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Safiaa:
The same way a guy will be with a girl for 5 years and never marry her, but meet someone else and within 5 months they're married. Its just to kill time, and to have someone by their side whilst doing that.

That is wicked; better still, Witchcraft.

Dasgoro:
That is wicked; better still, Witchcraft.

You shouldve been discussing marriage with her after year 1. Then you would've known if she was up for it or not. As a man, you need to be in control of situations like this. Before proposing you should be 99.99% sure she'll say yes. No uncertainties at all.

Dasgoro:
I was, for a very long time. Even though I denied it at the time, not something I wish anyone friends/ foes.

Way over it now

What if she wasn't ready to settle down but she never told you before the proposal?. Some people freak out probably because they're scared of marital commitment.

Dasgoro:
I once proposed marriage to a lady I dated for four years, and she said no.

Nairalanders, have you ever had your marrige proposal rejected, and how did you feel/bounce back.

And for the ladies if you have, why did you reject his marriage proposal ?

try again later

It's not an obligation to say yes. Did you ask her why she felt it was not a good idea to say yes? Maybe the reason was you ....have you done any reflection on your past behaviour?

Samuel8604:

try again later

Report yourself to the mods

MissRaine69:
It's not an obligation to say yes. Did you ask her why she felt it was not a good idea to say yes? Maybe the reason was you ....have you done any reflection on your past behaviour?

It Wasn't me. After break up, she wanted me back but I said no.

Figured she was just unstable.

Safiaa:
You shouldve been discussing marriage with her after year 1. Then you would've known if she was up for it or not. As a man, you need to be in control of situations like this. Before proposing you should be 99.99% sure she'll say yes. No uncertainties at all.

I thought we did.

Benita27:
What if she wasn't ready to settle down but she never told you before the proposal?. Some people freak out probably because they're scared of marital commitment.

Maybe you are right about the 'scared part

In reflection; I gave my all to that relationship: time , energy, money... I sometimes felt she was just possessed.

I mean when we finally were doting i 's and crossing T's to opt out just like that.

There definately were some village element in it

Dasgoro:
I thought we did.

Well you didnt

Safiaa:
Well you didnt

You radiate confidence.

Akimbo

Dasgoro:
It was not that easy to let go. Well its past now.

We did dated some more before she finanlly tore my heart.

You guys are bad adviser though ):

Lol
That's nl for you
Did she gave you a reason for saying no?

Park01:
I will never be in such situation bro. Never. they should be the one begging for it not the other way round.

sorry

Rukkydelta:

Lol
That's nl for you
Did she gave you a reason for saying no?

flimsy, I was in love, maybe I was naive. What did I know

Dasgoro:
But ladies, why stay in a relationship four years and reject same proposal

Maybe they got guys on the side and he wasn't that high on her scale of preference at that particular moment and timing.

For a proposal to be successful you gat to know that the lady wants what you want and believes in you. To accept means she trusts you. You must want the same thing or else it will be the woman pushing the guy to marriage or parental arrangement type.

Nikkikoli:
sorry

Why the sorry? I will never settle for less bro. I put myself first before her and the marriage proposal.

Dasgoro:
But ladies, why stay in a relationship four years and reject same proposal

have yourself to blame. she didn't find you worthy to be called a husband.

Park01:
Why the sorry? I will never settle for less bro. I put myself first before her and the marriage proposal.

Nice one bro! That's how it is done!

Don't spend penny on her either.

Dasgoro:
It was not that easy to let go. Well its past now.

We did dated some more before she finanlly tore my heart.

You guys are bad adviser though ):

you are probably new here. Sometimes it's better to jump inside the lagoon than to share issues with nairalanders(especially romancelander).

that's how she will say no till MENOPAUSE go knock ko ko ko ko just move on guy Guyz to lady now is 1:10 sooo rejoice.

Park01:
have yourself to blame. she didn't find you worthy to be called a husband.

Shiooorr

paybak:
you are probably new here. Sometimes it's better to jump inside the lagoon than to share issues with nairalanders(especially romancelander).

They take no prisoners, like they are happy you in a glut lol

Conner44:



Maybe they got guys on the side and he wasn't that high on her scale of preference at that particular moment and timing.

For a proposal to be successful you gat to know that the lady wants what you want and believes in you. To accept means she trusts you. You must want the same thing or else it will be the woman pushing the guy to marriage or parental arrangement type.

No wonder some marriages fail

Dasgoro:
They take no prisoners, like they are happy you in a glut lol

that's who/what they are.. They are bloody hypocrites. Many of them are in hell buh will come on here and still bash someone whose situation is well better than theirs. And funniest part is that most of them doesn't even worth cleaning the sole of your feet in the reall life. Have met a couple of them and all i did wass laugh hard till my john thomas got angry and almost release some shit. They ain't worth poo. So you only take their words and bashing at your own risk. There are few good ones i know you should relate with though. People like shinalaura, makkydebbie, aderola15, lefulefu, oyindidi, sexybbstar(this is my future wife so becareful how you relate with her biko. The holy spirit yaff showed me in dream and revelation).. Cerovwo, mayaa4, pussyhunter(dude is sick sometimes though buh he is real, mcbrooklyn(he will always be present on your thread even though he won't say anything buh instead leave a signature behind, he is known as the lineman).. Mzhorlah and many other few of them. Though i don't know these people in the real life buh i can observe for earth itself. I do see the way they talk to people here. You should relate with them and thank me whenever you're convinced.

Nice paybak, I never knew someone here could say nice things about me. Onelove

Oyindidi:
Nice paybak, I never knew someone here could say nice things about me. Onelove

yea yea, i havent forgoten how you started with me on this thread.

paybak:
that's who/what they are.. They are bloody hypocrites. Many of them are in hell buh will come on here and still bash someone whose situation is well better than theirs. And funniest part is that most of them doesn't even worth cleaning the sole of your feet in the reall life. Have met a couple of them and all i did wass laugh hard till my john thomas got angry and almost release some shit. They ain't worth poo. So you only take their words and bashing at your own risk. There are few good ones i know you should relate with though. People like shinalaura, makkydebbie, aderola15, lefulefu, oyindidi, sexybbstar(this is my future wife so becareful how you relate with her biko. The holy spirit yaff showed me in dream and revelation).. Cerovwo, mayaa4, pussyhunter(dude is sick sometimes though buh he is real, mcbrooklyn(he will always be present on your thread even though he won't say anything buh instead leave a signature behind, he is known as the lineman).. Mzhorlah and many other few of them. Though i don't know these people in the real life buh i can observe for earth itself. I do see the way they talk to people here. You should relate with them and thank me whenever you're convinced.

I should invite all of them into this thread............... The few that are already here are overwhelming.