Oyindidi:
I no dey make jest.What will you do if after dumping this girl for the beautiful girl you just met and beautiful girl come along?

I no even want anybody again. I want to be alone !!!!!

phrickAjax:
You're getting the idea

Tell me more

Thanks for the hurtful words. I want to know the gravity of what I'm about to do. That's why I share it. Keep abusing me and let me feel the guilty, keep it coming. Some people's cases are even worse than mine. My own case is more complex than you thought, I have tangible reasons for my decision. Is it not better to severe the relationship now than to allow it to progress into marriage which is practically impossible. But you're all calling me names and showering hurtful words on me like rain. I would've sort it out without posting it here. But all I could get is abusive words. Try to reason with me a little bit

phrickAjax:
Thanks for the hurtful words. I want to know the gravity of what I'm about to do. That's why I share it. Keep abusing me and let me feel the guilty, keep it coming. Some people's cases are even worse than mine. My own case is more complex than you thought, I have tangible reasons for my decision. Is it not better to severe the relationship now than to allow it to progress into marriage which is practically impossible. But you're all calling me names and showering hurtful words on me like rain. I would've sort it out without posting it here. But all I could get is abusive words. Try to reason with me a little bit

Sorry, don't take abusive words to heart.

phrickAjax:
I never chop anything ooo

..must u chop smthng bf u get sense..lol

bossrillboss:
..must u chop smthng bf u get sense..lol

I'm living a priestly lifr

phrickAjax:
I'm living a priestly lifr

..Hmmmm,na em one gurl dey confuse ur hrt.smh

Oyindidi:
Tell me more

Firstly, I'm having problem with her mother. Secondly, I made a complaint about her dressing, I told her what I want in term of modesty. But she's feeling reluctant to do what I asked her to do. My affinity and inclination is purely based on modesty especially in terms of dressing. But the baseline is that, her mum is giving me tough time

bossrillboss:
..Hmmmm,na em one gurl dey confuse ur hrt.smh

Expansiate please

bossrillboss:
..must u chop smthng bf u get sense..lol

I don't intend to chop something in the first place either.I'm someone that uphold chastity as a divine law. Trust me, I'm still chaste and I'm not lustful as you thought

Oyindidi:
I no dey make jest.What will you do if after dumping this girl for the beautiful girl you just met and another beautiful girl come along?

I just wanna be alone

phrickAjax:
Firstly, I'm having problem with her mother. Secondly, I made a complaint about her dressing, I told her what I want in term of modesty. But she's feeling reluctant to do what I asked her to do. My affinity and inclination is purely based on modesty especially in terms of dressing. But the baseline is that, her mum is giving me tough time

You are too young for all this. Focus on your studies.

You are young, an undergraduate, probably still getting pocket money from your parents and yet you've introduced a girl to your parents.... Wrong move.

Secondly, listen carefully, You will always get attracted to more ladies as you get by everyday.... relationship is about loyalty my guy.

Free your mind, don't take girls too serious for now.

Focus on your study

Personally I don't do all those COMMITMENT SH*T.

Op u don chop the girl tired and u want to leave her....God is watching u in 3D....u lack discipline

olojukokoro ni e. ashewo boy

phrickAjax:
24years old guy and an undergraduate in U.i. I've been dating a ladyfor more than a year now. I've introduced her to my parent, and my parent love her so much that they always talk about her. But suddenly her love started to fade away from my heart. I must confess to you, since the day I saw a lady in my school I've not been able to focus on anything without her thought crossing my mind. I tried to eliminate her from my heart so that I'll face the former one, but it seems totally impossible. I've been battling with this thought since three months ago. And it's affecting my life negatively because I've not been able to concentrate on anything I laid my hand on. I'm someone that cherish loyalty and I'm feeling some how relunctant to drop the former lady but the fact remain that her love is fading away from my heart. And the new Lady, her thought has completely filled my heart.

PLEASE, HELP ME OUT!!!! I NEED YOUR SINCERE ADVICE

Babalawo dey deceive you abi kwantinu!

The grass isn't always greener at the other end. I think you lack Discipline just that nothing else . If you're disciplined then the sense would fall on you . The witch you know is Berra than ....

Oyindidi:
You are too young for all this. Focus on your studies.

Thanks so much ma'am, this is like jackpot to me. Sincerely, I must confess. All these is facilitated by influence. Now, I'll follow your advice. I want to be alone. I'll face my carrier. But how do I tell her that I've to detach myself from a destructive emotion. Teach me how to tell her that I'm leaving for good, not because I'm leaving her for another lady.

Please Oyindidi or someone else with positive statement should comment

Adekanmi93:
my brother, I will advise you to pray over it, do not loss the best for the worse, ask God to show you ur will. sometimes a woman can loss attractive but may be a threat to u or may be a agent of devil, just pray brother, it is well

This one should pray, persin wey neva define wetin him want in life dey disappoint sincere gals upandan even after taking her home.

Na lust dey worry am, commitment, loyalty, past memories etc don fade because of the fresh-babe him sight. Forget it, make him de-konjilize himself first although i appreciate his candor and sincerity with himself...he has some hard decisions ahead of him

But again, what can be so hard about being 24 with 2 girls to choose from, abegi, make hin go sort hin CGPA first!

chauvinist:
You are young, an undergraduate, probably still getting pocket money from your parents and yet you've introduced a girl to your parents.... Wrong move.

Secondly, listen carefully, You will always get attracted to more ladies as you get by everyday.... relationship is about loyalty my guy.

Free your mind, don't take girls too serious for now.

Focus on your study

Personally I don't do all those COMMITMENT SH*T.

I'll heed to your advice. I'll discard all girls issue for now. But the question is how do I tell her that I'm leaving for good? I just wanna alone. You've unveil the love blindness that's blocking my foresight.

Please this is strictly for someone with positive statement. Please!!!! Sense has falled on me already

IdeyFindWife:


This one should pray, persin wey neva define wetin him want in life dey disappoint sincere gals upandan even after taking her home.

Na lust dey worry am, commitment, loyalty, past memories etc don fade because of the fresh-babe him sight. Forget it, make him de-konjilize himself first although i appreciate his candor and sincerity with himself...he has some hard decisions ahead of him

But again, what can be so hard about being 24 with 2 girls to choose from, abegi, make hin go sort hin CGPA first!

Thanks Broda. I wanna be a lone wolf for now. You're actually opening my eyes. And you mentioned CGPA, sincerely it matters a lot. Thanks bro

phrickAjax:
Thanks Broda. I wanna be a lone wolf for now. You're actually opening my eyes. And you mentioned CGPA, sincerely it matters a lot. Thanks bro

Distinction fall on you plus overseas MSC scholarship!

IdeyFindWife:

Distinction fall on you plus overseas MSC scholarship!

Amen ooo

phrickAjax:
Amen ooo

I'm Pharm undergraduate, do you see the reason why sense must fall on me.



Esteem Nairalanders, you prayer has been accepted on me. Sense has finally fall on me.