kimbra:
On the long run he'll get tired of her pussy and dump her. Have seen it play out that way too.

Oh well , I guess what you've seen is not what I've seen

TheSlyone2:

How dare you say " No mention" when you have in fact thrown one at my face?

It crystal clear you don't know the Contextual meaning of feminism

Well, let's walk you through that...

Advanced learning dictionary defines feminism

Now, relating the meaning to the context of discussion,

1. You being of the same sex with the OP, you are fully in support of her actions. That's evident from your post.
2. Your words portrayed gender equality in that you frown at the fact she's being cheated on and maltreated by a male.
3. Your earlier statement justifies fornication. That of course was intended to further bridge the lengthy freedom gap between male and female. If you could have it your way, the world will be a better place if fornication becomes the norms.

If at all you don't understand your post, I'm sorry to inform you how you sound like


Finally, to this

For a second, stop thinking as if the OP is a serious being. This may just be a shenanigan to portray to the entire reader that her pusssy is up for grabs...


Peace

Arrant nonsense. I choose my words, and if it doesn't seat well with you, then you should drink gamolin.

kimbra:
Arrant nonsense. I choose my words, and if it doesn't seat well with you, then you should drink gamolin.

Aiit... I'll

But accepting your flaws only make you stronger...


Im outta here... Don't quote me again Bikko

TheSlyone2:

Aiit... I'll

But accepting your flaws only make you stronger...


Im outta here... Don't quote me again Bikko

Why not analyse yourself first before you analyse someone else.

Folalade:

I guess... I guess he rly has no respect for ladies

Screwing a married man... You obviously have much respect for womanhood.

neoapocalypse:


Oh well , I guess what you've seen is not what I've seen

Seems so.

shinarlaura:
You re having an affair with a married man and that's so wrong girl. The only advice I will give u is to cut off all contacts u have with the man.

You re sleeping with a married man who's equally sleeping with another married woman. Do you really know what u re doing to urself. Am not here to judge you but know that God is watching.

I appreciate dis

neoapocalypse:



Sorry hun , you started out as a side chick you'll end as a side chick. The only solution is to end the relationship totally , forget you ever met him. I know you want to enjoy the "freebies" from him without having sex with him but it's not possible , you just have to let go totally and find your own man.

Yh I av to let go totally.
Its a challenge av decided 2 take. Thnks

Aderola15:


Screwing a married man... You obviously have much respect for womanhood.

kimbra:
I understand that. She has a choice to walk away.

If the next guy doesn't show her that same love or the quality of sex isn't the same. She will keep running back because since her prob is not money. Its obviously sex and affection lol

In October'16 you have a boyfriend whom you complain is writing about you on Nairaland. In May '17 you are a side check to a bloody womanizer who sleeps around with every hole he saw.

Its either you are a Liar or a Hoe. either way you suck.

Folalade:
It's crazy!
I found mysef with a married dude who has anoda Babe (married). And he wants more pussies. These men can neva be contented. I'm no longer young n I knw we don't ave a future 2gda. I gotta move on wit lyf. The more I try to let go,d deeper we get. Even wt d distance,we are still super connected, whenever we see we smash. But on the other hand he's bin a positive influence in my life.
How can I keep the friendship btw us w/out the affair. Nt like if he doesn't av me he won't get it somewhr else. He sure does. But I just want matured advice. This is nt time to bash or lash.

So many hypocrites on here. @folalade you have been dicked physically and emotionally, it will not be easy to let go. This guy in your life has set a high bar that any dude u meet will have to be at the same level or surpass it. I feel for you, my two cents advice is just focus on what you love doing and work 3ice as hard and take on more tasks if possible. In time you will get over him. You have been dicked.

Folalade:
Yh I av to let go totally. Its a challenge av decided 2 take. Thnks

You'll be alright eventually , it'll hurt initially but with time you'll heal.

Folalade:
It's crazy!
I found mysef with a married dude who has anoda Babe (married). And he wants more pussies. These men can neva be contented. I'm no longer young n I knw we don't ave a future 2gda. I gotta move on wit lyf. The more I try to let go,d deeper we get. Even wt d distance,we are still super connected, whenever we see we smash. But on the other hand he's bin a positive influence in my life.
How can I keep the friendship btw us w/out the affair. Nt like if he doesn't av me he won't get it somewhr else. He sure does. But I just want matured advice. This is nt time to bash or lash.

Wonder working power of big cassava

Folalade:
It's crazy!
I found mysef with a married dude who has anoda Babe (married). And he wants more pussies. These men can neva be contented. I'm no longer young n I knw we don't ave a future 2gda. I gotta move on wit lyf. The more I try to let go,d deeper we get. Even wt d distance,we are still super connected, whenever we see we smash. But on the other hand he's bin a positive influence in my life.
How can I keep the friendship btw us w/out the affair. Nt like if he doesn't av me he won't get it somewhr else. He sure does. But I just want matured advice. This is nt time to bash or lash.

