@Poster

i can feel your situations but i have here some candid advise

Believe me People that wait too long like you get hurt at the end.

During this time u have being waiting,i can guess some action must have changed in you.

e.g You don`t get angry when she expected you to get angry,cos u might be thinking u don`t wanna hurt her but the truth is deep inside her mind, she might be thinking u are not Man enough.

Waiting too long trying to convey your love to her seems like an act of despiracy,maybe she knows that you have no other way.
Even if this girl say YES, i don`t think she can marry you because by the time your true actions comes out, then she will start complaining that you are not the Man she used to know.


SOLUTION

Don`t allow your emotions to take over the real man in you.

SO MANY GIRLS ARE OUTSIDE THERE THAT ARE READY TO SHOWER YOU WITH LOVE AND CARE.

Onyema1:
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@Abekeade let him be, most times the best response to such comment is to ignore it because you cannot extract any meaningful discussion from such vegetable brains. It will just be an exercise in futility and you end up being worked up for nothing

Go suck yourself. Bloody fool.

H2O2:


But the forum does not represent a lotta people too well, since most don't take it seriously and don't act in the same manner they do in the physical world.  
Ah ahn o ga o chicksnchimps. See as you don pour fuel for fire again. I was trying to quell the flame.


Make una take am easy oooooo

Omo I tire jare. No mind me jor

Yesso, abs-woman, not too seriously. Although if serendipity strikes, maybe you can find a true love here?

I am not engaging Mr chimps anymore, just for the record i am here to have fun with fellow naijas, i no dey look for loff oh.

Onyema, thank you for your support jare.

Oya let us kiss and make up

Oya let kiss and make up

Ok no more abuse of anybody else ok. Thank you mr chic2chimp.

see them. na una sabi.

@abeke,
never say never. love is anywhere and everywhere.

Ok cool, you guys enjoy yourselves, I will be right back.  I am off to the gym. My brain won burst.  I don't know who invented exams.

Mr. chic2chimp, come to Amsterdam cafe by 8pm tonight for a drink (122 street Amsterdam).  @Abekeade you may join us there too, and any one else who wants to come is invited. @ H202, you are a special guest for brokering peace.

Catch you in a moment

Abekeade08:




Ok no more abuse of anybody else ok. Thank you mr chic2chimp.

The pleasure is mine fyne gyal .

H2O2:

see them. na una sabi.

@abeke,
never say never. love is anywhere and everywhere.

 

Onyema1:

Ok cool, you guys enjoy yourselves, I will be right back. I am off to the gym. My brain won burst. I don't know who invented exams.

Mr. chic2chimp, come to Amsterdam cafe by 8pm tonight for a drink (122 street Amsterdam). @Abekeade you may join us there too, and any one else who wants to come is invited. @ H202, you are a special guest for brokering peace.

Catch you in a moment

Dayummm amsterdan. That's far away

Ok cool, you guys enjoy yourselves, I will be right back.  I am off to the gym. My brain won burst.  I don't know who invented exams.

Mr. chic2chimp, come to Amsterdam cafe by 8pm tonight for a drink (122 street Amsterdam).  @Abekeade you may join us there too, and any one else who wants to come is invited. @ H202, you are a special guest for brokering peace.

Catch you in a moment

Going to the gym is a good way of letting out stress. I hated exams too in school. Take am easy sha, you are almost done.

So is Mr chic2chimp in NYC too? I am going to have to tap him on the head if i see him in person before i can start smiling with him again

8pm is too late for me. I wake up each morning to go to the gym at 5am, so i am usually in bed at 9pm, Maybe we can all do after work drinks after work sometime during the week.

i go to the gym at 5p, 6p, or 7p (sometimes 8p) and get back at 11, 12, 1am sometimes

Abekeade08:

Going to the gym is a good way of letting out stress. I hated exams too in school. Take am easy sha, you are almost done.

So is Mr chic2chimp in NYC too? I am going to have to tap him on the head if i see him in person before i can start smiling with him again

8pm is too late for me. I wake up each morning to go to the gym at 5am, so i am usually in bed at 9pm, Maybe we can all do after work drinks after work sometime during the week.

