U carry woman put for house for 9 yrs and after 3 kids u no pay bride price.

I pray she doesn't accept you back; you don't worth it.

planetx13:
Some men just have no self esteem and it is the reason why women look down on them. How can your wife leave you and start living with someone adjacent your house and you still say you want her back?. She said that you didn't pay her bride price after 3 children...... but my question is this...... has the man she is staying with paid her bride price?. I think that she left you for the obvious reason that you are a weakling and no woman wants that, even if they may not accept it. My advice to you is to move on with your life and learn to become more of a man.. Ciao

Nice point.How can a man stay with a woman and had three kids,yet no bride price.Thats bad of him.Also how can a woman that decides to leave her matrimonial home,not go back to her parents house first,resolve whatever is the problem with her husband and if it did not work out,they will settle peacefully before she will start looking for and stay with another man,she simply chose to start living with another man not married to her and with no bride price and within almost same street.This woman must have been playing outside game even when with her husband of three kids and may not be far from being defined as a "prostitute" and she will keep jumping from one man to other because for sure the current man she eloped with must surely leave her one day.He is just there to collect his own portion of free "hole"while it lasts.

You have not paid her bride price even after 3 kids? You beat and strip her in the public? You still want to mend fences after all these?

My friend, cement and chippins have increased in prices. Use the same money for the fence, go to her village and meet her parents, pay the bride price and then come back. Nansense!

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thorpido:
The woman didn't even bother to play far from home.
The man is irresponsible.He can't pay bride price after 3 kids yet he beats her on top.
He only wants her now because he's lonely.

Not loneliness but jealousy. The woman should move far from that area with her new lover.

Does paying bride price change anything if he beats her? The woman deserves better and I hope her new choice will remain rational even after the hone you moon period.

the jax wey dey use for u still remain?


ah ah

the jax wey dey use for u still remain?


ah ah

THE WE SELL SENSE IN THE MARKET?

My heart beat for adaeze

What divorce are they talking about, is there marriage without bride price.

No single lady was being worthy/qualified for his sponsorship. SMH

do they need a court to dissolve the marriage since they were never married

SeniorZato:
What divorce are they talking about, is there marriage without bride price.

me self confuse oh

lollypeezle:


But how come you guys filed for DIVORCE when you're actually not MARRIED? KO YE MI

Mmn touché

'But Uzor said that since Favour moved out their matrimonial home in May 2016, he had discovered that she was living with another man in the building next to his'.


Which matrimonial home? You didn't marry her . . .you did not pay the bride price, so where is the matrimony? She's just your 'baby mama' . . .that's it !

My humble advice is for you to take heart, a woman that leaves her marriage for a lover is not worth the stress you are going through to break her back. It's painful but God will take charge.

lollypeezle:
If you like pay dowry on the whole family, She gat no love for you again.

But how come you guys filed for DIVORCE when you're actually not MARRIED? KO YE MI

Ever heard of common law marriage?

They are married just by living together for over 2 years with kids to show for the union, hence, you need a customary court to dissolve the union

Felixalex:
Ah, he refused to pay bride price after 3children? So on what grounds was she filing for a divorce.?? Abi baby mamarism and cohabitation are also now subject to dissolution by court divorce process? Nawa!

Unfortunately, YES

This man want to die before his time.

This guy needs haldol. Please where do you get this false statistics from

Nackzy:
Ur are a fool for wanting her back...I didn't even border reading ur story
Receive some sense..there are a thousand and one virtuous n hard working women u can continue ur life with... By 2023 every man will b entitled to 5 Girls..by statistics women are more than men...so y sacrifice deep joy for shallow happiness

I didnt get your message!

blackbeau1:
If you want her back, then do something to get her back. You know your wife,you know what makes her happy, go out of your way to do those things.

Wait! Let me understand this...she is your wife in what sense? Women r d cause of their problems because why will u be living n having kids with a Man that hasn't gone to see ur people...


She has jumped onto d man next door sef Hey!

nefertitiram:


Ever heard of common law marriage?

They are married just by living together for over 2 years with kids to show for the union, hence, you need a customary court to dissolve the union

Seriously? Hmmm

Hmmm...just wondering.... after the beating ...and being stripped unclad... then chased out of the house... I'm sure she'll run to the neighbor for cover.... and comfort... and treatment.... and one thing will eventually lead to another.

they are not yet married, so wetin court wan resolve? he no do church wedding no traditional marriage no court marriage... so....wetin court wan dissolve? this is a boyfriend and girlfriend case

thorpido:
The woman didn't even bother to play far from home.
The man is irresponsible.He can't pay bride price after 3 kids yet he beats her on top.
He only wants her now because he's lonely.

The bride price in that part of the country no be beans. Have you read about how groom to be went into crimes because of bride price? No tribal bashing.
That he beats her all the time might be a lie to get the union dissolved since the wife has found another lover. And there are many things at stake in a collapsed marriage with children than being LONELY alone.
My point: the man is poor, the wife is fed up with poverty and enduring hardship. Simple.

thorpido:
The woman didn't even bother to play far from home..

This is wetin we call a derby na.

He does not want her back because he loves her, she found someone who actually values her and he cannot cope with that.

bigplayerz:
I didnt get your message!

check your email

keepingmum:
He's a mad man....u give her belle yet you no pay bride price...she born reach three yet you still no pay
You con join beating on top person daughter?
He's only begging because he has realised that some e actually values her.....he clearly thought no man will value or love her after x3 kids....shame on that man...tomorrow if she dies in his house and the family says come and marry the dead before you can bury her he will start claiming tradition abuse......yet he can cling on the part of tradition that says the man is the head of the home....mmtsheeeeewwww

infact u said my mind.....very stupid a man

kolnel:
Marriage is over rated
The woman has been having an affair with the Neighbour even while married to her husband
I hope the new boyfriend has paid the bride price

2 wrongs will never make a right

U concluded based on what??
Face 5ge truth, the man has been maltreating her thinking no body can value her again after 3kids.
He now knows he is wrong and wants her back!