Death is the neccesary end of life. There is nothing you can do except maybe join her which I wont advice, besides there is no assurance you wil both be in the same place. She is dead and gone! If she had a friend you always liked , now is the time. It is painfull but by all means move on with your life. Time will heal you but the scars will always ache though. Be strong. Remember People in Haiti and you will feel better.

I went out with this girl 4 8 yrs, 4rm sch and all dat. We had a turbulent relationship, but there were lots of nice times. Well I think she got fed up withwaiting for marriage cos i wasn't ready and left, now I am ready she doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. I hear she is rich and doin well and we still talk . Problem is I earnestly want her back but she will probably feel it cos of her cash. But at times she hints about me stopping some habits i like drinking , smoking and other things i take as normal. I feel really bad cos I cld have been a much nicer person, she was really good to me, I honestly want her back but I suspect she thinks I am the devils uncle sent from hell to decieve her.She still pick my calls and I sense she still has feelings for me. I am thinking of going to see her, u know lodge in a hotel , call her that I am around (no not that) I think if she sees me she might soften up a bit. She is so bitter! So shld i go or shld i not Go. Dont tell me to follow my heart, I did and look at what it s done to me.

Aawww! Wrong place. How d hell do I send a new topic!?!

Ujujoan:

^^ So what if she did   

He should be ready for his own obituary

hollandis:

He should be ready for his own obituary

hollandis you are MADDDDD!!!

THE AMAKA:

hollandis you are MADDDDD!!! 

kai Amaka biko weri nwayo;where is your location?

hmmmm. possibly more lies? 
location? somewhere you can never find me.  

Dimka 76:

I went out with this girl 4 8 yrs, 4rm sch and all dat. We had a turbulent relationship, but there were lots of nice times. Well I think she got fed up withwaiting for marriage cos i wasn't ready and left, now I am ready she doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. I hear she is rich and doin well and we still talk . Problem is I earnestly want her back but she will probably feel it cos of her cash. But at times she hints about me stopping some habits i like drinking , smoking and other things i take as normal. I feel really bad cos I cld have been a much nicer person, she was really good to me, I honestly want her back but I suspect she thinks I am the devils uncle sent from hell to decieve her.She still pick my calls and I sense she still has feelings for me. I am thinking of going to see her, u know lodge in a hotel , call her that I am around (no not that) I think if she sees me she might soften up a bit. She is so bitter! So shld i go or shld i not Go. Dont tell me to follow my heart, I did and look at what it s done to me.

Sure that's not why you want her back

Anyway, go to the Nairaland section and learn how to create your own thread. Leave this poor guy to mourn his GF in peace!

Ujujoan:

Sure that's not why you want her back

Anyway, go to the Nairaland section and learn how to create your own thread. Leave this poor guy to mourn his GF in peace!

On point!!!

so sorry to hear that, but couldn't you have taken a time off your work to see her, even 4 once? or were you working in the moon?

good hunte:

this remind me about a story of a man who was crying bitterly after his wife burial,one of his friends came around and asked him to calm down , please stop crying, how long is 60 days and u r going to marry, the man still crying more,
his other friend came to ask him to stop crying, just wait till  2MORO and i will find a woman for u to marry,
the man continue crying and in a low voice, WHAT I WILL BE DOING TONITE.

what an unfaithful man. SO UNCONTROLABLE

Sorry dear. Pls take heart ok? Try and surround yourself with friends and family as previously advised. It will help you a lot.

THE AMAKA:

SORRY OOOOO. but what advice are you seeking? or just support? 

poster is seeking advice how to date a new girl.