Pidgin2:
Hobermener what if the lady is a karate black belter, would the man lose his temper any how

Lush100:
hmmm...a lot said.

man-man fight=they have eaten?/5 mins of madness.

man-woman fight= domestic violence

woman- woman fight =?

op we understand your point but that's the society we live in.
remember women are weaker vessels.

coolcatty:


Dumb comparison....... How many of such women run their dirty uncouth mouth at their boss,soldiers and policemen when aggravated?




I will never hit a woman first...but if my woman looks at me from head to toe and hits me first...I will hit her back....no time for sentiments..

Pidgin2:
Hobermener what if the lady is a karate black belter, would the man lose his temper any how

somehow:
What I stand for remains:

If you can hit me, then you can take the same.
I have also got a bad mouth too so if you go psychological, I will meet you there too.

somehow:
What I stand for remains:

If you can hit me, then you can take the same.
I have also got a bad mouth too so if you go psychological, I will meet you there too.

sisisioge:


Dude relax...may God take away troublesome folks from your path ni. If you set out with the mindset of fire for for...may God not allow you meet someone with a death wish.

One day my dear friend and I had to use the PT at a corner busstop. There were some people waiting with us there as well. Suddenly, one driver cornered dangerous and we all had to jump the gutter behind to escape bad story. Because of the act of this driver, another driver almost hit another car too. Story long. You won't believe that after all of us moved on with our lives with the usual "SOB" curses, a particular lady wasn't done. She was so mad with all three drivers that you would think she was hit. The real culprit drove off but this lady wanted to kill the second driver to that almost hit a third on his behalf. She diesnt even know the guy she was avenging from adam.She was cursing and hit his car as if she was directly affected. Issue escalated that the second driver had to park to continue the fight with her. After the guy was persuaded to leave, the babe picked a huge stone and hauled at the moving car. The car got badly dented...guy still had to drive off. Imagine what living with that kind of woman would be like...I bet you can't be that craaazy too

sisisioge:
Hmmmm

Abuse or violence should never be accepted. If you are the victim please walk away before you become a vegetable. This goes to both genders...walk away.

OP, the physical capacity of men and women aren't on the same level biko. Don't hit back...walk away. Hitting back will cause more havoc than melted out to you... Just walk away so you could tell a justifiable story.

May there be peace in our affairs. Don't team up with troublesome people that will bring out the worst in you. Yes, we all have a beast chilling in us...don't let nobody unleash it for u. Shalom.

somehow:
You think walking away solves anything? Its like leaving your room unswept waiting for the day the room turns clean overnight.

eyinjuege:


I asked a specific question though simple, but seems to be way beyond your comprehension. I didn't ask about bosses, soldiers, or policemen/law enforcement. I specifically asked about strangers on the road who aggravate you. I didn't even ask about strangers who slap or even push you. I asked about those road users who swear at you including your generations unborn.
Such a simple question, and yet you've still tried to dodge it.
Using your previous examples, I know we have some crazy female bosses out there who will curse their employees and even their fathers. I wonder how many men have tried to slap such bosses.... Or even the policeman who obviously insults and annoys you...

hobermener:

Epic!!!
They scream walk away like you solve all your problems in life by simply walking away

optional1:
op wait till one beast punch ur sister in the face..



Lets see if you will blame her or the man....




No matter what a lady do to piss you off never rise your hands on her.. There are one million and one ways to punish her order than punching her...


#Real_men_dont _touch_a_woman.

Funnyguy83:
please dear what are those ways , I want to learn so I don't beat them ? all my life I have been hearing this , please tell me .

sisisioge:
Hmmmm

Abuse or violence should never be accepted. If you are the victim please walk away before you become a vegetable. This goes to both genders...walk away.

OP, the physical capacity of men and women aren't on the same level biko. Don't hit back...walk away. Hitting back will cause more havoc than melted out to you... Just walk away so you could tell a justifiable story.

May there be peace in our affairs. Don't team up with troublesome people that will bring out the worst in you. Yes, we all have a beast chilling in us...don't let nobody unleash it for u. Shalom.

Aquariann:


He walked away but she waited for him to come back to finish him off.

https://www.nairaland.com/2912463/yewande-fatoki-husband-killer-pictures

This one didn't let him walk away the first time https://www.nairaland.com/3666810/woman-stabs-husband-death-over

Same with this one https://www.nairaland.com/3794298/wife-aba-stabs-husband-death

And this too https://www.nairaland.com/3318301/woman-stabs-husband-death-ibadan

KhalDroggo:
Unfortunately, people like you only learn from experience. So my wish for you is that your mother, daughter, sister, aunt, in short all the females in your life, experience the kind of violence you are condoning. Let's see how "understanding" you would be under those circumstances

sisisioge:



Hmmmm...I meant RUN AWAY! It is well.

