sekxy:

thought I'm the only one..sadly these guys that we give attention here don't even worth it...u hardly see responsible guys comment on romance section

sarahade:

No where.

Decryptor:


YOUR COUSIN f*cked you and that it was the best f*ck in your life! YOUR OWN COUSIN! Abomination!!

FX:
How can your boobs be sagged already and you are still a virgin. It a very rare case. What and who sagged them for you

monex:
there are so many variants of feminism. well for me, when i talk about gender equality, I talk about equality in dignity and opportunities. I do not mean that women should be encouraged to be men. We all have our roles/obligations to society and these roles aren't same.

it is societal stereotypes (including the some variants of feminism) that makes certain roles women are naturally inclined to play look like inferior roles.

Instead of society to glorify roles like nurturing children that women are naturally gifted towards, society (including some feminists) make it look like the woman is a slave and needs to be empowered to seat at board rooms etc.

I know a girl who quit her job in Nigerian Breweries to teach and nurture orphaned down syndrome kids. That's an empowered lady !!!

Tayeni:
My guy....in a lot of places and situations...women are discriminated against in the African culture.... even the first world is not "unguilty"of this. This appears in different forms and degrees in different cultures....take for example Saudi Arabia where women until recently were not allowed to vote or drive a car.
Even America allowed suffrage just close to the middle of last century.....so its an ingoing process. You can liken it to the black American situation before The civil rights activism pushed back segregation to an extent.

These rights won't be given without activism and some form of resistance or some form of affirmative action(ministry of women's affairs like you mentioned)
Sanusi said something sometime ago to the effect that; a society that fails to harness the potential of its female population and restricts them to domestic capacity, will achieve half its potential because half of its population is redundant.
Personally I won't raise a daughter with the mindset the OP operates from. I will never give her the chance or treat her to think of herself as a lesser form of human. I will teach her to respect everybody and demand respect as well.
teach her not to be apologetic about being intelligent.
Teach her to pursue her dreams and aspirations no matter how non conforming to the patriarchal expectations of the society.

Oyindidi:
There lot of responsible guys there, I interact with the matured ones and play around with the kids

Okies27:
. The word "gender equality" should not have been coined in the first place. There are lots of women in the same field /profession as men: doctors, engineers, teachers, lawyers and what have you. Me think women should just channel their energy to the betterment of the society, husbands etc. Like someone rightly pointed one, a woman should be submissive and let the man do the loving. There's no point trying to be a man. All this feminism n gender equality bullshit should stop.
Take for instance, if a woman becomes the breadwinner of her home for a long time, there's bound to be quarrel with the husband cos she's a woman but a man does for it in his entire life time with love without bathing an eyelid... Do you know why? Because that's what God created him to do/be..
Woman,just be a woman and let the men be men and the world(infact naija) will be a better place.
Today, it's slay queen n mama everywhere. Many single mothers everywhere cos they this issues get a better of them.

Cinderella5:
those of you with empty pockets like such threads

Daboomb:



What womenmen of today do sexually, even before they are 16yrs, our MothersFathers never even attempted half of it, with 10yrs of marriage!

As pertinent as that question is, can we live 'Instruments' out of this discussion please.

Evaberry:



hahahaha I swear u r jobless.
dear I was only trying to prove a point
yinmu jhur

Pidgin2:



He's not female. Anyone can claim male or female here the only way we can verify is by actually seeing the person physically. No real female will write that nonsense except the ones desperately lookin for husbands on nairaland

MarieSucre:


What does men's world consist of that women cannot get?

lovethchioma:
The Op just exposed how unlearned she is about certain things. Always try to read and make your research before opening a thread about a topic you obviously know nothing about.

Tayeni:
I think what every lady should demand from their society is the assurance that her options are open and with no restrictions or glass ceilings whichever path yiu decide to toe. Whether you choose to be a stay at home mom or a boardroom lady, you should support this.
In Nigeria though, more women are needed in productive or economic endeavors. And men should see this not as a threat to their existence or selfworth. Men should have more confidence to accept this. I think rejection of this comes from a place of insecurity.

Men are where they are today, because they worked hard, worked Smart and showed intelligence plus persistence.
Women will go only as far as their INTELLIGENCE and HARD-WORK can get them..... not by begging or trying to force Men to dash them anything.


