This post was not written to ridicule or rubbish
anyone, but to prevent this from happening.
Becoming a real big girl that's what about
70%-80% of young growing up girl think about,
they do all sorts of things just to meet up even
though they know their family background, some
of them buy the most expensive phones and yet
leave their parent in hardship. Now let's take a
look at how some of them fall

.
1. Right from secondary school she begins dating
school mates,friends in other to buy those
expensive and attractive rubbish.

.
2. She then moves to senior students, teachers
and bigger boys .She later finds herself in the
university (because either she is naturally
intelligent or she known someone who knows
someone...) and begin dating lecturers and G
boys (Yahoo yahoo guys) in other to pass.

.
3. Towards her middle year in school(level 3) she
upgrades literally to sugar daddies or married
men who are cursed anyways, business men
who if they wish to marry they can never ever
marry her because her private part has lost its
value, it's now a tourist attraction, her pride as a
woman is gone and they know she has been with
their friends or co-workers so marriage is out of
the dicussion.

.
4. Her mates begin to include her in their bridal
train, wedding committees ,brides maids to
people who knew what dignity means.

.
5.Before you know it younger girls around them
all begin to marry and she attends as the big
sister coming with her big gift because of course
she is going to be rich only in terms of her bank
account and not her character or herself.

.
6. She begins to seek for one big boy that she will
decieve into marriage(of course she can only
decieve not lead), she may even get pregnant .
But those big boys later marry a younger, more
innocent girl with homely, family and body value.

.
7.She starts seeking out for her former boyfriend
she dumped in school (wings now broken she is
descending looking for someone to decieve into
marriage.

.
8.Self made barrier and standard she set for
herself begins to break and lower ,she is just
looking for any guy to spend her money on and
bring up to her status but all they do is get her
money and disappear.
9. She begins to run from church to church,
crusade to crusade, revival to revival, prayer
meeting to prayer meeting all in serach of a
husband. God says in Proverbs 1:25 "And you
neglected all my counsel and did not want my
reproof; 26 I will also laugh at your calamity, I
will mock you when your dread comes". If she
genuinely repent from her heart and serves God
with her heart not because of a husband, before
you know it God will personal send a husband
10. Finally o when she is not patient with church
or after the fake pastor has demanded for sex ,
she then turns to the devil and of course the
devil would always lead you to your doom
untime.

K

BTW OP, is this your sister's story you just typed up there?

Brilliant. The truth. Nothing but the truth

Nna Maca y

Is this a nollywood script?

Its not practical or true. Sorry.

Safiaa:
Is this a nollywood script?

Its not practical or true. Sorry.

It's pure fact

Nope.

Only a foolish big girl ends up like that.

It will shock you that a lot of times, Karma don't work. Sorry to burst anyone's bubble.

Run your race and leave others to run theirs. Their downfall won't do anything for you, and most times, they don't even fall sef.

mespusinglez:

This post was not written to ridicule or rubbish
anyone, but to prevent this from happening.
Becoming a real big girl that's what about
70%-80% of young growing up girl think about,
they do all sorts of things just to meet up even
though they know their family background, some
of them buy the most expensive phones and
leave their parent in hardship. Now let's take a
look at how some of them fall

.
1. Right from secondary school she begins dating
school mates,friends in other to buy those
expensive and attractive rubbish.

.
2. She then moves to senior students, teachers
and bigger boys .She later finds herself in the
university (because either she is naturally
intelligent or she known someone who knows
someone...) and begin dating lecturers and G
boys (Yahoo yahoo guys) in other to pass.

.
3. Towards her middle year in school(level 3) she
upgrades literally to sugar daddies or married
men who are cursed anyways, business men
who if they wish to marry they can never ever
marry her because her private part has lost its
value, it's now a tourist attraction, her pride as a
woman is gone and they know she has been with
their friends or co-workers so marriage is out of
the dicussion.

.
4. Her mates begin to include her in their bridal
train, wedding committees ,brides maids to
people who knew what dignity means.

.
5.Before you know it younger girls around them
all begin to marry and she attends as the big
sister coming with her big gift because of course
she is going to be rich only in terms of her bank
account and not her character or herself.

.
6. She begins to seek for one big boy that she will
decieve into marriage(of course she can only
decieve not lead), she may even get pregnant .
But those big boys later marry a younger, more
innocent girl with homely, family and body value.

.
7.She starts seeking out for her former boyfriend
she dumped in school (wings now broken she is
descending looking for someone to decieve into
marriage.

