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Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by Magz(m): 9:22am On Jan 25, 2010 |
Everyone please say a prayer for her |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 9:45am On Jan 25, 2010 |
na2day?: hmmmm. . . . . . . wat can i say to you sef ? you ve never heard of its a free world we live in, so it is wrong of me to give out my number nyways i gave him my number without any intent twas just a reasonable thing to do then cos we talked and he sounded sane |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by Nobody: 10:42am On Jan 25, 2010 |
Gosh dear, I dont envy you at all . Cant you hire a police man? Anyway the advice you have gotten thus far have been good. Just keep your head up okay? |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by bkbaybe99: 10:50am On Jan 25, 2010 |
Your situation is definitely not funny, but, u know I was thinking about something and I just started laughing cus I know how true it is : IF THE AMAKA EVEN GAVE HER NUMBER TO THIS PROFESSIONAL STALKER OF YOURS, AND BEGGED HIM, THEN PAID HIM, TO STALK HER, I BET A HUNNERED GRAND HE'D JUST RIP UP HER NUMBER AND THROW IT DOWN THE SEWER!!!! Who wants a ugly binch??!!!? |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by rhymz(m): 11:45am On Jan 25, 2010 |
elecktra:Like U guyz didn't talk much b4 exchanging numberz. . . geez!! That was Ur undoing.Anyway,enough complaining,start taking steps.Go to his dept ask for the name he gave U,describe him to ppl who might ve seen him.Since he has a car,it wont take long for sb to recognize him,I would advice U get some background info on the guy,like his place of residence,his real names and possibly his friends b4 jetting out to the police,they will sure listen to U.BTW which sch is that?Don't U ve any paramilitary outfit inside Ur sch? Report the case there then make sure this nyt U do not sleep in Ur apartment,go to a friend's U can't be a loner at stage and by the way,how come U don't ve any male friends,hope U aint the snubbish and haughty type that is so full of themselves.Anyway,the way it's now,U need them and U had better start acting nice and accessible if U realy want to stay alive.Goodluck and keep us posted. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by THEAMAKA(f): 12:32pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
na2day?:she gave him her number, so you're saying that gives him the right to stalk her, harass her, and send her crazy text messges? tsk tsk. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by whitelexi(m): 1:11pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
All these girls coming here to talk silly talk about stalking sef. . . Grow up abeg! If he doesn't react u will come here to say he doesn't like u. . . When u saw him staring and u still got chatting with him, what did u expect? You gave him name, number, and he probably only needed to google your name to get your facebook page and address, who's to blame? Now u want attention, saying he's stalking u and all. . . That just gives a clear picture of your age! |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 2:06pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
whitelexi: i wonder why some pple can be so insensitive . . . . .d'you want to tell me you ve never chatted a girl up and you guys exchanged numbers afterwards, do you then bug the life out of her ?? its not the first time i'd give someone my number b'sides i dont remember ever posting about any boy's reaction here,its cos this one got outta hands and for the records my age has nuffin to do with this |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 2:19pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
rhymz: yea we did talk i just dinna want to get too personal with him so our discussion was really neutral at least the first nite we talked twas for like an hour and some mins and he seemed pretty normal to me cos he sounded really intelligent,i moved to my friends' place already told 'em and they ve been really helpful,and he called me today i threatened him that am at a police station and he called my bluff said am just joking and that i should come back home . . . .have been to the archi dept but no one seems to know him,my friend's boyfriend said he is going to go to my place tonight with his friends and see if he is going to show up |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by Abekeade08(f): 3:01pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
can i now start stalking u? You are already on my list of stalkerazi's Ebonyeyes dear, Good Afternoon(know its afternoon in London). I missed you on NL this weekend, we had fabulous conversations. It would have been much more fun if you were online though. How was your weekend? |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by iice(f): 3:02pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
If you are back home, get male relatives to dismantle him. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by rhymz(m): 4:31pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
elecktra:good steps,U know what? If he calls again do some acting with him,act like U not scared,play along with him,let him feel like he's finally got U while at it see if U can squeeze some info 4rm him that U will use against him. . . For now just stay put with Ur friends and yeah get family members involved.send the freak's number to Ur dad or some other male relative to put some sanity in him. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by Demdem(m): 5:17pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
