vicmangs:
for the money or for pleasure?

IdeyFindWife:


nice one! go with God brother!!

okenwa:
From her own angle:
1. Age is not on her side
2. She like you
3. She needs a child from you.
4. Scheme is sincere and straight forward with you.
5. She is willing to be a single mom.

From your own side:
1. You feel you are younger to be married to her age.
2. You are afraid of having baby mama outside of marriage
3. You don't like her. Or you can not help solve her urgent worry

Advice:
1. Your baby is your child anytime any day.
2. If you are willing to get her pregnant please don't collect any money.
3. If she is rich as you claimed then your child could be taken care of by her.
4. If you happen to marry a wife in future years just let her know that you have a baHby before from another woman.
5. Every child has a blessing. Who knows he or she might rule the world

dingbang:
for the money Jor..

vicmangs:
Sha I'll discuss with her if she'll like another guy apart from myself.

hatbricker:
please don't take the offer, think about the future!

dingbang:
please do..

Gemmxy:
For her to make this kind of request from you, it means you guys are probably going out already. Am I right?
You said you like her. Do you like her enough to marry her? You are 30 and she is 36, there isn't much difference in your age.

My advice, talk to her, ask her questions, like does she want to settle down? Are you yourself in any serious relationship? If she is ready and you like her enough to marry her, put away the contract signing and marry her. At 30 you should be planning on settling down yourself.

Nma27:
You are just a sperm donor, just do it to help her afterall you spill d sperm carelessly almost everyday. Be Safe.

vicmangs:
Yea I Know that but the baby will later look for me thereby leading to peace unstability in my family. Besides, am willing to do it for free. The contract means she has paid me off, making her the full owner of that child.

okenwa:
From her own angle:
1. Age is not on her side
2. She like you
3. She needs a child from you.
4. Scheme is sincere and straight forward with you.
5. She is willing to be a single mom.

From your own side:
1. You feel you are younger to be married to her age.
2. You are afraid of having baby mama outside of marriage
3. You don't like her. Or you can not help solve her urgent worry

Advice:
1. Your baby is your child anytime any day.
2. If you are willing to get her pregnant please don't collect any money.
3. If she is rich as you claimed then your child could be taken care of by her.
4. If you happen to marry a wife in future years just let her know that you have a baby before from another woman.
5. Every child has a blessing. Who knows he or she might rule the world

Nma27:
Lol... Who told u the baby will look for u? Anyway, its best to let d lady u wanna marry know d whole truth. You can suggest another friend of yours though

vicmangs:
Okay

wonlasewonimi:
Tell her you only do dogggy style

kimbra:
If you sign that contract, part of the terms and conditions would be that you'll never look for the child or make an attempt to claim you're the biological father. The guilt of knowing you fathered a child you don't know would hunt you for the rest of your life.

My opinion.

vicmangs:
Thank you all for ur time and contributions. @least I now know my stand. God bless u all.

dingbang:
you communicated with her yet on what we discussed?

vicmangs:
She turn down ur request bro, she said she needs som1 she already know. Am taking the contract, we went for test yesterday in Garki General hospital and we are both clean. God will link u up not neccesary this way.

okenwa:
We want to believe that you have benefited from the advice we have given you so far. So what have you done?
1. Have you turn down her offer?
2. Did you went ahead to do it?(getting her pregnant)
3. Did you just discuss issues with her and encouraged her to get someone else?
4. Have you been avoiding her?
5. Have you decided to marry her?( because age is not a problem here)
6. Or you have not been a man-enough at age 30?

You must answer one of the above mentioned points.
Don't we deserve a feedback from you?

vicmangs:
A woman in Abuja (a wealthy woman) asked me to sign a six months contract with her, the contarct is this; I'll tell her how much she gona pay me get her pregnant, she promise to pay me 50% of the agreed money and once she's confirmed pregnant she'll pay up the balance. Am a young man of 30yrs old, studied computer science @ Plapoly. Am gainfully employed in big engineering firm with head office in Abuja, So am doing ok on my own. Am single but this woman is 36yrs old rich but not married and in desperate need of a baby. I kinda like her but am afraid to give in to her request. Please people who are more advanced in life experience should advise me just as u would to your younger brother. Thanks and God bless.