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Some Guys are terrible when wooing

just shake ur pocket make dem see nd see d magic

Good tips for those still searching but these rules are not cast in a stone. Some gold diggers out there would like to know the man's financial background before they will decide if there will be a second date. Make sure you know yourself and what you want before you go on a date. Many out there do not know themselves much less what they want in a woman. Above all pray that God will direct your steps in choosing a mate. These tips are helpful but every relationship is unique.

There is nothing wrong talking about your pedigree. You just don't have to boast about it.

Nice one OP, true talk.

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DanceVille:
Everything has a rule, even a relationship. There are
certain things that a guy would say to a lady on a first
date which would determine whether there will be
another date.


Most Nigerian men are not perfect when it comes to
wooing a lady. Due to ego, some men assume that they
can convince any girl to date them, irrespective of what
they do or say.


This principle might work for only a few but a higher
percentage of ladies expect a prospective boyfriend to be
on point in his manner of approach as well as in his
intentions.


First impression matters a lot. If you get it right on a first
date, you are more likely to get a second date and more.
Ladies do not appreciate a braggadocio, so mentioning
your achievements to a lady you are getting to know will
only turn her off.


Unfortunately, most Nigerian guys think this is the best
way to get a girl since most ladies are materialistic.
Well, you’ll need to change your vocabulary. Here are
some silly things most Nigerian men say to ladies that
should be avoided on a first date.


1. I Love You


Okay Pause! How can you possibly love someone you
are still getting to know? That would be lust and a huge
lie for you to say. In as much as you feel something for
her, it is definitely not love, so saying ‘I love you’ either
makes you a liar or a confused fellow.


2. I Am the Son of . . ./ the CEO of . . .


Men, Ladies First
Date
Some men cannot camouflage on low key because they
think if she knows who’se son he is, or where he works,
it might boost his reputation. Well, here’s the shocker,
women do not like it when men strike them as being
proud.
Some ladies might be overwhelmed by your status, some
do not care and may look down on your proud tellings. If
you are not her type, being the son of Dangote will not
change that.


3. You Look Like My Ex


Really! Comparison to an ex; who may still be her
competition, is a ‘NO NO Liner.’ Tell her she looks pretty
and not liken her to someone you once had feelings for.
That will only make her a second option; because your
ex is no more available, you want to settle for her look-
alike.


4. What Are Your Statistics?


Now this would piss women off totally. It is irritating
when men walk up to ladies and within few minutes start
to ask them for their statistics when the guys do not
work for modelling agencies.
This is a lustful question and most ladies may frown at
it. Not only is it inappropriate, it could sound as a rude
shock to the lady.


5. I Can Buy You Anything You Want


Men, Ladies First
Date
Ladies do not like it when they meet men who see them
as cheap,with the assumption that they would fall once
they know their financial needs can be taken care of.
Some ladies would rather walk in rags with pride than
date men who would give them clothes and later make
them feel worthless. Some men even go as far as saying
‘I Can Take You Round the World.’ Not every woman
enjoys these exaggerated promises, especially if the man
is trying so hard to buy her love.


6. I Will Give You Satisfaction


This is really disgusting and most men say it even
though not in black and white. Not only is it
inappropriate to say this to a woman, it is embarrassing
for a lady to be addressed like that when she is not a
prostitute. Even though ladies worry about the sexual
performances of their partners, they do not appreciate it
when men propose this to them while asking them out. It
makes them feel like the men are after their bodies and
nothing else.


7. I Want to Marry You


This line might captivate the heart of teenagers who do
not know what life is talking about. However, saying it to
a lady in her late twenties and above, suggests that you
are either mocking her or plan to use the marriage liner
to get into her panties.
Having said all of these, courtesy demands that the next
time you are about to sweep a lady off her feet, you
should stay clear off the above phrases. Be yourself and
she will love you for who you are.


Compiled By: DanceVille

So if dangote Pikin Naaw carry naija babe Comot com tell am say iam d son of Alhaji Aliko Dangote and e con spend d bar to back am up, d girl go vex abi
We are washing u from the high places

no 3 and no 7 lol

Bull

Rubbish. You're worrying about "inappropriate" things you might say to her, when one one-armed dwarf who happens to have some money is pouring his dirty acamu on her face.

There are no "ladies" in Nigeria. What you have are classless females who ALL crave money and material things, and therefore have no intrinsic substance. It's all about where you work, what you do, how much money you ostensibly have, what car you drive, what social status you seemingly have, etc (based on the superficial evidence).

Don't waste time worrying about what to say or what not to say to them. You shouldn't cast your pearls before swines.

Bryan12:
First date or no first date
If a woman sees who she will date/fvck she knows at first sighting,other ones na shererere

True talk baba

SweetyZinta:
Lolz










seriously? I will marry you on a first date? I better Runnn for my life

so....were u dating just to shag & move on to d next guy, i was under the impression you approach a lady with the intent to marry. But may be am just old fashioned.

oh well, whatever rocks ur boat

different girls with different approach...I no dey use time table for girls.

[quote author=ThemiDhayor post=56431442]Nice one op.


If a Nigerian guy tells me all these stuffs, I will surely make sure I wet him wit d hot coffee on my hand..

Are u sure?

decatalyst:
Hey op, most Nigerian ladies want to hear "I can buy you anything you want" even on half date!


They will be looking at you like the pix below begging you to just say those words.

Very True o

And some useless misogynists and chauvinists would soon come here to insult their female relatives all in a bid to get back at Nigerian women! Educated illiterates!

