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| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by H2O2: 12:02pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
Lol @ because she told you then it's okay. People and their lines of justification. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Fearcom(m): 12:18pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
Hello  . . . .Now,That she told you were she was doesn't mean shyte (oops. . . my bad) . . . .she still could have slept with the guy;YES,she told you she spent the night at a guy's place,but if she f**ked him,would she tell you?  Nope,she would not . . . . .but then again . . . .if depends on soooo many things . . . . .the question now is;HOW WELL do you KNOW your babe?,2.DO you know her enough to TRUST her? . . . ol'boy,spending the night at a guy's house('fellow'Male corp member's house ) . . . .    . . . .Better prepare ya mind for the worse. . . . . . . . . |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
There's nothin wrong wit ur girl sleepin in her friends house.afterall ur not there to service her so pls dont kill urself.the guy is only helping u take care of her after which he'd hand her back.just face ur work and try complete ur duplex on time so u can service other chicks before she comes back from youth service |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by oge4real(f): 12:29pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
I think she should have called you to say that the lights went off in her apartment and then suggest spending the night with a friend to seek your consent ( which i very much doubt you would have given). Maybe she got frightened that you may hear the guy's voice or movement in the background and became fast by telling you where she was. In all honesty however, it was wrong of her to have chosen only a male colleague to spend the night with.Yet do not throw away a 2 year relationship based on suspicion. Talk to her and tell her your fears, if you are really close, then your decision will be clearer by the time you are done talking with her. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by deluxecad(m): 12:49pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
U can never trust a woman enough. I know a case of a corps member(woman) who was takin a call from her fiance while bangin another guy right there and then. Shiiit! She's inexcusable. Is the guy d only person she could've spent d nite with? Give her d benefit of doubt tho, but don't expect too much from any woman no matter d shape or shade she comes in. Focus! |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by H2O2: 12:57pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
So will this babe always spend the night at this dude's house whenever PHCN takes light. She can receive congo-shining light from this fellow camper .poster, don't be a correct mugu. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by naijaswag1: 12:58pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
Some guys too daft.Did you not serve in the NYSC after your univ.What was ur preoccupation.Was it not a time to shoot and kill.Don't be surprised that bros was stroking her hair and kini when that call was made.on the other hand you were even lucky she told you where she was.All the same were there not other female corpers in that locality.Is that guy wood? If a fine gal-am assuming your galfrend is fine and sexy-sleeps in ur house what will you do? How many times do you even see this your galfrend? do you know if she was feeling Hot that night? bros this na long talk,na you know. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by AGISONLINE: 1:37pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
@ poster Guy, people are so confusing a lot. The girl you are talking about told you from her own honest mind that she was at someone's place (guy's house), becose she is an open minded person. What if she told you that she stays at her own house at that night, you will only give her a peck on phone. The truth way is that she is someone that really love, if not, You are on your own. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by bee444: 2:09pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
Most ladies do spend the night with their girl friends; your girl's behaviour is totally unacceptable and a bit bizarre! Maybe she comes from a background that hasn't witnessed power shortage at night before (don't mind the sarcasm). I believe every Nigerian woman should at least by now be use to sleeping at night without NEPA unless ofcourse your father is the richest man in the world that would afford fuelling his generator 24/7 for a month! My advise would not be useful to you, follow your instinct. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by badoski101(m): 2:39pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
guys take it easy wit this bro now. guy i feel ur pain O! but, u no every now i ges u were 1nce a corper too am not saying somtin happened/did not happen its just dat girls just wanna have fun doesnt mean she's a bi***h |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by freeman191(m): 4:04pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
