folks, when a guy tells his girlfriend of 2yrs that if she sees someone serious to marry her that she should go ahead. what could he mean that?

He ain't ready and won't be any tyme soon. . .

elektra hits the nail on the head

Live am make he go die, he nor love u.

means i'm banging you because you let me but i will never marry you further more i dont even like you so if you see someone who is willing to settle for you go ahead and marry em


Classic emotional and verbal abuse with a pinch of reverse psychology

omega25red:

means i'm you because you let me but i will never marry you further more i dont even like you so if you see someone who is willing to settle for you go ahead and marry em


Classic emotional and verbal abuse with a pinch of reverse psychology

Am suprisd u re even askin,sm1 plainly said,u re wastin ur tym wt me,notin wil make me marry u & u re askin wat he means?

topic

LMAO

maybe mrs woman has been signalling marriage full time but mr man is not/will not be ready!

at times it may happen cos the guy isnt prepared moneywise etc for the wedding yet the gals goes on and on abt that. the guy may feel that the reason she is going on inspite knowing his status is cos she got an offer!!!

seen that 1ce, crazy relationship. galfriend actually left to get engaged to some other dude, broke up 3 weeks to the scheduled wedding and then remembered Guy and came back. funny thing is everyone around the guy were totally against his taking her back! guy wanted to though.

my point is it depends, if babe is sure there isnt any real hindrance to the the guy marrying her yet he says that then there is fire on the mountain, run run. otherwise he could just be frustrated and unreasonable.

Pweety4me:

He ain't ready and won't be any tyme soon. . .

Gbam.

Wat the guy is saying is; I ain't ready for this stuff, i'm a guy u're a lady, I ain't in a hurry, u are, so move on with ur life if u want to, i've still got my plans. @poster, from ur post, it looks like the guy told u in a subtle manner, and probably u've been asking a lot about marriage, he hasn't broken up with you so the ball is in your court, u decide if u'll wait for him to stabilize or u'll just take a walk immediately. Everything balls down to ur age if the love is there, and u still young and you think u can wait, fine.

Mannylex:

Wat the guy is saying is; I ain't ready for this stuff, i'm a guy u're a lady, I ain't in a hurry, u are, so move on with your life if u want to, i've still got my plans. @poster, from your post, it looks like the guy told u in a subtle manner, and probably u've been asking a lot about marriage, he hasn't broken up with you so the ball is in your court, u decide if u'll wait for him to stabilize or u'll just take a walk immediately. Everything balls down to your age if the love is there, and u still young and you think u can wait, fine.

i support you,that is why ladies should engage with somebody much older than her.A lady of 21 years can marry but imagine a guy of the same age getting married.

Lol, He just basically insulted you to your face, telling you you are good enough to date/Bleep but not good enough to marry, And you mean to tell me you came on here to ask us what he meant? Read in between the lines girl!. Dump his sawry ass, he don't love you nor respect you.

Babe, u re too much on the guy neck 4 marriage and bobo need to sort somethings out. Anyway, thats an handwriting on d wall 4u that u are a free babe. The guy no get ur time u beta hook up wit anyone that is ready 4u but shine u eyes. Oko won lode o.

he is breaking up with u in a sensible way.

Thats a mean moofooker. Girl I would bowed out quickly.

He is saying he does not mind having romantic affairs, sexx. . . but dont you ever in your life
immagine that he is ever going to make any move to marry you. I said those same lines to
a girl a coupla yearz back. We were the same age, and she was ready to marry, and i knew
i will not be in the next 5 yrs - i mean as at that time

The guy nor love you again!

He never loved u, u were used to satisfy his selfish desires. Walk out NOW and never look back. Better luck next time! Some guys are so full of ****!

[color=Black][/color] ANSWER THIS ARE YOU FORCING THE GUY TO MARRY YOU,WHAT IF HE IS NOT READY

@ Poster,the guy in question is a He-goat. I feel your pain,sister. He has beeen using you all the while to satisfy his sexual desires,and may God almighty punish him for that.Amen-fire! fire!! fire!!! You need to leave this guy alone,and get a better hold of your future.you need to be more careful about the kind of men you will associate with in the future,so that you will not find yourself in this kind of humiliating circumstance again. pre-marital sex will only do you more harm than good.

he means dont stop looking for your life partner since he's not the one.


better drop him asap

ah ah1!!!! we ladies can live in denial sha.wat else do u want to hear?dude aint ready to settle down QED.N if he is i guess not wit u.cum to tink of it, sm1 told me dat shit years bak(crackin my head to recall).well all,s gud iv moved on n i tink u shld do same

@ megtin

LOL.

where abouts in NIgeria are you ?

y u wan no?

You seriously do not need anyone telling you he's simply saying you both got no future together. . .you had better leave!

It means he has no intentions of marrying the girl, shikena.

sweetpie23:

he is breaking up with u in a sensible way.

lol

It all depends on what made him say it!


if u have been putting him under pressure, it might mean: "i will not let u stampede me into marriage!"

it can be a test to see what u ll do

it can also actually mean that he has had enough!