Hello,

I just want to share a very brief and surprising experience with you guys

I was in a Cybercafe few weeks back in Ibadan, this lady knelt down begging a man who was browsing the net beside me to marry her.
She was telling him, don't I look good enough as a lady for you to marry. This man told her he is married with a son and she still insisted

This is not dem say I was browsing beside the man when this happened
She became so loud to the point of crying and the cybercafe management has to tell her to leave
To say the truth, this guy is really cute but why should she force herself on him to the extent of going that public

God help us o, I have seen so many instances in my 2 weeks short vacation and I am really surprised

Don't get me wrong not all women do this kind of silly stuffs but majority of them are so silly for doing this

Women please know your worth, don't ever beg a man to marry you it's indeed A SILLY MOVE

Love is far more important than force when it comes to marriage and establishing a family

Note: I don't care who insult me or whatever I am just sharing my mind on this issue

Thank you

@poster Well,it will be ridiculous for a lady to try to convince a stranger to marry her;maybe i shud conclude both of them are in a relationship,don't u think so?

I guess she wants to marry him

The guy must have promised her marriage,but latter remembered he gat sarah at home.

poster you have listed one example , yet you labeled your post Nigerian Women? Please help me to outline the thought process that brought one unique case to a generalization on some nigerian women.

Pittbaby:

poster you have listed one example , yet you labeled your post Nigerian Women? Please help me to outline the thought process that brought one unique case to a generalization on some nigerian women.

If I am to list all the instances sorry it will take me time and that is why I listed the most surprising one

I didn't say ALL Nigerian women, I said some
So, I am not generalizing, I am a woman myself

Thank you

If you really a woman and not as a man posing as a woman? what do you benefit from asking this question? The motive behind this thread is tragically obvious

lol
he has probably been sleepin with her and promised her marriage

eeya that will teach the woman to be more careful next time!

ayettymama:

lol
he has probably been sleepin with her and promised her marriage

eeya that will teach the woman to be more careful next time!

Hell has no fury like a  woman scorned. That woman can do things to that man both spiritually and physically. I think men need to stop playing games because some people will do what they have to to exert revenge.

Because of the pressure and believe that they're due for marraige,some ladies settle for less. Some will even say"if only i can at least get a married man". Its so pathetic,and that's why som married player take advantage of them.ladies wiseup! There are lots of single guys outhere,if only u open ur eyes.

Ebonyeyes:

Hell has no fury like a woman scorned. That woman can do things to that man both spiritually and physically. I think men need to stop playing games because some people will do what they have to to exact revenge.

I even no a man in naija that lost his son pullin this kind of crap!

Poor man didnt think of a biyatch called karma

who some evil women like to call upon early!

clueless

U MUST KNOW YOUR WORTH : What worth does a woman have at the age of 30 something ?

Fadewoyin, Your assumption is quite silly. It is no secret that a lot of naija girls date married men, how do you know this was not his side girlfriend?? You don't know their history, we don't know what he promised her prior to you seeing them in the cybercafe, so you can't just assume this girl was going from customer to customer begging to be married like a mad person.

Just as Nigerian men are proud, Nigerian women are just as proud and hardly will you find a Naija women on her knees begging a stranger to marry her, this post is very wowo jare.

@ayettymama it is quite obvious the two were involve,but the question is why shud a woman settle for less,cus she must have known that the man is married,but she still insisted to be in the 2nd place. Marriage is not by force! And seeking to get married to a married man is far unneccessary!

Abekeade08:

Fadewoyin, Your assumption is quite silly. It is no secret that a lot of naija girls date married men, how do you know this was not his side girlfriend?? You don't know their history, we don't know what he promised her prior to you seeing them in the cybercafe, so you can't just assume this girl was going from customer to customer begging to be married like a mad person.

Just as Nigerian men are proud, Nigerian women are just as proud and hardly will you find a Naija women on her knees begging a stranger to marry her, this post is very wowo jare.

True talk.

@Topic.

I still believe that some women go to the extent of forcing themselves on guys for the sake of getting a life patner

The whole story may not be true, It is rare for Nigerian women to ask men out talkless of begging them for marriage. In fact, it is non-existent in Nigeria.