Forget it, i dont care even she's an angle, the fact that she has the courage to go and sleep in another man's room gives room for anything to happen, even if she doesn't have intention, the guy in question may have intention, and since it has happened once, it would happen frequently maybe for the whole service year, no lady will tell u the truth, they are double daters. A proper girl would not sleep in another man's room for such a flimpsy escuse. Haba i justed finished service from ebonyi, i stayd where there was no light throughout my service year, and i had ladies as neighbours, they managed, and i know of ladies who are about to marry who fall into this same situation u talked about, and trust corpers, sharp young men, who no dey mugu nor maga, she should avoid it immediately |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by kokoye(m): 4:19pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
How would she feel if you went to spend a night with a female friend she does not know because you had a bad dream? The fact that she told him does not mean anything. She could simply be buying that trust to commit. Is the male friend only person she coulda gone to? What would 90% of most singles be doing behind closed doors at night when all is cold, dark and slilent with some soul music going on? |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by thweraja10: 4:22pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
If she had anything with the guy she would have lied to you that she was at home, but it a dangerous thing, because body no be fire wood, she might not have the intention but things can turn around just talk it off with her calmly. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by frank317: 4:56pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
@ poster, the male corper no get babe? Nepa no dey take light 4 d corper babe house? Is d corper castrated? What a male corpers house? Unless u want 2 tell me that all the girls in that area usually sleep in this 'super' corpers house wen there is no house. Yes she told u, so what? Will she b comfortable if a female neigbour she does not know sleeps in ur house while u are away wen the light is off? U mean she just wakes up in d mornin and says gudbye just like that? I bet she baths there |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by sweetmum(f): 5:47pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
thweraja10: correct. just tell her you will not like her to sleep there next time. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by fifi09(f): 6:27pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
silentc: Tru dat! |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 8:02am On Feb 06, 2010 |
@ poster, if she's been faithful up till now just trust her and get over this issue. if she keeps going to sleep in a guy's house after knowing you don't like it then there's a problem. it's hard to trust anyone, even your family sometimes. but a relationship can't be successful without trust. there would be no need for trust without suspicion-raising situations like this. you should talk to your gf, let her know you feel bad about it, and believe what she tells you (except you see evidence that she's lying). there's no need going to look for loopholes in her story, cos if you look hard enough for anything you'll find it. bee444: sleeping without electricity in your family house isn't the same as sleeping without it when you live alone in a different part of the country. what if the girl had no close female corper friends, or if the guy was her only friend there? if the girl had a habit of sleeping in the guy's house, then it would be strange. but it was just one occasion. maybe she went to watch a tv program and overstayed till it got too late for her to return home. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by H2O2: 8:07am On Feb 06, 2010 |
Trust your girl to go sleep over another man's house. What are you talking about? Well you're not a man so i suspect you can't understand why a man would be feeling uneasy about his girl sleeping over at another man's house. Unless the chap is gay or dickless something. You might as well encourage her to go and give him a back massage then. Trust trust trust my foot. What happens if she gets drunk and the devil strikes? then it becomes a mistake abi? mschew. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Taken(m): 8:53am On Feb 06, 2010 |
@ Poster Kongratulation about ya duplex but u want to keep such info to yaself. And man mi, i think u need to observe ya girl from distant. Meaning you need to understand your girl's manner of conversing. See, if you will give yaself sometime and listen to her, watch her while talking to other pple (her characters too), such observation will let you in to the ques u need to know if she is faking it and when she is pulling your leg. So mr loverman, you get some work to do cus right now - you may never know if she don do quick one with the guy or no except u deliciously presented the issues to her without accusing her. Or tell her that you might be spending a night with an old girlfriend of yours (or just any female friend) and see wetin she go say. So now, breath in and out and relax - time to play inspector gadget. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 9:25am On Feb 06, 2010 |
