There have been complaints about pre-marital s*x causing setbacks to the spiritual lives of people and a young lady currently sleeping with a man she is yet to be married to has come out to share her story.

Read her view as sent to a relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin below:






http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2017/05/frequent-sx-with-my-boyfriend-is.html

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Nigga shouldn't bother about your prayers, at this point. The prayers of a sinner is simply an abomination to the LORD. If he so much cares about your prayers & blessings, then he should be man enough to do the right thing: Get married to you in order to receive blessings from both God and man. Only then can he rightly request for your prayers.

Some religious people are really very stupid.

You dey fvck person wey you never marry and you still dey pray. Na even the guy wey dey fvck pussy wey dey use prayer to judge who be wife material. Anuofia!

Mumu people! I wonder the kinda prayer dem dey pray sef.

BTW, Joro abeg shut da fvck up because this story na fake.

you can't eat ur cake and have it

lolz it is after sex prayer now... how will you pray to God when you commit sin knowing fully well you're going to commit it again.. mtchew

Sex is life

This is a problem between this lady and her God. What gives us the right to judge?

Early morning Prayer from a fellow fornicator, is that one prayer?...But go to Him; all ye that are heavy laden.

sex before and after prayers is an abomination unto the Lord because you are not married...

Raine80:
This is a problem between this lady and her God. What gives us the right to judge?

because she came to wash her dirty linen in public

kingphoenix10:
because she came to wash her dirty linen in public

Irrelevant

Your duty is to wake up, take his hand, and prophesy into his life.................youdontminit. Tell him that you're a stifled prayer warrior and that God will only listen to you once he puts a ring on it, and makes your fucking official and guilt-free.

Shaking my head. Clearly Having sex is not her problem(she enjoys it). Praying for the man she's having sex with is her problem (Guilt).

Spiritual life is when you have spirits right?

lashorrt:
Spiritual life is when you have spirits right?

You're an adult.
You sleep on d same bed with a man you're not married to.
You have sex with a man you're not married to.
You know it's wrong (but you don't give a fùck anyway).
What ticks you off is praying for the man you're fvcking. I totally understand you.
I can't even attend the same church as you if we're fvcking. It's uncomfortable, i get it. He's putting you on a HOT seat. You need to let him know how you feel. Next time he wants to have sex tell him, "babe can you say a prayer? Bless this pvssy?" And see his reaction. Namaste!!

Boyfriend. Why not stay on your own till u get married. U can't serve 2 masters at the same time. U both are adult and can talk things over but the best advice is to leave his place till its official

This is the problem, we know it's wrong but we just want to keep doing it & asking for mercy. Yes no one is righteous except God but we must always learn to stand for what is right after all if u both don't sex u won't die.

The only problem I see here is with this But wen we are together we have sex sex sex... even wen I don't want.

But immediately the guy rings the girl, she'll now begin to hold out when she don't want to have sex.

I ask, has he done wrong by making it official and heavenly? What has changed?

since the lady is not the op
then I have ntn to say

buh incase we hve ladies wit similar issues here,
my advise ...before you have sex pray..
meanwhile ur bf must be a hypocritical idiot... cuz when ever u pray after fucking u Gina have to pretend everything is OK...
I get d feeling too, what's wrong is wrong even if the whole world is doing it

thanks for reading my rubbish

Jaynom:
You're an adult.
You sleep on d same bed with a man you're not married to.
You have sex with a man you're not married to.
You know it's wrong (but you don't give a fùck anyway).
What ticks you off is praying for the man you're fvcking. I totally understand you.
I can't even attend the same church as you if we're fvcking. It's uncomfortable, i get it. He's putting you on a HOT seat. You need to let him know how you feel. Next time he wants to have sex tell him, "babe can you say a prayer? Bless this pvssy?" And see his reaction. Namaste!!

if the man doesn't have the fear God, he will confidently bless it to have his way as usual.

If you feel guilty about it, then get a break till you marry.

From d topic dz issues is spiritual and I will therefore handle it spiritually.

