MissCuppy:
Yes na.

urm.. I was referring to benita27,..

dingbang:
urm.. I was referring to benit.a27,..

She has answered na. She's on point.

Benita27:
She has answered na. She's on point.

why didn't u answer since

dingbang:
why didn't u answer since

Seun's error 502 didn't let me submit my reply so I gave up.

Happy Sunday.

Benita27:
Seun's error 502 didn't let me submit my reply so I gave up.

Happy sunday.

sekxy:

Lol nobi small thing oo

Can u give tips about how to go making a girl to love me... I'm an introvert and she always bring the best out in me, I noticed I talk alot and expressed myself effortlessly without thinking I could say something dumb and stupid, she laughed at my every jokes, hold my hand in public... I was mad with her for missing my birthday date and more angrier when she didn't came to date we scheduled, she didn't bother explained to me why she missed it telling me "YOU WON'T UNDERSTAND", ignoring me completely in darkness... Those recent attitude have make me giving up on her slowly, I don't know why she hasn't said YES to my proposal, inciting she doesn't want start a relationship, she loves me just maybe she playing hard or i feels something is probably holding her, she is not my first love interest but I never love someone this way I think I'm going crazy

dingbang:
How do you revive someone (who is your partner and doesn't talk to much) in getting to be expressive about his/her thoughts and feelings.


I don't know if any of us have had that partner who is always mute, anytime you chat them up, their replies are just singular, you get to type lengthy texts and all they can ever come up with is K....

i don't know if you get me?

So this evening I want to ask my friends out here for their constructive comments on this matter.



As someone who doesn't talk too much, how do you advise your partner to get the best from you? What can u advise he or she to do to make you be more expressive?

Maybe her phone is like mine that takes century to send long words, so sending short message like 'k' might save the stress...lol

On a serious note, maybe your line of discussion is boring and not what interest her. Get to know what interest her.

I have never seen a man that doesn't like to talk but I have seen many people that can go mute for eternity if the topic isn't their type.

my guy is like dat too. i have tried to make him open up . worst of it is dat if i asked him how he is doing his reply will be "fine " and off he goes. he won't even ask after my welfare. well truth is dat he is killing d feelings i has for him. am considering endings it now. just waiting for the right time to do so.

dingbang:
How do you revive someone (who is your partner and doesn't talk to much) in getting to be expressive about his/her thoughts and feelings.


I don't know if any of us have had that partner who is always mute, anytime you chat them up, their replies are just singular, you get to type lengthy texts and all they can ever come up with is K....

i don't know if you get me?

So this evening I want to ask my friends out here for their constructive comments on this matter.



As someone who doesn't talk too much, how do you advise your partner to get the best from you? What can u advise he or she to do to make you be more expressive?

Bro dingbang , honestly i have had this issue before. I sat down to analyze it. It took me sometime to come to a conclusion.

1. Don't waste your time, any girl that likes you will always strike conversation with you.
2. The same girl chatting you up like "K" , "Yup", "Aiit" will be texting another guy like mehn....you will be shocked.
3. A girl can just be managing you, and forcing herself to Reply you.

Moral of this: Don't waste your time, Move On.

Venica:
my guy is like dat too. i have tried to make him open up . worst of it is dat if i asked him how he is doing his reply will be "fine " and off he goes. he won't even ask after my welfare. well truth is dat he is killing d feelings i has for him. am considering endings it now. just waiting for the right time to do so.

Oga madam, He's just managing you. A guy that is crazy over you will always want to talk, even if the conversation is stupid & senseless.

End it and move on.

Venica:
my guy is like dat too. i have tried to make him open up . worst of it is dat if i asked him how he is doing his reply will be "fine " and off he goes. he won't even ask after my welfare. well truth is dat he is killing d feelings i has for him. am considering endings it now. just waiting for the right time to do so.

please just end it. You both aren't compatible.. Someone just enlightened me.

truthsayer009:


Bro dingbang , honestly i have had this issue before. I sat down to analyze it. It took me sometime to come to a conclusion.

1. Don't waste your time, any girl that likes you will always strike conversation with you.
2. The same girl chatting you up like "K" , "Yup", "Aiit" will be texting another guy like mehn....you will be shocked.
3. A girl can just be managing you, and forcing herself to Reply you.

Moral of this: Don't waste your time, Move On.

thanks for this wonderful truth.. I will cut ties with her right away

Venica:
my guy is like dat too. i have tried to make him open up . worst of it is dat if i asked him how he is doing his reply will be "fine " and off he goes. he won't even ask after my welfare. well truth is dat he is killing d feelings i has for him. am considering endings it now. just waiting for the right time to do so.

am here for you

[quote author=cletz991 post=58516655]am here for you i hear u jor [quote author=cletz991 post=58516655]am here for you i hear u jor

dingbang:
please just end it. You both aren't compatible.. Someone just enlightened me.

thanks dear

truthsayer009:


Oga madam, He's just managing you. A guy that is crazy over you will always want to talk, even if the conversation is stupid & senseless.

End it and move on.

i thought as well .thanks a lot

[quote author=Venica post=58516862][/quote]Am serious Venica