Lol guyz pardon me for errors, i'm not an english student.

To the topic, what does a lady mean when she says NO dat moment the main ACTION is about to begin after a date . Do the NO actually means NO, or is she saying YES in a subtle and decorded manner.


They are situations in which the guy must have obliged to the NO she is insisting on and the next morning she will go around telling her friends dat u were not man enough, for instance after following dis babe bum to bum for a week she decided to visit me, lol dat night i prepared my self physically, mentally and staminally , did everything a random dude Should do, touched, massaged her laps, mehn i suffered dat day bt she still insisted on her NO. I just went and slept off before dem come sa i don rape her.


After a week rumors were circulating dat i'm not a man , dis girl virtually told all her friends dat shit. When i asked her the reasons to her actions, she said she was angry with me dat i didn't pushed further.

What i'm trying to know is whether girls are sometimes confused abt their desires or are just complex creatures ?

Well if a lady tells me No, that's it. I'm not pushing any further no matter what she thinks of me. If she really wants it, then she should learn to say yes.

When a woman says NO, they actually mean NO. It's not a bluff.

If you're looking for permission to touch someone, then ask for it expressly. This includes a person you're dating..If someone says no, then respect that. If you think they're playing with your mind, let it go...

If someone is irritated that you're asking and think that you lack sponteanity, explain that you want to be respectful of them and it's your policy to ask before you touch.

NO is wat dey rilly mean brother,,,,buh dere iz more explanation about it again...

sometimes it depends on the closeness...a lady might tell u know because she didn't want u to see her as bin too cheap but deep down if u push hard she won't resist a bit...but in most cases if they tell u know its better to back up especially if that's the first time cos she might end up telling people u are a rapist

vanida6:
NO is wat dey rilly mean brother,,,,buh dere iz more explanation about it again...

V....xup

No actually means No

I personally respect anyone who understands that

But, many ladies are guilty of reverse psychology

Am not gonna go into details

youngberry001:
V....xup

am gud,,,u lie to me

vanida6:
am gud,,,u lie to me

me

About wat..?

youngberry001:
me


About wat..?

about wat u said yestrday....

Smellymouth:
When a woman says NO, they actually mean NO. It's not a bluff.

If you're looking for permission to touch someone, then ask for it expressly. This includes a person you're dating..If someone says no, then respect that. If you think they're playing with your mind, let it go...

If someone is irritated that you're asking and think that you lack sponteanity, explain that you want to be respectful of them and it's your policy to ask before you touch.

Aderola15:

Lol

vanida6:
about wat u said yestrday....

ohh yeah sorry i forget

Today 8:prompt.

vanida6:
NO is wat dey rilly mean brother,,,,buh dere iz more explanation about it again...

Hmmn ok

Aderola15:

Ahn- Ahn, wet punnay? On a Sunday? And I am alone? And the punnay is wet? And I am ready?

Chisos!!!

youngberry001:
ohh yeah sorry i forget

Today 8:prompt.

ok

Smellymouth:


Ahn- Ahn, wet punnay? On a Sunday? And I am alone? And the punnay is wet? And I am ready?

Chisos!!!

Loool. Izz allowed na. You're a Muslim.

If smelly wee nor go to punnay, punnay wee go to smelly.


*Runs outta thread*

Aderola15, Wia are you running to?

Runs after her.

OK No means No but as some ladies already agreed up here. There is more to it. Some No actually meant to make you push a little bit

On a lighter note, may be the tune of the 'NO' can help

in nigerian code....a girl"s yes means no
her no is yes
if she says she loves u she hates u
if she says she hates u she loves u
if she calls u ugly pls jump for joy cos she is highly attracted to u
if she calls u handsome u actually ugly
if she yells at u and tells u to stop stalking her she's actually begging u to keep on bugging her
understand all this and u will be able to get along










Na joke i dey oo

Smellymouth:
Aderola15, Wia are you running to?

Runs after her.

To the other side, catch me if you can.

Lols

To most girls their No actually means Yes, they're just to ashamed to admit it in order not to look cheap..if you had gone ahead to touch the more sensitive parts, that No would've become NOøooooouuummmmmmmmmm! Trust me. Speaking from experience though

For those saying no is no, i disagree. i hv had experience of ladies saying no, bt letter go fr d yes. op at times no = (yes) at times yes = no.

If you want to come off as a no nonsense person and with self control, accept a lady's no as no. An immature lady uses reverse psychology. A woman bares out her mind.