have you ever been unlucky in love? abusive relationship, your partner cheating on you someone dump you etc

Fortunately, i av not

I play the game beta.

I've been unlucky & i hurt so bad dat i cried meself 2 slp most nyts but am over it now & i even wonder why i was cryin b4.

Unfortunately, I've been heartbroken for 2yrs now and the wounds hasn't healed. I wonder when e go stop

i have been in an abusive relationship, but i got there as fast as i could, the relationship was too intense,

Someone must play a fool before getting wise. 4 me i cant hurt/break a heart but em girl are heartless&callous.i was fooled countless times,dumped several times,broken hearted once.Some girls are angels on earth just as my Nkem.if u want to let go the hurt of heartbreak,pick up something of interest and take it as an hobby.

Umm really?

Great.

Whats great?

LOL, we need more sincere folks like u oga puskin

yes,i have been used,dumped and treated badly.i cried my eyes out,but thank God,i have outgrown it.but now,i cant trust any guy.because the past still hunts me

Was unlucky to fall for a babe that dumped me after spending only two weekends with me. Till today I still try to reason what I said or did wrong. Always spent good money on her, dropped her off in school, bought lots of blings, took her out to eateries etc. Even planned to marry her. She stopped coming as soon as I mentioned going to meet her folks!

@invisible,
so sorry,i know how u feel,pls move on with life.i have gone through that b4.

I had a relationship which I did everything humanly possible to sustain,but it still tanked.I am so grateful that he decided to call it quits,because right now I am with someone who showed me all the love I didnt get previously. We broke up because he had commitment issues,he indirectly humiliated me in front of his friends,he even told me to go date some other guys,recommending his friend to me in the process,yet I was still foolishly clinging to someone who slept with some of his auxilliary nurses( he is a doctor) and said it to my face,because I didnt visit him in two months(due to the fact that I had issues-which he knew about but never showed any care) I wish you were here to read this,wale. you hurt me really bad,but you think it doesnt matter because your friends did it too.
I know this-you will experience the kind of pain you made go through,because someday a woman you will introduce to your family and friends will dump you, then you will know the kind of pain,heartache and humiliation I experienced too.You even went as far as sending love texts to my friend,who is like 4years older than you.I know you too well,you did that just because you heard that edo girls are loose and good in bed.
Well,I am doing fine now.A friend who gave me honest advice back then is the one I am actually going out with. and he is A millon times better than you,thanks for letting me go.
So,have fun!

Love,

yeah among all is only one that was really painful, Well i so much thank God becoz am better thereof now than then

I stay for good three days without testing anything,

Now no more trust, no more sincerity, just play along

being unlucky in love can be very frustrating, will never fall into such thing call love again, what a very bitter experience i had

yea sort of I dumped someone who love me so much but now we are back together.

hmmmmmnnnnnnnnnn dont want to talk about it. it painful, i can love or trust any guy never ever again. though am with someone now that i think he loves sha, gah to play along.

So far, Life and Love have been fair to me.

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@poster

actually i have luckily been in love,

its true the good girls always gets the bad guys, maybe we look for too Behind and presentable fine young guys and we end up being dumped, hmmm,i av had it so bad got 2 heartbreaks it wasnt easy but im in love again not easy though but im enjoying it.

tngtech:

@poster

actually i have luckily been in love,

good for you

I im so lucky, Mi boyfriend who is first love is the best ever. I am the luckiest babe to have him,  For y'all who are unlucky, keep trying,

lol, Not for now. We gonna get married soon. Itz sure gonna last 4evr.

I only truly loved twice, but got hurt. . . Gosh! I thought i was stronger after the first but it was even harder to survive the 2nd.

Funny thing is those i truly loved were not what u call the stunning type, they just had this class and style that made them stand out. . . It always started right but ended wrongly, both were similar, very similar especially with what led to the break-ups. . . It was always that type of issue where u say "It wasn't my fault", but end of the day, u ask "Could i have tolerated it?", cos u realise that life without them is worse than living with whatever it is they did. . .

On the other hand, some girls suck up to me and its hard to know if they have any feelings cos they all say and do the same things. . . In such cases, i look at my heart and if i feel something i'll know, but it doesn't always turn out that way.

I guess life's like that, so i get on with it.