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Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by dingbang(m): 8:54pm On May 17, 2017 |
vicmangs:for the money Jor.. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by okenwa(m): 8:59pm On May 17, 2017 |
From her own angle: 1. Age is not on her side 2. She like you 3. She needs a child from you. 4. Scheme is sincere and straight forward with you. 5. She is willing to be a single mom. From your own side: 1. You feel you are younger to be married to her age. 2. You are afraid of having baby mama outside of marriage 3. You don't like her. Or you can not help solve her urgent worry Advice: 1. Your baby is your child anytime any day. 2. If you are willing to get her pregnant please don't collect any money. 3. If she is rich as you claimed then your child could be taken care of by her. 4. If you happen to marry a wife in future years just let her know that you have a baby before from another woman. 5. Every child has a blessing. Who knows he or she might rule the world 1 Like |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:01pm On May 17, 2017 |
IdeyFindWife:The future is my greatest concern |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:04pm On May 17, 2017 |
okenwa:Hmmmm, don't just know what next to do! |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:05pm On May 17, 2017 |
dingbang:Sha I'll discuss with her if she'll like another guy apart from myself. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Nobody: 9:06pm On May 17, 2017 |
please don't take the offer, think about the future! |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by dingbang(m): 9:08pm On May 17, 2017 |
vicmangs:please do.. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:08pm On May 17, 2017 |
hatbricker:Thanks |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:09pm On May 17, 2017 |
dingbang:Okay |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Gemmxy(m): 9:19pm On May 17, 2017 |
For her to make this kind of request from you, it means you guys are probably going out already. Am I right? You said you like her. Do you like her enough to marry her? You are 30 and she is 36, there isn't much difference in your age. My advice, talk to her, ask her questions, like does she want to settle down? Are you yourself in any serious relationship? If she is ready and you like her enough to marry her, put away the contract signing and marry her. At 30 you should be planning on settling down yourself. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:25pm On May 17, 2017 |
Gemmxy:Am not yet ready to settle down now. We're friends though but I sense am atracted to her. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 17, 2017 |
You are just a sperm donor, just do it to help her afterall you spill d sperm carelessly almost everyday. Be Safe. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 9:37pm On May 17, 2017 |
Nma27:Yea I Know that but the baby will later look for me thereby leading to peace unstability in my family. Besides, am willing to do it for free. The contract means she has paid me off, making her the full owner of that child. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Nobody: 9:44pm On May 17, 2017 |
vicmangs:Lol... Who told u the baby will look for u? Anyway, its best to let d lady u wanna marry know d whole truth. You can suggest another friend of yours though 1 Like |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 17, 2017 |
okenwa: 1 Like |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 10:07pm On May 17, 2017 |
Nma27:I see. Am analysing ur advices to see what I can finally do about this. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by dingbang(m): 10:11pm On May 17, 2017 |
vicmangs:replied at ur mail |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Nobody: 11:35pm On May 17, 2017 |
wonlasewonimi:
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Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by T3Amo(f): 9:27am On May 18, 2017 |
You need to be very careful with such serious decisions. What if something happens to the lady in question or she dies during labour. What will happen to the child? As the father it would be your responsibility to take care of the child or would you abandon the child to be raised in an orphanage? Secondly a lot of women won't go for a man who has a child with another woman. What if you meet a lady you want to marry but because of this silly decision of urs you loose out? Every action has a consequence and trust me whether good or bad it will come back to you. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Partnerbiz(f): 9:58am On May 18, 2017 |
This is naija. That contract may be iilegal. What if she claims child maintenance tomorrow Ask Davido and Sophie momodu |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:01am On May 18, 2017 |
kimbra:Not necessarily. Am looking for something like this later on in life but am a guy and most women will not want to agree to this. Still optimistic though. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by Apina(m): 12:16pm On May 18, 2017 |
Y e b say those of us when need this kind opportunity no dey ever see am? Back to d mata, u being attracted to her doesn't mean u want her for life, get that straight. Look up the contract and tweak one or two things based on wat u would be comfortable with before coming to a consensus with her, that's if u will want to. She's comfortable cum well to do and can take care of the child. Now d question is do u or don't u want to? |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by isnovic(m): 12:30pm On May 18, 2017 |
Bro!, why will the lady not be interested in marriage but the child? This question you will need to answer from your discussion with her. You have to be careful, most are married in some parts of the country and travel to Abuja where no one knows them, find some bloke who is ready to get them pregnant and later returns to her home with a surprise pregnancy. If she is not interested in marrying you, or marrying why will she need to carry your seed or have a baby at all.? Secondly, most people sell their destinies this way. Plus the other complication that may arise once you are married. How do you explain to your future wife that you fathered a child out of wedlock for money even though you are comfortable. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 6:56pm On May 19, 2017 |
Thank you all for ur time and contributions. @least I now know my stand. God bless u all. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by dingbang(m): 7:07pm On May 19, 2017 |
vicmangs:you communicated with her yet on what we discussed? |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 10:46am On May 20, 2017 |
dingbang:She turn down ur request bro, she said she needs som1 she already know. Am taking the contract, we went for test yesterday in Garki General hospital and we are both clean. God will link u up not neccesary this way. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by blovesther(f): 3:51pm On May 20, 2017 |
vicmangs:bro use your head well ooo |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by okenwa(m): 10:32am On May 21, 2017 |
We want to believe that you have benefited from the advice we have given you so far. So what have you done? 1. Have you turn down her offer? 2. Did you went ahead to do it?(getting her pregnant) 3. Did you just discuss issues with her and encouraged her to get someone else? 4. Have you been avoiding her? 5. Have you decided to marry her?( because age is not a problem here) 6. Or you have not been a man-enough at age 30? You must answer one of the above mentioned points. Don't we deserve a feedback from you? |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by vicmangs(m): 5:57am On Jun 09, 2017 |
okenwa:I appreciate you guys so much. I have decided to take the offer. |
Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by drnoel: 8:58am On Jun 09, 2017 |
vicmangs: A contract is an agreement between two persons, it can be made and broken. Since its underground runz, u can go for it and close ur eyes to it after the deed. If u can get urself to move on then first, some other people can't. I know a man that actually did what u described but in this case the couple can to him to impregnate the man's wife cos the man had weak sperm count and the wife didn't want to inseminate. He washed his hands off it after it was done. If u can't see uself forgetting the incident, then u chat up the lady to see if u both can arrive at an understanding beneficial to both parties without the whole nine yards of commitment. Any sanely inclined lady who is brought up well will not want to forgo such an arrangement 1 Like |
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