H2O2: it's not like you should encourage or give her permission to sleep in a guy's house. but if she does and she tells you, you should trust her enough to accept her story. she shouldn't even drink enough to get drunk when she's alone with a guy in his house. well, maybe i'm being naive but i believe it's best to trust your partner until you have evidence that he/she is cheating. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Henry19: 9:59am On Feb 06, 2010 |
@poster All lizards lie potrate,nobody knws d 1 dt suffer 4rm bellyache. Alot of tins are involved here. U knw ur girl more dan every oda person on NL. Dis girl might b faithful & honest 2 u by tellin u where she was,dat was wen u called her,if u hadnt kulld,mayb u wldnt hv known. On d other hand,she might also be tryin nt make d other guy nt 2 feel bad by lyin dat she was nt wit him,dat is,if sometin intimacy is goin on btw dem. D guy might b aware of d relationship btw u and d girl and d girl might hv askd him 2 give her sometimes 2 sort tins out wit u or there is possibility dt d guy can be her SE.XX mate even wen he knws she is in a relationshp,it happens,afterall there are other girls dt leave in dat hse which there was no light. On d other,sometin might nt be goin on btw d 2,mayb they are jst frnds,no intimacy,it also happens. So if u cant tel wat ur girl can do under dez yrs u hv been wit her,nobody can. Meanwhile,u jst spoilt dis ur post by tellin us abt duplex or wateva,nobody askd u 4 dat,its irrelevant wit dat topic abeg |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by SamMilla1(m): 12:34pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
SAM MILLA ENTERTAINMENT LANDS A NEW COVER STORY FROM MR KC. KC is a 30 Year Old Nigerian with a good Job, A working Girlfriend and he is planning to marry her anytime soon. The problem is that, Mr KC like every other guy out there, is not comfortable with her girl sleeping over in another guys house no matter the reason. Mr KC contacted us to tell us that his girlfriend slept over in another guys house simply because miss cockroach is afraid of the Dark. Below is the Original Post from MR KC. I will be 30 years of age by November of this year. I have a good job with a multinational company and planing on settling down soon to my girlfriend of two and a half years who is currently serving with a New Generation Bank @ Ibadan. I called her as usual last night and asked if she was in bed already and was shocked by her response. That she was passing the night in another guys house who is also a corp member. Her reason was that there was no light at her place. Please, NL, I need your advise on this one before I go crazy as I intend walking down the aisle with this girl on completion of my Duplex which is 99% complete. HERE IS OUR LIKELY SCENARIO. We will refer to miss 'NO-LIGHT-NO-SLEEP-IN-HOUSE' as Almondjoy or AJ.  AJ : baby these flowers are beautiful. You bought them for me ? KC : Yes angel, there are for you. You know i can do anything for you. AJ : oh! KC , there would never be another guy in my life but you. I am going to miss you when i go back to Ibadan. KC : i am gonna miss you too baby. Just hang on a little longer. I will be coming to see your parents as soon as possible. AJ : thats sweet of you but we have to wait, i have to get finish my service first and get a new job. You know, we dont have to be in a haste. i am for you. KC : Yes i know but we are OK, i have a good job already. We can manage , You can always get a new job after we are married. AJ : No no, dont rush things, things will happen when it will. Just wait a little longer OK. Miss Fear NO-LIGHT goes back to Ibadan where she serves with a bank and goes straight back into the arms of her lover. [img]http://dailyplateofcrazy./files/2009/08/lovers5.jpg[/img] Lover : How was the visit to your mums place yesterday ? AJ : It was awesome. do you know that mum bought a new car ? she even made me a powerful meal. Oh i love my mum. Lover : Thats good. I will test her meal someday soon. AJ : Sure, I will go back there again sometime soon. I forgot something there Plus she always wants to see me. lover : I would like to come with you. AJ : NO NO, You know my mum doesnt like me to stay with strangers. You will have to wait. MAYBE SOMEDAY. All of a sudden, AJ's phone rings and the screen registers as mum{camouflage for mr KCs name}. she shows it to loverman, and takes permission to answer the phone in the toilet. [img]http://fotosa.ru/stock_photo/Zefa%20RF/p_2417566.jpg[/img] AJ : Why didnt you call my house phone KC ? KC : I called it, your housemate said you are not home yet. I am worried, thats why i called your mobile to see if you are ok. AJ : {suddenly realises she is not at home} Oh . The Nepa people took our light, our apartment is dark i couldnt stay there. KC : but your housemate is there baby, where are you exactly ? AJ : I am at a friends house . He has light in his apartment.he is a fellow corper, But baby dont worry, he is just a friend. a fellow Corper. OUR NIGGA IS NOT SATISFIED WITH SUCH NEWS AND RUSHES TO NAIRALAND TO GET A SECOND OPINION.  