Good day fellows, i know this damsel since we were little, i admired her since then. When i was 10, they moved from us and I've not seen her for over 13yrs until last year.

When we met again, the feeling of affection grew even bigger. This lady posses every meek trait i like in a woman. High IQ, crypt understanding, lovely and most of all purpose driven.

We've just started dating two months back, but lately, I've realised that at this stage of my life, it's a building process with no room for "love". Thanks to God, everything is working in my favour, but i have to let her go to finish my building process.

The question is, how do i break up with her ? I've made up my mind to do so either way, but i'll love to hear a soft landing.

Cc: farano
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Invite her to your house and tell it to her via romantic and deep kiss. Explain to her why you need to move on with your life.

Calmblaze:
Invite her to your house and tell it to her via romantic and deep kiss. Explain to her why you need to move on with your life.

Just kill me , She'll end up changing my mind. I really love her, but i have to let go

Let me do it for you bro. Contact me

Calmblaze:
Let me do it for you bro. Contact me

No third party in our relationship

Tell her you are HIV+


or


Tell her next week Saturday is your wedding with your spiritual wife


If you're serious, you won't find any of the above difficult to tell her.




Buhari a good man with evil intentions

ShobayoEmma:
Tell her you are HIV+



or



Tell her next week Saturday is your wedding with your spiritual wife



If you're serious, you won't find any of the above difficult to tell her.





Buhari a good man with evil intentions

Guy why ?? If heaven see fits, she'll be the next person i date if she's not taken. I just have to let go now

Okay! Tell her straight and keep yourself busy with stuffz

Calmblaze:
Okay! Tell her straight and keep yourself busy with stuffz

I'm composing a message. Today no go funny. I'm heart broken, but this decision is evident

Alaye! Summon the courage! Though it won't be that easy due to the extent and duration of your relationship with her. Realistically, it won't be easy at all but just use the courage as a man. Gear up man. I understand and I can relate. I wish that I could help you but since you don't want third party...it's fine. Stay blessed bro.

You sound so confused...you love her, yet you want to break up with her. If after doing so krama decides to pay you back with your own coin, you'll come back here on Nairaland to start telling us how you've been good to ladies but they keep breaking your heart.

If she's everything you want in a woman like you claimed, what stops you from building a future together. After all isn't that what lovers do?

Nazgul:
You sound so confused...you love her, yet you want to break up with her. If after doing so krama decides to pay you back with your own coin, you'll come back here on Nairaland to start telling us how you've been good to ladies but they keep breaking your heart.

If she's everything you want in a woman like you claimed, what stops you from building a future together. After all isn't that what lovers do?

Can you stay in a relationship without the other party not communicating or giving you attention ? That's what i'll be to her, and i'll hate my self for it.

Calmblaze:
Alaye! Summon the courage! Though it won't be that easy due to the extent and duration of your relationship with her. Realistically, it won't be easy at all but just use the courage as a man. Gear up man. I understand and I can relate. I wish that I could help you but since you don't want third party...it's fine. Stay blessed bro.

Thanks bro

You guys do not deserve good, loyal girls in your life honestly.

Why is it that it is now you realise you want to build your life? Why didn't the thought come to you before wooing her to date and love you two months ago?

Don't bother deceiving us, you've tasted what you want which is sex and you're tired, save the love bullshit,

Be bold enough to tell her your reasons or ghost her, but know that you'll never meet someone like her, and when you realise that, you'd go back and beg her, I hope and very much pray it will be too late

God help you.

If you love her and she loves you and she has everything you may ever need in a woman why break up with her?? Why not build a happy future together, with her by your side. Some niggurs just don't have sense,see your mouth like build mumu

Biglittlelois:
You guys do not deserve good, loyal girls in your life honestly.

Why is it that it is now you realise you want to build your life? Why didn't the thought come to you before wooing her to date and love you two months ago?

Don't bother deceiving us, you've tasted what you want which is sex and you're tired, save the love bullshit,

Be bold enough to tell her your reasons or ghost her, but know that you'll never meet someone like her, and when you realise that, you'd go back and beg her, I hope and very much pray it will be too late

God help you.

