1. Lust and Fornication Are Sins: Why do you think God made fornication a sin? On the outside it seems like a lot of fun to have sex and to flirt with feelings of lust. No one is really hurting anyone, right? Wrong! Sex before marriage always, always hurts someone, and for many reasons which we will get into. God's desire is for single people, young and old is to remain sexually and emotionally pure for marriage. When young couples go into marriage with such purity and anticipation for one another, the marriage thrives.
2. Virginity is a Precious Gift to Bring to Your Spouse: What a precious gift of love and purity to share yourself only with the one you married. It creates the "one flesh" of marriage even more beautiful and sacred. But perhaps some of you reading this have erred and are not a virgin anymore, its ok. God still loves you and wants you to have a blessed marriage. Flee from temptation and stop dating because 95% of the time dating leads to sex. Having likeminded friendships in the Lord is much better than dating. Don’t give your heart away! Your emotional and spiritual self is a precious commodity—save it for your spouse, you will be so very happy that you did.
3. The Risk of Pregnancy: Children are precious, beautiful people of God, and everyone needs to experience being a parent at sometime in their life. But God does not want us to concern ourselves with the responsibilities of children until we are ready and capable of caring for their needs properly. Bringing children into the world out of wedlock is not fair to the child or to you. Terminating our unborn child is not fair to them either. It is always best and God's ideal for single women to not have children and to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. Then, when you both are ready to have a child, financially, emotionally and spiritually, God will bless you with children.
4. Multiple Heartaches From Dating: Sexual intimacy bonds two hearts together in such a way that they become emotionally attached to one another and feelings of desires are confused with love. Most dating relationships are not based on love, but on the desire aspect of the relationship. Dating does not lead up to a healthy marriage. Dating leads up to heartbreak because eventually one party will want out of the relationship. Heartbreak after heartache develops a cold, callous heart. It also can develop other negative emotions such as jealousy, suspicion, and mistrust because this too is part of the dating scene. Dating has too many negative emotions attached to it. It is God’s desire that single people have friendships in the Lord and do not date.
5. Virginity is Cool: Regardless of what anyone says, virginity is cool! A woman who can remain a virgin until marriage this day and age is a courageous and Godly woman, and should be commended her on her ability to turn away from what the crowds are doing. Losing your virginity before marriage is not cool. Ask any older woman with values, who has been there and done that already, and she will tell you to wait until your are married too. That's because we know that when a young person wants to have sex before marriage, it's only feelings of desire talking—there is not love there. As Christian people, we need to be more concerned with what God wants us to do, not what our friends are doing, or what anyone asks us to do. If it does not come from Jesus Christ or His principles, then it should not be a part of our Christian life and shouldn't be done.
6. Sexual Purity is God's Plan For You: God wants Christians, young and old to stay pure for marriage. It's His plan! When a Christian person disobeys God's calling for them, there is always consequences. These consequences may be emotional attachments that break our hearts, unwanted pregnancies, or a venereal disease. God does not make these bad things happen to us. We make these bad things happen to us because of the choices we make in our life. Let's choose what God wants. Let's pray about it and seek God's will for our life always and forever.
7. Fornication is NOT healthy: Most of the time in a intimate relationship, young people don't even really know the person they are having sex with. The only thing intimate about the relationship is the sex aspect of it. Did you meet their parents? Do you know what they do in their spare time? Perhaps they have a venereal disease or worse, HIV or AIDS. Physically speaking, casual sex is very dangerous. These relationships can cause many kinds of infections and other health ailments. Emotionally speaking, these relationships cause a defensive, calloused heart and teach young people to base love on feelings rather than something they do.
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OK cool.

I'm keeping mine for life

ZarZar:
OK cool.

I'm keeping mine for life

Are u 1??

Victornezzar:

Are u 1??

Of course.