Question is: How old are you? I think you already know the answer. Just make up your to stop seeing except you're not willing to let go because the sex is good and how much he spends on you... Remember KARMA!

"A word is enough for the ....."

Truidstar:
So many hypocrites on here. @folalade you have been dicked physically and emotionally, it will not be easy to let go. This guy in your life has set a high bar that any dude u meet will have to be at the same level or surpass it. I feel for you, my two cents advice is just focus on what you love doing and work 3ice as hard and take on more tasks if possible. In time you will get over him. You have been dicked.

You get d gist...
Tnk you

Folalade:

Thanks 4 being real.
The financial gains is the least of my worries. Am an independent lady. The emotional stress and pains is my challenge

If the financial gain is d least of ur worries. ..then i see no reason why u r still with him....u are financially independent accoding to u...n u said u wnt to stop being a side chick...then u hv to start frm somewhere...
quit d r/ship with ur suga daddy....n start afresh with a single dude...girl u r destroyin someones happiness...i knw deep inside u...u knw what u r doing is very wrong...n u wouldn't wnt a younger slay queen 2 do d same 2 u..

i can tell... you wnt him to leave his wife 4 u 2...because if he does n ask u to marry him...I'm sure u will...

U ain't gettin any younger girl...u r just waistin ur time with him because he'll never leave he's dear wife 4u...NO DE DECEIVE YOURSELF...quit s relationship ASAP...4 ur own good...take care

bigcp:


If the financial gain is d least of ur worries. ..then i see no reason why u r still with him....u are financially independent accoding to u...n u said u wnt to stop being a side chick...then u hv to start frm somewhere...
quit d r/ship with ur suga daddy....n start afresh with a single dude...girl u r destroyin someones happiness...i knw deep inside u...u knw what u r doing is very wrong...n u wouldn't wnt a younger slay queen 2 do d same 2 u..

i can tell... you wnt him to leave his wife 4 u 2...because if he does n ask u to marry him...I'm sure u will...

U ain't gettin any younger girl...u r just waistin ur time with him because he'll never leave he's dear wife 4u...NO DE DECEIVE YOURSELF...quit s relationship ASAP...4 ur own good...take care

Tnk you very much

iyamchee:
Damn OP.....
if thats you on your dp, ya so fine....
That being said, a lady as beautiful as yourself don't deserve to be a side Chick.....
You're meant to be loved and Cherished alone...
You need to let down your walls so a better man can come in....
You deserve better...
You can start by changing your Signature tho...

Lol. Wake up bro. That cant be fola....

It is quite unfortunate for you to find urself dating a married man. Belief it or not, breaking off the relationship with SD is quite difficult than you think. SD relationship always seems like a dream come true for most sugar girls, cos he plays a father, lover and also a mentor role.
@OP, be very careful. Breaking off with a SD is not as easy as you think. Some of them seems very nice and understand bt they go haywire and f4ck you up when you request for a break. If there's going to be a break up, they have to called the shots. You really want to end the relationship, it will advise you to very diplomatic abt this..

Folalade:

I want to stop being a side ch**k

l have a solution

yhemster:
It is quite unfortunate for you to find urself dating a married man. Belief it or not, breaking off the relationship with SD is quite difficult than you think. SD relationship always seems like a dream come true for most sugar girls, cos he plays a father, lover and also a mentor role.
@OP, be very careful. Breaking off with a SD is not as easy as you think. Some of them seems very nice and understand bt they go haywire and f4ck you up when you request for a break. If there's going to be a break up, they have to called the shots. You really want to end the relationship, it will advise you to very diplomatic abt this..

Thnk you.
Sorry Wats SD

Folalade:
It's crazy!
I found mysef with a married dude who has anoda Babe (married). And he wants more pussies. These men can neva be contented. I'm no longer young n I knw we don't ave a future 2gda. I gotta move on wit lyf. The more I try to let go,d deeper we get. Even wt d distance,we are still super connected, whenever we see we smash. But on the other hand he's bin a positive influence in my life.
How can I keep the friendship btw us w/out the affair. Nt like if he doesn't av me he won't get it somewhr else. He sure does. But I just want matured advice. This is nt time to bash or lash.

I never like to advice people who are old enough to know what's right from wrong and if you can't at this stage am sorry dear there's no one here that can help you. But I only need to ask one question, how do you feel when you tell him to come around and he declines because he has to be with his family. Depending on that answer will give you a pointer. Have fun dear we will pray for you regardless.