Thanks anyways, just so you know, we've met just twice this year, and all was on outing .....

rafikii:
If you love her and she loves you and she has everything you may ever need in a woman why break up with her?? Why not build a happy future together, with her by your side. Some niggurs just don't have sense,see your mouth like build mumu

thanks for the comment

Hannania:
Thanks anyways, just so you know, we've met just twice this year, and all was on outing .....

And I also know you'd come up with this just to buttress your point and make people see reasons why you want to break up, that doesnt change the fact that you made her get involved with you,

You can only deceive yourself not us here,

Shalom.

rafikii:
If you love her and she loves you and she has everything you may ever need in a woman why break up with her?? Why not build a happy future together, with her by your side. Some niggurs just don't have sense,see your mouth like build mumu

My point exactly.

Hannania:
Good day fellows, i know this damsel since we were little, i admired her since then. When i was 10, they moved from us and I've not seen her for over 13yrs until last year.

When we met again, the feeling of affection grew even bigger. This lady posses every meek trait i like in a woman. High IQ, crypt understanding, lovely and most of all purpose driven.

We've just started dating two months back, but lately, I've realised that at this stage of my life, it's a building process with no room for "love". Thanks to God, everything is working in my favour, but i have to let her go to finish my building process.

The question is, how do i break up with her ? I've made up my mind to do so either way, but i'll love to hear a soft landing.

Cc: farano

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It depends on what both of you want from a relationship.

Many adults that took the part you think is good are regretting.

A godly relationship is what you need. Not the world type.

saintneo:


It depends on what both of you want from a relationship.

Many adults that took the part you think is good are regretting.

A godly relationship is what you need. Not the world type.

Thats right

Biglittlelois:



And I also know you'd come up with this just to buttress your point and make people see reasons why you want to break up, that doesnt change the fact that you made her get involved with you,

You can only deceive yourself not us here,

Shalom.

The word shalom doesn't go well with the way you answered. Just saying. My intentions are clean.

I like u


U Don finally chop am



Now u wan chop others too...

Me mysef no dey do relationship pass 2months

Bro, I took a decision like yours some years back and I'm regretting it now. Please if the girl is good,loyal and willing to stand by you now you are still hustling, please maintain the relationship because you might end up looking for a girl like her when you've finally made it and you will not see. Remember opportunity comes but once, even if in my own case I'm hoping to get another like her.

crate:
Bro, I took a decision like yours some years back and I'm regretting it now. Please if the girl is good,loyal and willing to stand by you now you are still hustling, please maintain the relationship because you might end up looking for a girl like her when you've finally made it and you will not see. Remember opportunity comes but once, even if in my own case I'm hoping to get another like her.

Thanks for the advice, and sorry about your lose

Vyzz:





I like u


U Don finally chop am



Now u wan chop others too...

Me mysef no dey do relationship pass 2months

I'll never do that with her...she's precious

Is she preventing you from achieving ur dreams??
How?
U said she's purpose driven, why not build with her if you are certain the both of you are in love..
I

crate:
Bro, I took a decision like yours some years back and I'm regretting it now. Please if the girl is good,loyal and willing to stand by you now you are still hustling, please maintain the relationship because you might end up looking for a girl like her when you've finally made it and you will not see. Remember opportunity comes but once, even if in my own case I'm hoping to get another like her.

I was going to say this.

The funny thing will be hearing the girl is now with someone else when you now want her back.

@OP just see her as a friend for now. I will strongly advice you not to break up with her for such a reason.


I mean, you can't tell me you don't need friends because you want to focus on your future.

Hannania:
Good day fellows, i know this damsel since we were little, i admired her since then. When i was 10, they moved from us and I've not seen her for over 13yrs until last year.

When we met again, the feeling of affection grew even bigger. This lady posses every meek trait i like in a woman. High IQ, crypt understanding, lovely and most of all purpose driven.

We've just started dating two months back, but lately, I've realised that at this stage of my life, it's a building process with no room for "love". Thanks to God, everything is working in my favour, but i have to let her go to finish my building process.

The question is, how do i break up with her ? I've made up my mind to do so either way, but i'll love to hear a soft landing.

Cc: farano

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Have you slept with her bro??

:It depends on what both of you want from a relationship. Many adults that took the part you think is good are regretting. A godly relationship is what you need. Not the world type. Thats right

OMOJOHN001:


Have you slept with her bro??

Nop

Stop initiating calls and chats, e go tire her, but really is it that difficult to face your future and date her, unless she a parasite sha