Thank God you r getting troubled in ur Spirit. That's God correcting/warning you. From the way u said it. It mean you already know d truth to some extent but you have backsliden into Sin.

1. Are u sure that guy is the bone of your bone...meaning are you ready to marry him? His he husband material. Prov20:6 (Not only women are wife material) If Not, end the relationship immediately, if yes ...

2. That you u will marry him doesn't make premarital sex legit. Spiritually sex before marriage is a sin. So you should stop by all means. U av made a mistake, but Gods mercy endures forever. Repent! don't retire but refire. Act 17.30

3. Premarital sex is a sin against God's temple, ur body. And God will destroy whoever destroys His temple. Wether u know it or not u r already being destroyed. 1Cor3:17. It will show up either in ur Spiritual, financial, career, academic, family, business life etc.

4. Now about your guy, does he know d truth like u did or he hasn't come to the knowledge of the truth at all? If you repent, will your guy also repent? You are not permitted to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. 2Cor6:14. An unbeliever will continue to drag u into Sexual immorality if they don't repent. That's guaranteed. If he won't repent, Press pause, go back to God and ask Him what to do.

5. If he repents you, remember u both are flesh.. body no be wood, therefore he must be ready to take up the responsibility of preventing situations that leads to sex. Men r d more demanding type. He should by prayers put his body under subjection. Col3.5

6. Spiritually, if u continue premarital sex. Hell is sure, Guilt is sure, Loss of a good relationship with God is sure. u either let him go and choose God or take him and leave God. Matt 18:8-9

So many Christians are guilty of this. This is also directed at you!!!

I was once like u.

All will b well.

lol... girl, stop having sex with him o...till he marries u. you are destroying your life o

balaclava:
From d topic dz issues is spiritual and I will therefore handle it spiritually.

Thank God you r getting troubled in ur Spirit. That's God correcting/warning you. From the way u said it. It mean you already know d truth to some extent but you have backsliden into Sin.

1. Are u sure that guy is the bone of your bone...meaning are you ready to marry him? His he husband material. Prov20:6 (Not only women are wife material) If Not, end the relationship immediately, if yes ...

2. That you u will marry him doesn't make premarital sex legit. Spiritually sex before marriage is a sin. So you should stop by all means. U av made a mistake, but Gods mercy endures forever. Repent! don't retire but refire. Act 17.30

3. Premarital sex is a sin against God's temple, ur body. And God will destroy whoever destroys His temple. Wether u know it or not u r already being destroyed. 1Cor3:17. It will show up either in ur Spiritual, financial, career, academic, family, business life etc.

4. Now about your guy, does he know d truth like u did or he hasn't come to the knowledge of the truth at all? If you repent, will your guy also repent? You are not permitted to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. 2Cor6:14. An unbeliever will continue to drag u into Sexual immorality if they don't repent. That's guaranteed. If he won't repent, Press pause, go back to God and ask Him what to do.

5. If he repents you, remember u both are flesh.. body no be wood, therefore he must be ready to take up the responsibility of preventing situations that leads to sex. Men r d more demanding type. He should by prayers put his body under subjection. Col3.5

6. Spiritually, if u continue premarital sex. Hell is sure, Guilt is sure, Loss of a good relationship with God is sure. u either let him go and choose God or take him and leave God. Matt 18:8-9

So many Christians are guilty of this. This is also directed at you!!!

I was once like u.

All will b well.

Best reply ever

Raine80:
This is a problem between this lady and her God. What gives us the right to judge?

thank you! So much.

well I don't know if am OK but I just hate sex and I haven't been able to love any guy ..I don't know if am ok

well I don't know if am OK but I just hate sex and I haven't been able to love any guy ..I don't know if am ok..or do I have a spiritual problem too.

Debbiepaul:
well I don't know if am OK but I just hate sex and I haven't been able to love any guy ..I don't know if am ok..or do I have a spiritual problem too.

You need serious deliverance#btwgaythings#

You are doing well my dear.
Continue phucking him....that's all you are good for