.
8.Self made barrier and standard she set for
herself begins to break and lower ,she is just
looking for any guy to spend her money on and
bring up to her status but all they do is get her
money and disappear.
9. She begins to run from church to church,
crusade to crusade, revival to revival, prayer
meeting to prayer meeting all in serach of a
husband. God says in Proverbs 1:25 "And you
neglected all my counsel and did not want my
reproof; 26 I will also laugh at your calamity, I
will mock you when your dread comes". If she
genuinely repent from her heart and serves God
with her heart not because of a husband, before
you know it God will personal send a husband
10. Finally o when she is not patient with church
or after the fake pastor has demanded for sex ,
she then turns to the devil and of course the
devil would always lead you to your doom
untime.

I swear down you were inspired by the most High God to write this damn!

I have almost eight ladies who are of these status you put up here.
They've all enjoyed life to the checking point and the Old man called Karma is sending them pensions of their deeds but they are looking for innocent guy to settle down with. Chai!!!
It will not work !!!
I can't leave my only Angel to pity any retired/refurbished/ repackaged Oloshos' because of money oooo.

Nollynude:
BTW OP, is this your sister's story you just typed up there?

the truth is bitter. that's the trend for most of those girls that sleep around and do anything possible to use the latest phones and show off while they were in school. only a few of them are lucky to settle down with a good man. read again

mespusinglez:

This post was not written to ridicule or rubbish
anyone, but to prevent this from happening.
Becoming a real big girl that's what about
70%-80% of young growing up girl think about,
they do all sorts of things just to meet up even
though they know their family background, some
of them buy the most expensive phones and yet
leave their parent in hardship. Now let's take a
look at how some of them fall

.
1. Right from secondary school she begins dating
school mates,friends in other to buy those
expensive and attractive rubbish.

.
2. She then moves to senior students, teachers
and bigger boys .She later finds herself in the
university (because either she is naturally
intelligent or she known someone who knows
someone...) and begin dating lecturers and G
boys (Yahoo yahoo guys) in other to pass.

.
3. Towards her middle year in school(level 3) she
upgrades literally to sugar daddies or married
men who are cursed anyways, business men
who if they wish to marry they can never ever
marry her because her private part has lost its
value, it's now a tourist attraction, her pride as a
woman is gone and they know she has been with
their friends or co-workers so marriage is out of
the dicussion.

.
4. Her mates begin to include her in their bridal
train, wedding committees ,brides maids to
people who knew what dignity means.

.
5.Before you know it younger girls around them
all begin to marry and she attends as the big
sister coming with her big gift because of course
she is going to be rich only in terms of her bank
account and not her character or herself.

.
6. She begins to seek for one big boy that she will
decieve into marriage(of course she can only
decieve not lead), she may even get pregnant .
But those big boys later marry a younger, more
innocent girl with homely, family and body value.

.
7.She starts seeking out for her former boyfriend
she dumped in school (wings now broken she is
descending looking for someone to decieve into
marriage.

.
8.Self made barrier and standard she set for
herself begins to break and lower ,she is just
looking for any guy to spend her money on and
bring up to her status but all they do is get her
money and disappear.
9. She begins to run from church to church,
crusade to crusade, revival to revival, prayer
meeting to prayer meeting all in serach of a
husband. God says in Proverbs 1:25 "And you
neglected all my counsel and did not want my
reproof; 26 I will also laugh at your calamity, I
will mock you when your dread comes". If she
genuinely repent from her heart and serves God
with her heart not because of a husband, before
you know it God will personal send a husband
10. Finally o when she is not patient with church
or after the fake pastor has demanded for sex ,
she then turns to the devil and of course the
devil would always lead you to your doom
untime.

I don't subscribe to promiscuity, but what you wrote about does not always happen that way, in fact it seldom happens that way. There are also chances that the loose girls would get married to very good husbands timely, and there are also chances the homely girls would be the ones lowering standards and running around churches, life is that convoluted. Just do your best, but don't judge others, albeit, why is marriage the yardstick for measuring how well a woman ended up in this clime sef?

Lunagirl:
Nope.

Only a foolish big girl ends up like that.

It will shock you that a lot of times, Karma don't work. Sorry to burst anyone's bubble.

Run your race and leave others to run theirs. Their downfall won't do anything for you, and most times, they don't even fall sef.

Preach it babe

You have observed well

You forget some get married in their third year in school when they upgrade to married men and sugar daddies because they become exposed to more people. I know two people this happened to, the sad part is the most homely and nicest girl I ever met is still unmarried in her 40s now.

If davido wants to get married, he will definitely not marry the kind of girl people would love, he would probably marry a Tboss type(hated for no particular reason) because these are the kind of women always around him.

Karma doesn't always play the music you wish to dance to. Life just happens. And for the record, not every lady wishes to get married, we all are wired differently. Some prefer being the side chick or baby mama to being the wife.

OP, clap for yourself. By spilling this bitter truth, you just succeeded in bringing trouble to your door.