Bla bla bla

ZarZar:


Of course.

wow dats cool
ur type are hardly seen

ZarZar:


Of course.

wow dats cool
ur type are hardly seen

Okay

Victornezzar:
1. [s] lust and Fornication Are Sins: Why do you think God made fornication a sin? On the outside it seems like a lot of fun to have sex and to flirt with feelings of lust. No one is really hurting anyone, right? Wrong! Sex before marriage always, always hurts someone, and for many reasons which we will get into. God's desire is for single people, young and old is to remain sexually and emotionally pure for marriage. When young couples go into marriage with such purity and anticipation for one another, the marriage thrives.
2. Virginity is a Precious Gift to Bring to Your Spouse: What a precious gift of love and purity to share yourself only with the one you married. It creates the "one flesh" of marriage even more beautiful and sacred. But perhaps some of you reading this have erred and are not a virgin anymore, its ok. God still loves you and wants you to have a blessed marriage. Flee from temptation and stop dating because 95% of the time dating leads to sex. Having likeminded friendships in the Lord is much better than dating. Don’t give your heart away! Your emotional and spiritual self is a precious commodity—save it for your spouse, you will be so very happy that you did.
3. The Risk of Pregnancy: Children are precious, beautiful people of God, and everyone needs to experience being a parent at sometime in their life. But God does not want us to concern ourselves with the responsibilities of children until we are ready and capable of caring for their needs properly. Bringing children into the world out of wedlock is not fair to the child or to you. Terminating our unborn child is not fair to them either. It is always best and God's ideal for single women to not have children and to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. Then, when you both are ready to have a child, financially, emotionally and spiritually, God will bless you with children.
4. Multiple Heartaches From Dating: Sexual intimacy bonds two hearts together in such a way that they become emotionally attached to one another and feelings of desires are confused with love. Most dating relationships are not based on love, but on the desire aspect of the relationship. Dating does not lead up to a healthy marriage. Dating leads up to heartbreak because eventually one party will want out of the relationship. Heartbreak after heartache develops a cold, callous heart. It also can develop other negative emotions such as jealousy, suspicion, and mistrust because this too is part of the dating scene. Dating has too many negative emotions attached to it. It is God’s desire that single people have friendships in the Lord and do not date.
5. Virginity is Cool: Regardless of what anyone says, virginity is cool! A woman who can remain a virgin until marriage this day and age is a courageous and Godly woman, and should be commended her on her ability to turn away from what the crowds are doing. Losing your virginity before marriage is not cool. Ask any older woman with values, who has been there and done that already, and she will tell you to wait until your are married too. That's because we know that when a young person wants to have sex before marriage, it's only feelings of desire talking—there is not love there. As Christian people, we need to be more concerned with what God wants us to do, not what our friends are doing, or what anyone asks us to do. If it does not come from Jesus Christ or His principles, then it should not be a part of our Christian life and shouldn't be done.
6. Sexual Purity is God's Plan For You: God wants Christians, young and old to stay pure for marriage. It's His plan! When a Christian person disobeys God's calling for them, there is always consequences. These consequences may be emotional attachments that break our hearts, unwanted pregnancies, or a venereal disease. God does not make these bad things happen to us. We make these bad things happen to us because of the choices we make in our life. Let's choose what God wants. Let's pray about it and seek God's will for our life always and forever.
7. Fornication is NOT healthy: Most of the time in a intimate relationship, young people don't even really know the person they are having sex with. The only thing intimate about the relationship is the sex aspect of it. Did you meet their parents? Do you know what they do in their spare time? Perhaps they have a venereal disease or worse, HIV or AIDS. Physically speaking, casual sex is very dangerous. These relationships can cause many kinds of infections and other health ailments. Emotionally speaking, these relationships cause a defensive, calloused heart and teach young people to base love on feelings rather than something they do.
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This stupid and boring dude again.

Victornezzar:

wow dats cool
ur type are hardly seen

IKR

durentchigozie:
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This stupid and boring dude again.

what's wrong with u

In days like this when sexual immorality is now the order of the day God's standard still stands. Marriage is honourable and bed undefiled.

@Victornezzar
1) not everyone is a religious freak who dictate their life/actions by an holy book.

2) virginity is NOT a gift, nor is sex... They are just a physical/emotional connection between a couple, that they can have before OR after marriage. To each their own to decide which they prefer for their lives.

3) there is a thing called condoms OR contraception OR morning after pill OR abortion... In order for wise people to NOt have kids. Stop making it seem that any person having sexual will have a child... That what foolish people do.

4) dating is a MUST and sex can be part of dating if a person wishes to go that way. Each and everyone should decide on their OWN if that's the path they desire. Anybody going into marriage without dating someone, is bound for failure.

5) being a virgin is just as cool as NOT being one. Such subject doesn't define who a person is.

6) many people don't give a damn about your god's plan...

7) there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with fornications ... And what you wrote is more about "knowing your partner" which is obvious to do before sex/marriage etc

MrBrownJay1:
@Victornezzar
1) not everyone is a religious freak who dictate their life/actions by an holy book.

