DR. CUM: 8 REASONS YOUR EX BROKE UP – AND WHY YOUR NEXT MIGHT JUST BE DOING SAME..

Check out these patterns, notice one or two familiar things?
1. You found yourself in love at the drop of a hat, you began seeking commitment almost as soon as the relationship began. Hey, you’d not even ascertained whether or not he felt like “going far” with you.
Diagnosis: “ Neediness and clingy’ness” are your failings.

2. You placed him high up a pedestal, walked extremes to sacrifice things for him, adjusted your life’s goals, built your world around him and had him making all the decisions in the relationship – all in a bid to cater to his pleasure.
Diagnosis: Your desperation for validation is appalling, your self-worth is in question, so is your identity.

3. You were “treading softly,” as though you walked on eggshells, being scared of angering him, always worried you just might do something that may drive him to stop fancying you. You couldn’t even have an opinion as, within you, you felt there wasn’t going to be anything of value you could add to discussions.
Diagnosis: Your insecurity and self confidence issues need to be visited.

4. You held back on your feelings – or on information pertaining to you, or perhaps, you “censored” your thoughts – all in a bid to be in control. Infact, you almost couldn’t see past “who has the control” while in that relationship. You belonged to the “I prefer a man that loves me more than I love him” crew. Basically, you relied on manipulations and mind games to get by in the relationship.
Diagnosis: Your love exists only by words of mouth.

5. You over analyzed the relationship – every of his actions, thoughts, gestures and looks were almost always under constant x-ray by you and your friends, so much so that you found anxiety taking the best of you.
Diagnosis: Should you even be in a relationship if you can’t trust?

6. You were putting up appearances – feigning happiness, making hyperbolic gestures the way you feel etc – all for attention or affection.
Diagnosis: You’re unoriginal.

7. In the quiet of your mind, you carried profound wrath, anxiety and inadequacy – and you always acted on these emotions even in situations that called for no knee jerk reactions.
Diagnosis: You’re a drama queen.

8. For some strange reasons, you found yourself disliking people that treat you with respect or regard, the douche-bag that saw no worth in you caught your attention and fed fat all the negatives you thought of yourself.
Diagnosis: You’ve got an unhealthy attachment style.

Now, you’ve found the root cause(s) of your disappointments, that’s a good thing. But, what do you intend doing with all that info – whine, throw tantrums and excuses till you feel better about yourself? Or perhaps, some self reflection and practical work? Whichever way you choose, we’ll always be here to help you find a path of heart.
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