Poster. . .
Do you have any statistics to back up this bogus claim?

mama-gee:

Poster. . .
Do you have any statistics to back up this bogus claim?

Don't mind the poster. The whole story is fabricated. @Poster, Nigerian women are not like that.
The last thing a Nigerian woman will do is to beg a man to marry her.
Incredible.

Nothing is impossible in Naija, especially where d lady has tasted a lot of good stuff courtesy of d guys pocket, In fact dat is when dey ll throw caution to d wind & wail 2 high heavens.

I wonder why i have not seen such a live movie b4

Andre Uweh:

Don't mind the poster. The whole story is fabricated. @Poster, Nigerian women are not like that.
The last thing a Nigerian woman will do is to beg a man to marry her.
Incredible.

mama-gee:

Poster. . .
Do you have any statistics to back up this bogus claim?

Abekeade08:

Fadewoyin, Your assumption is quite silly. It is no secret that a lot of naija girls date married men, how do you know this was not his side girlfriend?? You don't know their history, we don't know what he promised her prior to you seeing them in the cybercafe, so you can't just assume this girl was going from customer to customer begging to be married like a mad person.

Just as Nigerian men are proud, Nigerian women are just as proud and hardly will you find a Naija women on her knees begging a stranger to marry her, this post is very wowo jare.

Pittbaby:

poster you have listed one example , yet you labeled your post Nigerian Women? Please help me to outline the thought process that brought one unique case to a generalization on some nigerian women.

I wonder why some Nairalanders leave silly reply, am asking questions not to be crucified ok
I believe I have the right to my opinion and again am NOT saying all women ok,
At least my last 2 weeks in Nigeria, I came across so many instances of women toasting men and it's very shameful
It's quite a strange thing to experience and I believe I should throw the question out

Thanks to all the wise replies and for the insultive ones thank you.

I have no right to say anything SILLY

Thanks to all the wise replies.

poster you have listed one example , yet you labeled your post Nigerian Women? Please help me to outline the thought process that brought one unique case to a generalization on some nigerian women.

ah well

na today?

@ topic and OP

na wa oh!!

na poverty cause am!

or maybe men are scarce.

this lady knelt down begging a man who was browsing the net beside me to marry her

Rooneyboy:

U MUST KNOW YOUR WORTH : What worth does a woman have at the age of 30 something ?

so a woman has no worth at the age of 30 something?

wow I learn something new every day.

and can you share how you received a revelation about the woman's age? Or are you the OP?

tpia.:

@ topic and OP

na wa oh!!

na poverty cause am!

or maybe men are scarce.

Good men are scarce.

Andre Uweh:

The whole story may not be true, It is rare for Nigerian women to ask men out talkless of begging them for marriage. In fact, it is non-existent in Nigeria.

pls this thing happens and i hav had one experience of it at my place of work where a particular lady of abt 25 came to ask me if i could marry her,we only see and greet eachother nt dat we hv anything in common bt she approached me directly telling me dat she always fancy me and wished i could marry her. Ths happens especially if u're a bachelor and independent.

tpia.:



so a woman has no worth at the age of 30 something?

wow I learn something new every day.

and can you share how you received a revelation about the woman's age? Or are you the OP?

my dear u ought to know what i mean na, a Nigerian lady in her 30's that aint in a SERIOUS relationship becomes very desperate thus becomes WORTHLESS while searching for (just any thing) to call a husband ,which is obviously what the poster witnessed . U shouldnt even be asking me, arent u a Nigerian LADY ?

OgidiBoy:

Good men are scarce.

point of correction brother , MEN are scarce.

how wont they beg guys 2 marry them

when they have used all their options up while groovin life

this woman would have probably chased her real husband while she was 21 in school


nonsense

@poster, u mean the last 2weeks u visited 9ja u experienced gurls toasting guys, and some lunatic gurl begging 4 marriage.all this happened in 2weeks? Ur a joke!

@ poster

Stop doing amebo jor. If you don't know the full story then mind your business. I'm sure there's more to it than you saw, so next time concentrate on your browsing before you time expires