[quote author=Emilad post=56436661][/quote] come on stop lying

hedonistic:
Rubbish. You're worrying about "inappropriate" things you might say to her, when one one-armed dwarf who happens to have some money is pouring his dirty acamu on her face.

There are no "ladies" in Nigeria. What you have are classless females who ALL crave money and material things, and therefore have no intrinsic substance. It's all about where you work, what you do, how much money you ostensibly have, what car you drive, what social status you seemingly have, etc (based on the superficial evidence).

Pathetic bitches, most of them, regardless of their so called education, profession, 'package', or anything else.

oya ez okay. Ez okay. No vex again. Haba.. Who do u sef ehn??

DanceVille:
Everything has a rule, even a relationship. There are
certain things that a guy would say to a lady on a first
date which would determine whether there will be
another date.


Most Nigerian men are not perfect when it comes to
wooing a lady. Due to ego, some men assume that they
can convince any girl to date them, irrespective of what
they do or say.


This principle might work for only a few but a higher
percentage of ladies expect a prospective boyfriend to be
on point in his manner of approach as well as in his
intentions.


First impression matters a lot. If you get it right on a first
date, you are more likely to get a second date and more.
Ladies do not appreciate a braggadocio, so mentioning
your achievements to a lady you are getting to know will
only turn her off.


Unfortunately, most Nigerian guys think this is the best
way to get a girl since most ladies are materialistic.
Well, you’ll need to change your vocabulary. Here are
some silly things most Nigerian men say to ladies that
should be avoided on a first date.


1. I Love You


Okay Pause! How can you possibly love someone you
are still getting to know? That would be lust and a huge
lie for you to say. In as much as you feel something for
her, it is definitely not love, so saying ‘I love you’ either
makes you a liar or a confused fellow.


2. I Am the Son of . . ./ the CEO of . . .


Men, Ladies First
Date
Some men cannot camouflage on low key because they
think if she knows who’se son he is, or where he works,
it might boost his reputation. Well, here’s the shocker,
women do not like it when men strike them as being
proud.
Some ladies might be overwhelmed by your status, some
do not care and may look down on your proud tellings. If
you are not her type, being the son of Dangote will not
change that.


3. You Look Like My Ex


Really! Comparison to an ex; who may still be her
competition, is a ‘NO NO Liner.’ Tell her she looks pretty
and not liken her to someone you once had feelings for.
That will only make her a second option; because your
ex is no more available, you want to settle for her look-
alike.


4. What Are Your Statistics?


Now this would piss women off totally. It is irritating
when men walk up to ladies and within few minutes start
to ask them for their statistics when the guys do not
work for modelling agencies.
This is a lustful question and most ladies may frown at
it. Not only is it inappropriate, it could sound as a rude
shock to the lady.


5. I Can Buy You Anything You Want


Men, Ladies First
Date
Ladies do not like it when they meet men who see them
as cheap,with the assumption that they would fall once
they know their financial needs can be taken care of.
Some ladies would rather walk in rags with pride than
date men who would give them clothes and later make
them feel worthless. Some men even go as far as saying
‘I Can Take You Round the World.’ Not every woman
enjoys these exaggerated promises, especially if the man
is trying so hard to buy her love.


6. I Will Give You Satisfaction


This is really disgusting and most men say it even
though not in black and white. Not only is it
inappropriate to say this to a woman, it is embarrassing
for a lady to be addressed like that when she is not a
prostitute. Even though ladies worry about the sexual
performances of their partners, they do not appreciate it
when men propose this to them while asking them out. It
makes them feel like the men are after their bodies and
nothing else.


7. I Want to Marry You


This line might captivate the heart of teenagers who do
not know what life is talking about. However, saying it to
a lady in her late twenties and above, suggests that you
are either mocking her or plan to use the marriage liner
to get into her panties.
Having said all of these, courtesy demands that the next
time you are about to sweep a lady off her feet, you
should stay clear off the above phrases. Be yourself and
she will love you for who you are.


Compiled By: DanceVille

Truck load of rubbish I can say whatever I like dts part of keeping it real

If she doesn't like it she can bounce with her smelling kpekus

I thought I would see something meaningful. No one cares about the rules this days.

Nofuckgiven:
And some useless misogynists and chauvinists would soon come here to insult their female relatives all in a bid to get back at Nigerian women! Educated illiterates!

no f#ck taken

Nowadays wey first date don turn sex. Who cares about list

pocohantas:
They won't hear...
They will still come and tell us what most Nigerian girls like.

You and this "bending" issue. You're either into yoga or kamasutra. I'm never wrong btw.

OP plz maybe we should share our wooing/romance success stories.
Move this topic to the front page, pls. Let's knw how the wooing masters talk to gurls.

"I love you" ruins my mood. It irritates the hell out of me. How can you possibly love me when you know nothing about me? That's one hell of a lie I can't swallow..

RealHaute:


You and this "bending" issue. You're either into yoga or kamasutra. I'm never wrong btw.

Na una work na.
Prick administrators...
Bending Rangers...

This isn't going to change anything, they are true though.

When I hear folks making rules.......I laugh. Be yourself abeg. Rules are messed up. Just be yourself. If you love her show it, talk about it. Don't follow bullshit rules.......do that and you will continue keeping more rules , she will make ur life a living hell.

I will shook you chuku chuku

I believe all except the "I love you part". If I've talked with someone on phone for awhile, I may start to develop love for her which I'll surely tell her on first date.