VENUE : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-393143.0.html TOPIC : Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? SAM MILLA : ITS TIME TO RUN NIGGA. YOU MAY CALL ME PRIMITIVE GUY OR BACKWARD GUY OR OLD SCHOOL. BUT THE ISSUE IS , JUST BECAUSE THERE IS NO LIGHT IS NOT ENOUGH REASON FOR ME. YOUR GIRL IS MISS 2FACE FOR MORE LS SERIES VISIT https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-389151.0.html 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Akanbiedu(m): 1:56pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
RUN. RUN. RUN. The dog wey wan loss no dey hear the whistle of the hunter. E be like say you be Mr. Nice guy. That kin guy who worked hard for his entire life and no get time to socialise enough to have options when it is time to choose. Your decision to leave MAY be wrong but it is BETTER. It gives peace of MIND. Don't spend the rest of your life doubting your wife it is killing. For your information, she is going to do it again if you do not take action. However, I advice you consider if she comes back to beg you well wella. She must have learnt that you will not take such from her. Who knows she might not even come to beg you sef! Believe me. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by H2O2: 2:33pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
GL:Yes sure you're being idealistic and naive. To err is human I guess. Maybe you haven't had too much experience or heard stories to familiarize you with these irregularities? Point is, there's a high likelihood that she will get work done on her. With that realistic possibility and vulnerability alone, there is a threat to the relationship that will make any guy feel normally uncomfortable. It's a setup for failure. Trusting your girlfriend should not result in her immersing herself in awkward environments or situations that disrespect you and your relationship. Let's just agree to disagree because you will never convince me that it's alright. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by galatico(m): 2:46pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
It is biblically and morally wrong . |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by SamMilla1(m): 2:56pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
@H202 This is not a topic to argue with girls. They will never subscribe to our Views on mattes like this. I have given my advice to the guy who asked for advice, Trying to argue with GL here is useless, trust me. Change the above question to "MY BOYFRIEND SLEEPS IN A GIRLS HOUSE" The same GL will come crying foul here. How the boy is a cheat. how he is silly and all that. The OP said the girl told her when he called to know if she is already in bed. Not that the girl called to tell him that she will be sleeping over in a guys house. I bet she would have not told the guy if he didnt call that night. I also bet that was not the first time she slept there. We must learn to read meaning into peoples posts even if they didnt outline it. I try to make jokes out of such things because if i am the guy, I will call the girl and tell her to put a stop to that ASAP. If it happens again, i will put my coat on my shoulder and slowly walk away. I am a jealous person and i am comfortable with it. There are things i can trust my girlfriend, sleeping in a guys house is not in that list. It will never be on that list. TRUST MY FOOT. There was no light my foot. My sisters grew up in the Village where there was never light until recently. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Saraha1(f): 3:02pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
Mind wht you say.whild dnt you cal her or pay a visit to her and let her know u are nt comfortable wit wht she did.am sure dat would nt repeat it self |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
Miss Sarah are you sure what she did is all she said or just a lil innocent part of it? |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by Sakida(f): 4:41pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
Even for been open 2 u, i tink she dserves ur trust. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by otokx(m): 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
When you finish your duplex then come and ask the question. |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by cescjay(m): 5:31pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
in the world i come from it is |
| Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by SamMilla1(m): 6:12pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
Sakida: Yea. i bet she is trustworthy. what if she had sex with the guy that night ? {which is highly likely.}{which our guy is afraid of} she still deserves the trust i guess. rubbish |
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