Good day nairalanders.
I have been dating a girl for a year now, we both love ourselves so much that we talk on phone almost every second.
To cut d story short, she came to visit me on a very good day and somewhere along the line there is this guy that was always texting her, and sometimes calling her. One day I decided to check up the guy's name on her facebook through her own fone while she was asleep. I checked the previous messages they had before I met her. I discovered the guy is married with kids and they both had sex. The married guy was telling her how he enjoyed her n she also responded that she enjoyed it too.
I confronted her that who was this person to her (though I didn't tell her I read her messages). she said he was a good friend to her when she was seriously in needs, and that he actually asked her out, but she didn't date him cos he was married.
I told her to discontinue any form of friendship with him, and that I don't want to see the guy calling her again.
Since they had sex before I met her, I decided to go ahead with her. But this thought is still bin refreshed in my memory whenever I see this guy commenting on her facebook pictures.
Please guys, I need ur advice on how to go about this. Thanks.

One quick question


Have you had sex with any other girl apart from her?

dingbang:
One quick question


Have you had sex with any other girl apart from her?

Sure. But not with a married woman. Thanks

seem your girl is dating him. call her again and explain your feelings to her. if things are still the same. free the girls bro. I hate hard feelings

Manhood85:

Sure. But not with a married woman. Thanks

so then why are you pissed because she had sex with him before you both knew each other.


You can't stop him from commenting on her posts

dingbang:
One quick question


Have you had sex with any other girl apart from her?

as in ehn real quick

She has to block the guy on Facebook and also stop any form of contact with him...
You dnt have to blame her,most married men are very stupid ...

dacblogger:
She has to block the guy on Facebook and also stop any form of contact with him...
You dnt have to blame her,most married men are very stupid ...

seconded

why do people like taking to media personal matter u can solve by urself.

here is nt who wants to be a millonire where u seek help from the audience biko,

tommorow now u will be like; crowd confused me into this mess.

u know urself if u easily forgive/ forget and move on, or u are the type that holds on to the past, u hav the solution to ur problem.

what i mean is this;

it is easy for someone that understand other persons fault and still made up his/her mind to acommodate such person.

inlife many people have the heart to live with past mistake after they forgive,they forget,

why some others can't live with such people though they've forgiven and forgotten.

If the guy is still calling and texting her, then I can tell you without bating an eyelid that they have had sex within the last one month.

Bros, that's her sugar daddy. Take it or leave it. She's not telling you the whole truth.

dingbang:
so then why are you pissed because she had sex with him before you both knew each other.


You can't stop him from commenting on her posts

You're right, but it keeps reminding me of her past. So what do I do?

newyorks:
why do people like taking to media personal matter u can solve by urself.

here is nt who wants to be a millonire where u seek help from the audience biko,

tommorow now u will be like; crowd confused me into this mess.

u know urself if u easily forgive/ forget and move on, or u are the type that holds on to the past, u hav the solution to ur problem.

what i mean is this;

it is easy for someone that understand other persons fault and still made up his/her mind to acommodate such person.

inlife many people have the heart to live with past mistake after they forgive,they forget,

why some others can't live with such people though they've forgiven and forgotten.

I have forgiven her. But the thought is still there.

Ok..

Dingbang hw u dey

dingbang:
so then why are you pissed because she had sex with him before you both knew each other.


You can't stop him from commenting on her posts

Manhood85:

You're right, but it keeps reminding me of her past. So what do I do?

just let her be. Or take her hands and look into her eyes and tell her babe.. I'm feeling sort of insecure anytime I see this dude all over u on social media.. I don't want him to come in between our relationship.. I need u to assure me I wouldnt have any cause to worry..

Dats all

adewumiopeyemi:
Dingbang hw u dey

cool .. U

Manhood85:

I have forgiven her. But the thought is still there.

it seems u can't live with a past mistake. #myopinion.

We dey push am

dingbang:
cool .. U

adewumiopeyemi:
We dey push am

Op abeg leave dah girl oooo..she is still in touch wit a guy she had sex with...dere is every possibility dat one day she might go back and Bleep him again again and again...don't gamble wit ur marriage oo

All these ladies keep in touch with their ex and erstwhile sex partners sha. I fear them ooo

dacblogger:
She has to block the guy on Facebook and also stop any form of contact with him...
You dnt have to blame her,most married men are very stupid ...

Aww...Hi asslicker