Nah i'm in london . As for the head tapping, I wouldn't mind actually if all of em' girls in the picture come along too .

@ poster,any girl dat take more than a month to reply to ur proposal is not interested in you.
don't be fooled by how long you've known urself n other sentiments n as others say stop giving her any sort of attention,things dat u say u can do for anybody might just be the only timg keeping her with you.
all women on forum as advice and as females it's all how n what we think we've all said.
we all think n act same way,a little different at times in the way the end result is but we all think same way,
good luck in meeting a lovely chick

Bim4u:

@ poster,any girl dat take more than a month to reply to your proposal is not interested in you.
don't be fooled by how long you've known urself n other sentiments n as others say stop giving her any sort of attention,things dat u say u can do for anybody might just be the only timg keeping her with you.
all women on forum as advice and as females it's all how n what we think we've all said.
we all think n act same way,a little different at times in the way the end result is but we all think same way,
good luck in meeting a lovely chick

DUDE man, i agree.

i go to the gym at 5p, 6p, or 7p (sometimes 8p) and get back at 11, 12, 1am sometimes

Silly clown

Nah i'm in london . As for the head tapping, I wouldn't mind actually if all of em' girls in the picture come along too  .

Long throat. If all of us stand in front of you now, you go just dey sweat and stammer

abeke, tbh babe i'm dead serious.

Hey guys I am back.  Had a good work out, so tired. So no one is good to go for tonight ehh?  chic2chimp you are in London, oh ic, @Abeke, that sounds great, lets make it happen, Weds and Fridays are my best open date. Just let me know your best time.
@Bim4u, thanks got your flow.  Am cool ok.  I am more convinced now that I have heard loads of similar advice, every body here can't be wrong, it's just too bad that most of our ladies are not straight but they will complain so bitterly about men.  But one thing I have come to understand in life is that "bad" and rough guys always have smooth sail with women, and most women enjoy to hear tissues of lies.

Anyway life goes on.  cheers mates

Dayyum, I thot abekeade was gone accept the invite n go to the bar, I'd have been there ASAP! Oh well. . . .

Hey guys I am back. Had a good work out, so tired. So no one is good to go for tonight ehh? chic2chimp you are in London, oh ic, @Abeke, that sounds great, lets make it happen, Weds and Fridays are my best open date. Just let me know your best time.

Where do you workout? Mine is NYSC. Tonight is a long tin. Fridays are best for me. Maybe we can make it an NL thing. I especially would like to meet NYC naija females, don't know too many of them here.

Dayyum, I thot abekeade was gone accept the invite n go to the bar, I'd have been there ASAP! Oh well. . . .

lol, don't worry if we have an NL outing, we'll let you know.

abeke, tbh babe i'm dead serious.

If you keep working out that much, you go resemble Arnold soon oh

if wishes were horses lol.

I don't lift. I mostly run and other recreational sports.
To stay toned. BUT I'm currently obese and outta shape.

Haven't worked out in like a month. Too much garri and chicken peri peri.

emi laye mi

if wishes were horses lol.

I don't lift.  I mostly run and other recreational sports.
To stay toned. BUT I'm currently obese and outta shape.

Haven't worked out in like a month.  Too much garri and chicken peri peri.

emi laye mi

How can you be obese and work out for 3 hrs joh. An obese person go don die after 30 minutes of heavy workout. We know you are a fine bobo, no need to be modest

Gari and chiken peri peri, lol I just had Gari and moi moi for dinner, hmm damn good. I try not to eat too late though, cos i am not trying to gain weight.

Lol don't flatter me o
I might just think you wanna date me


You fine and slim enough as it is so i don't think you need to worry much about gaining weight.

@Abeke, i workout in my crib, we have got sophisticated gym right here. Friday is cool, no lectures, but i will be busy this friday, got interview and dinner party, lets choose another Friday as you may wish.

Onyema1:

@Presido 1, hahahahaha, you are looking for na2day's trouble o, I want to clear my head first, and then chat a new curse.  Abekeade sounds interesting though, me thinks she is cool.

no mind presido, hin no get your good in mind, u never hear say i no dey share?  