Going through ur profile, i wonder why the chap keep chasing u the guy na hard man oooo. me i go fear ooooo seeing what i am seeing Kidding, EEyah, pele. since u are in naija, u can hire someone to watch ur back for u now or better still report to the police( yes, report to the police) |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 6:10pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
hmm nigerian police . . . . . . they ll never cease to amaze me we went to file a report following the instruction of a senior lecturer in my faculty when i explained my case they said "shebi the boy wan marry you why you com dey run ??" i tried explaining the threats he made on my life and they were made a huge joke outta everything . . . . .as we made to leave one of them ran up to us and said we should bring 20 thousand and he's going to do anything we want with the stalker i asked him how he was going to go about it he said we should give him his number thats he going to call him,i just felt so sick to my tummy if twas dat easy my friends would have gotten the guy, we 've been calling him all day its not been going thru |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by unban190: 7:17pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
electrka U are finished anyway if u have seeen the movie elektra u would probably know what to do you dont have to mimic daredevil~ just watch the movie electkra and you would know what to do simply you simply have to JET-LI his ass~ |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 7:39pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
how i wish i could jet-li his a.s.s but hmm too bad i can't, guess i ll have to register in one of these self-defense classes after this phase and then i can jet-li,jackie chan,bruce lee,van-damme anybody's ass |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by honeric01(m): 7:57pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
Post his number on nairaland and let everyone call him, i don't mind starting the threat. have you ever heard of the hunter the hunted? JUST POST HIS NUMBER HERE AND WATCH WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN TO HIM. EOD |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by rhymz(m): 8:57pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
honeric01:seconded.let's play dsame mind game. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by Ssssugar: 9:02pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
I sincerely hope he is not a NL member. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 9:21pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
as at ystday he was using this number 07032270694 but we ve been tryin it since morning tis not been going thru,he is calling me with hidden number now no more texts but he's been calling my fone like crazy had to switch off at a point am thinking of changing my sim maybe 2mrw |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by unban190: 9:55pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
I just tried calling the muda f~ucker it aint reachable~ would keep trying no body dares with my babe and goes electkra free~ |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 10:59pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
we ve been trying him too, my friends are at my place waiting for him to show up so they ll beat his skanky a.s.s up |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by na2day2(m): 12:06am On Jan 26, 2010 |
elecktra: so technically u are a bad judge of character THE AMAKA: remember she said it is a free world, so he can harass her freely |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 1:13am On Jan 26, 2010 |
na2day?: wo na u sabi jare am not psychic i couldn't av known he is freakish in his ways. . . . . . . dont twist my words to suit your own views if i say its a free world we live in, it means we all have fundamental rights. he had the right to stare,right to walk up to me nd chat me up,right to ask for my number' right to call and i have the right to tell him to stop and when his rights start to infringe on my own rights then he is not right anymore . . . . so back to its a free world talk yea it is indeed a free world as far as we dont disturb other pple's world. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by na2day2(m): 1:18am On Jan 26, 2010 |
elecktra: it is a free world, nobody said anything about playing fair |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by elecktra(f): 1:43am On Jan 26, 2010 |
na2day?: And nobody said anything about playing foul |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by na2day2(m): 1:45am On Jan 26, 2010 |
elecktra: the world is free and unfair, foul play is just part of the reality, deal with it |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by bkbaybe99: 1:48am On Jan 26, 2010 |
If I want to call Nigeria how do I go about dialing it? i want to call dude too. Ive been trying to call but I cant get thru, I know Im makin a mistake somewhere. Too many damn numbers!!! lol. Someone tell me how to call so I can have a chat wit the |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by THEAMAKA(f): 1:49am On Jan 26, 2010 |
bk_baybe99:lol i think you have to dial 011-234 first and then the number. and i don't think you dial the 0 in front of the first 7 either i haven't called Nigeria in years!!!! |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by mamagee3(f): 1:50am On Jan 26, 2010 |
Just ignore him and when he gets tired of his obsession, he'll talk to you. |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by chiogo(f): 1:51am On Jan 26, 2010 |
You need a call card, depending on your phone plan. Eleckra, na wa for naija police oo. So, what's going on right now? |
Re: How Would You Handle Obsession ? by THEAMAKA(f): 1:52am On Jan 26, 2010 |
chiogo:why did you tell him that? I wanted him to run up his phone bill. |
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