HarveySpecter1:
Brilliant. The truth. Nothing but the truth

Lies it's even the spoilt girls who get married first.

egopersonified:
You forget some get married in their third year in school when they upgrade to married men and sugar daddies because they become exposed to more people. I know two people this happened to, the sad part is the most homely and nicest girl I ever met is still unmarried in her 40s now.

If davido wants to get married, he will definitely not marry the kind of girl people would love, he would probably marry a Tboss type(hated for no particular reason) because these are the kind of women always around him.

Karma doesn't always play the music you wish to dance to. Life just happens. And for the record, not every lady wishes to get married, we all are wired differently. Some prefer being the side chick or baby mama to being the wife.

It could be your friend whos unmarried in her 40s is very boring to be around. Guys as much as we want decent girls, most of us won't put up with a boring girl or a boring woman.

tensazangetsu20:

It could be your friend whos unmarried in her 40s is very boring to be around. Guys as much as we want decent girls, most of us won't put up with a boring girl or a boring woman.

Explain boring.
Maybe I fall into that group.

Alero3Arubi:


Explain boring.
Maybe I fall into that group.

Boring as in can't keep up with conversations in any way. Has no idea about anything and behaves as if nothing interesting happens to her on a daily basis.

Alero3Arubi:

Explain boring. Maybe I fall into that group.

The term boring is relative...
Am not a fan of using the term boring on people... I prefer "conservative"

Like i know this person

Things don't always happen the way you have written o.....hmmm at times some good girls are unfortunate. .,,..,,

SnowJay92:


I don't subscribe to promiscuity, but what you wrote about does not always happen that way, in fact it seldom happens that way. There are also chances that the loose girls would get married to very good husbands timely, and there are also chances the homely girls would be the ones lowering standards and running around churches, life is that convoluted. Just do your best, but don't judge others, albeit, why is marriage the yardstick for measuring how well a woman ended up in this clime sef?

You are right about homely ones running to churches for husband although not in all cases but in some cases ..its vice versa jare.
Everyone has their own destiny and race to run. And most times , the olosho dem marry good wealthy men , the op will be shocked . but its reality. Life itself is unfair .
Everyone do their bits and leave the rest to God .
The marriage thing is overated .
Op don't worry your mind how big girls end up.cause some are even happily married than the naive innocent girl u see on the streets. Cause they know how to handle their men. Just focus on how to make your life better and be happy with your choice of companion.
OK?

After playing hard to get for a considerable number of years, when age is no longer on their side, they eventually give in to one old d!ck...

tensazangetsu20:

Boring as in can't keep up with conversations in any way. Has no idea about anything and behaves as if nothing interesting happens to her on a daily basis.

Oh lord help me.
I need help.
Thank you for your kind eye opener.
I will try to create scenes from now on.

Alero3Arubi:


Oh lord help me.
I need help.
Thank you for your kind eye opener.
I will try to create scenes from now on.

I can help you. Just sent you a PM.

TheSlyone2:

The term boring is relative...

Am not a fan of using the term boring on people... I prefer "conservative"


Like i know this person

Conservative is different from boring. There are girls who are conservative or very introverted and they are so much fun to be around. But a boring girl is a boring person who is a girl and no one likes a boring person. So most times when women say they can't find mates then they should check themselves. Maybe they are very boring to be around and no one enjoys their company.

Op, this your write up get as e be o.
I've noticed that its the 'big, bad' girls that settle down early and marry responsible young men who are also relatively comfortable.

I don't just know how they do it and the 'good' girls end up getting married to irresponsible young men who can barely feed themselves talkmore of a wife.

Not all older single ladies you see did 'big' girl in their youth o. Time and chance can happen to anyone.

Eccl 9:11

Just spotted one runz girl saying karma don't work. It take quite a while...But It sure does.

Lunagirl:
Nope.

Only a foolish big girl ends up like that.

It will shock you that a lot of times, Karma don't work. Sorry to burst anyone's bubble.

Run your race and leave others to run theirs. Their downfall won't do anything for you, and most times, they don't even fall sef.

yes o! most of the big girls i knew back then are now happily married,na the good girls still dey find husbands

all those times have passed o. nowadays its girls like this that get married to the best of men.

beeolhar:


yes o! most of the big girls i knew back then are now happily married,na the good girls still dey find husbands

leave them they dont know anything yet.
they think life is a nollywood movie they dont know the times have changed.

the important thing is not even abt being good the inportant thing is about how much the girl goes out.

All those so called big girls go out alot theres a difference btw a big gal and a prostitute.

As a big gal you date you break up etc just as even d good girls too what makes yours better is you know how to meet the right people for this dates.

the good girls be dating broke niggas without cars claiming they are good why the big gals date rich niggas. even if you are a good gal guy that wont marry you wont.

what will be will be.