SorftWerk:
bro, you're a bitchh! U had in mind to play her but the God she serves is a Living God! Thank God you were caught, her heart is safer this way, you can't break it! U no get conscience ni? If same was done to you, would u like it? Shift Abeg cos I won't advice you!

I can't just fathom why you guys will, at the snap of a finger, bring in religious matter.

So, those that were heart-broken, are not serving/worshipping the Living God right

OhMyG0d:
I can't just fathom why you guys will, at the snap of a finger, bring in religious matter.

So, those that were heart-broken, are not serving/worshipping the Living God right

yhe op tried to be smart but God is smarter. That's all I know.

Read it into whatever meaning bro.

SorftWerk:
bro, you're a bitchh! U had in mind to play her but the God she serves is a Living God! Thank God you were caught, her heart is safer this way, you can't break it! U no get conscience ni? If same was done to you, would u like it? Shift Abeg cos I won't advice you!

Beside Quoting the whole article, you still made an haywire comment.

I'm confused so she's angry about messages sent and received before you guys became an item?

OhMyG0d:
Beside Quoting the whole article, you still made an haywire comment.

my problem is the fact that he was tryna play an innocent girl's heart... I detest such guys!

ur actions will decide if you can get the trust back bro