2) virginity is NOT a gift, nor is sex... They are just a physical/emotional connection between a couple, that they can have before OR after marriage. To each their own to decide which they prefer for their lives.

3) there is a thing called condoms OR contraception OR morning after pill OR abortion... On order for wise people to NOt have kids. Stop making it seem that any person having sexual will have a child... That what foolish people do.

4) dating is a MUST and sex can be part of dating of a person wishes to go that way. Each and everyone should decide on their OWN if that's the path they desire. Anybody going into marriage without dating someone, is bound for failure.

5) being a virgin is just as cool as NOT being one. Such subject doesn't define who a person is.

6) many people don't give a damn about your god's plan...

7) there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with fornications ... And why you wrote is more about "knowing your partner" which is obvious to do before sex/marriage etc

Bro everyone is entitled 2 his/her opinion
Just informed people wat dey need 2 know
Anyway tanks

Op need to get laid asap.

after the bashing thread have gone it is now virginity thread..ok op, just know that I'm watching in 3-D

Victornezzar:

Bro everyone is entitled 2 his/her opinion
Just informed people wat dey need 2 know
Anyway tanks

You are right and the simple truth is that the message has been passed and you have reached your targeted audience. Every counter opinion isn't necessary for the word has already gone forth and helped those in need of it.

And let the fight begins between the anti virgins and pro virgins

Please don't derail d thread by insulting each other oo
matured comments please

sekxy:
after the bashing thread have gone it is now virginity thread..ok op, just know that I'm watching in 3-D

lmao
am not directing at anyone
It doesn't mean virgins are better dan non virgins
It's just wat people need 2 know

Rukkydelta:
And let the fight begins between the anti virgins and pro virgins

lolzzz
if u wan fyt....just go create anoda thread abeg

NairalandCS:
Op need to get laid asap.

Hmmm
Is d thread affecting u in anyway

pabostt:


You are right and the simple truth is that the message has been passed and you have reached your targeted audience. Every counter opinion isn't necessary for the word has already gone forth and helped those in need of it.

Thanks Bro
But some people would see it as an insult now

Alright

sekxy:
after the bashing thread have gone it is now virginity thread..ok op, just know that I'm watching in 3-D

Just watch how this thread will turn to bashing one.

read the best post ever about virginity:
should women even save their virginity?


https://www.nairaland.com/3844556/should-women-save-virginity-marriage

Tahrah:
Just watch how this thread will turn to bashing one.

Please ooo
not here abeg
It was just a message
not directing it 2 anyone

feelgoodInc:
read the best post ever about virginity:


https://www.nairaland.com/3844556/should-women-save-virginity-marriage

Thanks boss
but some people would think d post is about insulting dem

Tahrah:
Just watch how this thread will turn to bashing one.

honestly...

MrBrownJay1:
@Victornezzar
1) not everyone is a religious freak who dictate their life/actions by an holy book.

2) virginity is NOT a gift, nor is sex... They are just a physical/emotional connection between a couple, that they can have before OR after marriage. To each their own to decide which they prefer for their lives.

3) there is a thing called condoms OR contraception OR morning after pill OR abortion... In order for wise people to NOt have kids. Stop making it seem that any person having sexual will have a child... That what foolish people do.

4) dating is a MUST and sex can be part of dating if a person wishes to go that way. Each and everyone should decide on their OWN if that's the path they desire. Anybody going into marriage without dating someone, is bound for failure.

5) being a virgin is just as cool as NOT being one. Such subject doesn't define who a person is.

6) many people don't give a damn about your god's plan...

7) there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with fornications ... And what you wrote is more about "knowing your partner" which is obvious to do before sex/marriage etc

There is always a HIGH DEVASTATNG PRICE a society MUST pay with a LAISSEEZ FAIRE/ FREE-FOR-ALL attitude towards SENSUALITY and all kinds of acts of INDECENCY and IMMORALITY.

"Were history mainly a record of accidental and deliberate experiments performed on mankind, it would be to an understanding of human nature what laboratory experiments are to an understanding of nature. Such a history could be an aid to an understanding of ourselves" (Eric Hoffer, Reflections On The Human condition)

What is so difficult to understand about our yesterday which makes Man learn little or NOTHING from his-story, keeps repeating the same grievious mistakes over and over. Yet prides himself as homosapien, wise. Where is the wisdom?
  