Men like you have a warped sense of patriotism towards women and you spew nonsense, just to gain the acceptance of women.
Stop these pandering to kitten, it is just a fleeting feeling

BekeeBuAgbara:
Have you forgotten that Madeleine Albright apologized for making such senseless statement? Which is one of the reasons Hilary lost the election, you don't bully people to submission.

Estharfabian:
Exactly. gender Equity is Condescending to the female folks.


what Equity simply means:
Because the Female gene is handicapped by Sheer nature. females are Second fiddle to men, Sub-humans and So must be aided to reach Human Status.


Gender Equality: Give them equal Opportunities, let Nature decide their strengths.

lexy2014:
OK oh...but that doesn't invalidate d position of d OP. what does is u showing d way by setting d record straight, puncturing his/her view points with ur own facts. but just resigning and saying "its not a female" doesn't change anything

Daboomb:


Dont mind them, instead of focusing on the message, they try to attack the messenger!

When the message soothes them, she is a "real woman", one of their own.
When the message hits a raw nerve, she must be a man in disguise.


Clowns

lexy2014:


"Gender Equality: Give them equal Opportunities, let Nature decide their strengths".

I c d word " Give".it got my attention. let me ask who is responsible 4 this "Give"?

Opportunities abound everywhere like FREE AIR.

It is NOT GIVEN.... it is TAKEN by those who are intelligent, persistent, hard-working and have a vision.

MEN generally, have shown a tenacity to TAKE opportunity, by working hard for it.
They do not wait for Women to give it to them on a platter of gold.

Women too should do the same, because they have what it takes to do it as well.
It is all these "opportunistic Women, lazy bones and unintelligent nitwits" who are shouting GENDER EQUALITY, instead of stepping up their game.

To such Women, having "a set of Boobs and a female organ" qualifies them for every other thing a Man has worked hard for!
Numbskulls.

AHCB:
heights? Heights such as what and what, kindly elucidate further so we won't dive into an ocean full of abstract ideas.

lovelygurl:


http://www.cosmopolitan.com/health-fitness/advice/a3182/vagina-facts-0110/

proudafrogal:


so your problem is the term "gender equality "?
equality is achieved by removing barrier that limit people and allowing them to reach their full potential through equity.

gender equity is a means to an end

chisco82:

And when you re going out on a date will you expect the man to come and open the car door for you in the name of being romantic?
If your explanation is what gender equality is all about then Man is not expected to pay bride price, Man is should no longer be the head of the home and Man should not be call upon to defend his family.
I believe what we should be discusing is equity, thats better explain what you wrote up there.
You can never give another meaning to the word "GENDER EQUALITY"

computerboy:


Lol.... so you're being treated like an animal now? If I may ask, who treats you like an animal?

lexy2014:


"Gender Equality: Give them equal Opportunities, let Nature decide their strengths".

I c d word " Give".it got my attention. let me ask who is responsible 4 this "Give"?

Daboomb:


Men are where they are today, because they worked hard, worked Smart and showed intelligence plus persistence.
Women will go only as far as their INTELLIGENCE and HARD-WORK can get them..... not by begging or trying to force Men to dash them anything[/color].


Men like you have a warped sense of patriotism towards women and you spew nonsense, just to gain the acceptance of women.
Stop these pandering to kitten, it is just a fleeting feeling
+234-7045074932
When you say "More Women" are needed in productive and economic sectors, are you trying to LIMIT the participation of Men in such sectors?
- Are you saying Women have been "actively prevented" from participating in those Sectors?
- How does Women participating in Productive and Economic sectors, threaten Men?
- Should Men be prevented from participating in such Sectors simply because you want to force Women (most of whom are unwilling) to bemore in those Sectors?

Estharfabian:
the society we found ourselves in as ingrained male supremacy in almost all facet. so it is expected of them to be in the forefront always. there are to do this, and that. Learn this and that. wield this, and that. we are supposed to be subservient, Submissive, receptive...

if they do not take the lead on certain areas, we dare not take the lead, because well, We are harbour A Vagina.

I really do not want to go all personal with this. it's something you are well aware of. the status quo is and has always been skewed against women.

gokuu:
And as most of it is done with Men, then;

I bet you have never seen TWO LESBIANS doing it together?
Why wont bwest fall like bag of water mellon!

You need to grow up and start acting your age