Abekeade08:

Nairaland servers are slow is morning. Is anyone having to wait for a long time before a page loads? ok back to topic

Una come dey try hook me up with onyema while I dey sleep abi? una well done oh. Onyema is blinded by loff right now and me I can't share my man with some shadow woman person neva get over. I am more than enough for one man, so all attention has to be focused on moi
Hmm seems like you are working hard to get me and 50 other girls on NL at the same time Mr Na2day na real multi tasker, any woman wey enter in trap don enter wahala be that.
Thats what I have been trying to tell him ooh.

ovularia, u are the only one in my heart, all other girls are just film trick  

Abekeade08:

I didn't go out yesterday. Geez i am such a geek. I read till 5am this morning. Dayo with all this your talk, NL go think say i don become ya iyawo ooh. mind ya sef ooh. How can I be assured that you are not another na2day?

why na? dayo na player, me i bi saint  

Onyema1:

@Abekeade, lol, welcome back.  You know how this things work eh. It's not some thing that will just say ok, I hereby quit and it ends.  I know gradually and pretty soon I will bounce back.  BDY, you already have enough aspirants like na2day and dayo, I no fit fight. Maybe you ask each of them to send in their written proposals, and show why they deserve you, and you take it up from there.

Have a great day

good, now i only have one opponent left, dayo. i will just have to find a way to eliminate him  

Abekeade08:

Yeah, I understand. Take your time and do what you have to do and move on with your life.

The written proposal thing is a good idea. Dayo, na2day, oya get to writing ooh.

as i no go school wetin i go do now?  

Onyema1:

@Abeke, i workout in my crib, we have got sophisticated gym right here.  Friday is cool, no lectures, but i will be busy this friday, got interview and dinner party, lets choose another Friday as you may wish.

cough cough cough! my eye is on u mister! 




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@post

Hold on lemme get my glasses
Its too long~

Abekeade08:

Where do you workout? Mine is NYSC. Tonight is a long tin. Fridays are best for me. Maybe we can make it an NL thing. I especially would like to meet NYC naija females, don't know too many of them here.
lol, don't worry if we have an NL outing, we'll let you know.

Ah, ok. But why do I feel like I might somehow miss the invite? When are ur days off? On the real, I'll invite you (and ur gals; so u could feel more comfortable) out. I know people in some of the top clubs out here so u aint gone have to wait in line (dont construe this statement as me trying to boast/show off, Im just trying to quell any fears u might have about getting in) if u decide to come! hey, u still never said what borough u reside in!!!

Onyema1:

Hey guys I am back. Had a good work out, so tired. So no one is good to go for tonight ehh? chic2chimp you are in London, oh ic, @Abeke, that sounds great, lets make it happen, Weds and Fridays are my best open date. Just let me know your best time.

This presido1 too mush ooh. Like play like play they will send presido1 IV.

This presido1 too mush ooh. Like play like play they will send presido1 IV.   

Mr presido, na u know ooh. We are just trying to have a little NL meet-up . Maybe i'll introduce onyema to a couple girls that will make his head spin, he won't even have time for that girl wey dey form anymore.

Abekeade08:



Mr presido, na u know ooh. We are just trying to have a little NL meet-up . Maybe i'll introduce onyema to a couple girls that will make his head spin, he won't even have time for that girl wey dey form anymore.

it is a trap honey, that onyema na criminal, ran a background check on it, i found out that he is a heart breaker and ur heart is no match for him. come to me, ur one true love

it is a trap honey, that onyema na criminal, ran a background check on it, i found out that he is a heart breaker and your heart is no match for him. come to me, your one true love

You are my NL father na( like secondary school father), so we can't be rolling like that. However, I know you say you get plenty one true love's for NL, so nothing do you.

Abekeade08:



You are my NL father na( like secondary school father), so we can't be rolling like that. However, I know you say you get plenty one true love's for NL, so nothing do you.

did sum1 delete our msgs? anywayz, i am not ur father but ur future hubby, i claim it in Jesus name!

i feel u my guy,
but like a girl taught me, give her ultimatum, u cant wait for life, 6 months is too much