In the 60s, United States of America to be very precise, which has become the 'MECCA' of our contemporary world today since after WORLD WAR2, had a revolution. A revolution tagged as "THE SEXUAL REVOLUTION" by historians, which is discussed today by experts as a twentith century HUMANITY'S VERY, VERY BIG MISTAKE. 

The word 'MECCA' as i have use to qualify the U.S.A is grammatical. Describing the U.S.A as THE CENTER, THE WAY, THE MODEL with which almost the rest of the world MOULDS and FORGES their way of life to fit the AMERICAN LIFE STYLE. Saudia Arabia IS NOT AN EXCEPTION in this art of forging and moulding to fit the American life style. Saudi Arabia, the very country, which the word MECCA is borrowed being the name of a city of sacredness and spirituality.
   
Below, is an excerpt that informs us, about the PRICE being paid, the consequences for this HUMANITY'S VERY, VERY BIG MISTAKE.

"As a consequence, THE (contraceptive) PILL and the SEXUAL FREEDOM it provided to women are frequently blamed for what many believe are regressions in quality of life since the sexual revolution. Out of wedlock births, sexually transmitted diseases, teen pregnancy, divorce have all risen considerably. Since the 60s Marriage has declined by a third, divorce has doubled,  DURING THE 1960s, THERE WERE ONLY FOUR SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE (STDS) NOW THERE ARE TWENTY-FOUR. Since the sexual revolution, children living in a single-parent families has trippled. (Mary Parke, CLASP Center for Law and Social Policy brief, couples and marriage series, brief # 3 p 1 May 2003.)

It was a revolution enacted by ACTIVIST. A clamour for "SEXUAL FREEDOM", which only masked their real intent. An intent which is to enable a life of waywardness, ADULTERY and FORNICATION, PROMISCUITY and all kinds of SEXUAL PERVERSIONS contrary to traditional values which up held and protected human dignity.

ALL THAT I HAVE WRITTEN IS NOT CONCERNED WITH DICTATES FROM SCRIPTURES. I AM TALKING EMPIRICALLY AS TO THE REALITY ACCORDING TO ERIC HOFFER'S QUOTE ABOVE.

@MRBROWNJAY1

The empirical analysis of the consequences of an indecent society shows nothing but LOSS, UPON LOSS, UPON LOSS to our collective humanity. Institionalized indecency with its roots in the west, encroaching the rest of the world, CARNAL CULTURE.

I am not talking HEAVEN or HELL as reward or punishment for being MORAL or
IMMORAL, the language of RELIGION. Eternal principles, LIFE AFTER DEATH.

I AM TALKING LIFE RIGHT ON EARTH. I am talking SCIENCE itself. Which is based on OBSERVABLE FACTS of happenings in the universe, PLANET EARTH being our home.

If those consequences as have manifested
Is not enough CRISIS to making us understand that we can't build an HEALTHY future by discarding our past, challenging our TRADITIONAL MORAL VALUES, calling it inferior. "The social and political climate of the 1960s was unique, one which traditional values were often challenged loudly by a vocal minority" of which our disregard for tradition moral has led to SEX becoming "more socially acceptable outside the strict bounderies of heterosexual marriage".

Who ever can't learn from these consequences is the WORST of BEAST.

ALL AM SAYING IS THAT PEOPLE SHOULD LOOK AROUND, WHAT DOES OBSERVABLE FACTS REFLECT WITH REGARDS TO A LAISSEEZ FAIRE/FREE -FOR-ALL-ATTITUDE TOWARDS SENSUALITY AND ALL KINDS OF ACTS OF INDECENCY AND IMMORALIY?   

"One might equate growing up with a mistrust of words. A mature person trust his eyes more than his ears. Irrationality often manifest itself in upholding the word against the evidence of the eye. Children...remember far less what they have seen than what they have heard". (Eric Hoffer, Reflection Of The Human Condition)

This so called modern world keep producing ADULTS who are so INSENSITIVE TO THEIR DISHONOUR, who even the most SPOILT CHILDREN would balk at their STUPID!TY.

"If a society is to preserve its stability and degree of continuity, it must know how to keep its adolescents from imposing their tastes, attitudes, values, and fantasies on everyday life. At present, most nations are threatened more by their juveniles within than enemies without." (Eric Hoffer, Reflection Of The Human Condition).