Run away? Are you serious?
So as a man you spend your whole life running away from women wherever you find them cos they turn out to be abusive Our world has lost it completely!!!
Mr, God designed the man to be the HEAD, whether those feminists like it or not!!!
Pray you don't even get entangled in a crazy relationship where you try to run away, but the woman grabs a hold of you in public smashing your face with hot slaps while spewing invectives at you at the same time. Some women can be evil, pure evil and i mean it!!
No matter how calm a man might be, he has a beastly side quietly residing in him, which can be unearthed by a crazy person, man or woman alike.
Freeze claimed his wife battered his mom who was slowly recoving from cancer treatment right in front of him. How many people believed him If you were in that position what would you do?? Pick you mom and run away from your own house Because as a man you should always run from crazy women

A video footage appeared of a south African girl who was beating her own son mercilessly, a child who has no knowledge of right and wrong, and who certainly couldn't have offended her. As a father if you happen to bump into such a scene what would you do Oh i get it!! Take to the advice of those foolish men and women on social media and runaway, leaving your baby and the abusive mama behind right
This madness and double standards have to stop at once!!!
Where is lalasticlala

hobermener:

Run away? Are you serious?
So as a man you spend your whole life running away from women wherever you find them cos they turn out to be abusive Our world has lost it completely!!!
Mr, God designed the man to be the HEAD, whether those feminists like it or not!!!
Pray you don't even get entangled in a crazy relationship where you try to run away, but the woman grabs a hold of you in public smashing your face with hot slaps while spewing invectives at you at the same time. Some women can be evil, pure evil and i mean it!!
No matter how calm a man might be, he has a beastly side quietly residing in him, which can be unearthed by a crazy person, man or woman alike.
Freeze claimed his wife battered his mom who was slowly recoving from cancer treatment right in front of him. How many people believed him If you were in that position what would you do?? Pick you mom and run away from your own house Because as a man you should always run from crazy women

A video footage appeared of a south African girl who was beating her own son mercilessly, a child who has no knowledge of right and wrong, and who certainly couldn't have offended her. As a father if you happen to bump into such a scene what would you do Oh i get it!! Take to the advice of those foolish men and women on social media and runaway, leaving your baby and the abusive mama behind right
This madness and double standards have to stop at once!!!
Where is lalasticlala

sisisioge:


Everybody keeps trying to justice violence against women in one way or the other, yet my advocate is against both gender abuse.

sisisioge:


Dude, may God take troublesome folks away from your path.

sisisioge:

Surely, instinct and experience must have thought you one or two things about dispute resolution without bringing on violence. Just like you would gently resolve the conflict between yourself and a mosquito perching on your balls , there are several ways to resolve issues without violence.

sisisioge:


Everybody keeps trying to justice violence against women in one way or the other, yet my advocate is against both gender abuse. Dude, may God take troublesome folks away from your path. Surely, instinct and experience must have thought you one or two things about dispute resolution without bringing on violence. Just like you would gently resolve the conflict between yourself and a mosquito perching on your balls , there are several ways to resolve issues without violence.

YourCoffin:


There is no way to resolve voilence without voilence. Enough with all this wishful thinkings. Hate those who hate you. Love those who love you. Kill those who want to kill you. That's the secret to long life and prosperity.

hobermener:

Quit being sentimentall! from all the posts I've read, no one is trying to justify violence against women. On the contrary, most men are asking that there be no form of violence from either of the sexes directed at the other. The women, simply put justify violence againt men with the often touted saying[b] "real men should never touch women" "a man should always run away from an agressive woman or agressive relationship"[/b] that's where the irritating double standard kicks in!!


I say an amen to that. Came across a couple of troublesome people in the past, and still having to deal with some at the moment. Im naturally phlegmatic and introverted and would love to avoid physical confrontation from women and men alike, but if pushed beyond my limits (which could be quite difficult because it takes a lot to get me to that point) i could lose my cool and act irrationally and shouldn't take the whole blame for what happened.


Agreed but like I've always maintained, everyone has a breaking point where irrationality sets in! Again, not to hold brief for men accused of domestic violence - its often perceived that they lack self control and simple dispute resolution skills, but that's fallacious to say the least

sisisioge:


OK o, I wish you good luck killing the mosquito that perched on your balls with hate. After all, its already ditching you hate by being on your balls in the first place...biko smash it

coolcatty:



And how many women run their putrid mouth on their female bosses?...female soldiers and policemen?...heck they don't even run their mouth at their tailors and hair stylist..so why run it on their husband that provides for them?

it's just like my wife now,running her mouth at me when I know and have witnessed how she is so so scared of her immediate boss..even stammers when she answers his calls.....a small boy that is not my mate in anything academically and financially...then tomorrow society expects me to walk away when she hits me.....who will pay for my emotional and psychological trauma?

Take time and go through what the OP posted...most of u just comment whatever u think will help u garner likes from ignorant people..... Bet u are not married....never being in a relationship sef..........the society is just moroniic and tends to support a woman even when she denigrates her husband......I have friends that have very provocative women as wives...mwomen with no iota of respect for their husband....just running their ungrateful tap they call a mouth.....causing immense emotional and psychological trauma to the man.....men suffer domestic violence too.

And if any if my female relations raise her hands first to hit her husband,I will regard the man as the biggest fooool on earth if he doesn't retaliate.

Rubbish... What lousy morals are we teaching our young ones self?

somehow:
Some of the options people give are so lame and unsustainable.

You keep slapping me and I keep walking away, with time it turns to a habit and doesn't change.