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Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by Estiara(f): 5:26pm On Jul 24, 2017
dajan03:
Relationship stinks
Lonely, heartbroken, sex-starved? grin
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by AlfaAce(m): 6:30pm On Jul 24, 2017
vizkiz:

Reason why I will never get any pastor involved with my relationship until it is time for church wedding.
Gbam!
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 24, 2017
sonofLuci:
Everyone is now relationship expert now undecided
I dey tell you cheesy.
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 24, 2017
imstrong1:
Relationship can be a burden atimes
True but only if you are with the wrong person.
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by Gracidoinlove(f): 8:28pm On Jul 24, 2017
No 4. Wot if he's doing something rili bad
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by imstrong1: 8:47pm On Jul 24, 2017
Rorachy:
True but only if you are with the wrong person.
even with the right person technically their is not a right or wrong person.. but one you are destined to be with, life is basically ones happiness, have seen severally people leaving toxic relationship just to be happy.. Like me for now have been out for a while now and am doing fine ....
Nice picture by the way.. you are pretty
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by 2016v2017: 6:24am On Jul 25, 2017
JARUSHUB:
Relationships aren’t supposed to be selfish, while considering yourself it is important and only fair that you take a step back and also consider your partner – consider how you might be hurting your partner and things you might be doing to turn your partner off. Jumia Travel shares 5 things you do that hurt your partner and kill your relationship in the process.

Living Outside What the Two of You Can Afford

It is important to live within what the two of you can afford. Once you’ve decided to be in a relationship with someone, you have to learn to respect what the person is earning per time and adjust your expenses to align with it. Avoid belittling and insulting your partner for the inability to meet your expenses, rather learn to love and appreciate while adjusting your expenses to align, or work hard, alongside your partner, to increase earnings to be able to accommodate these expenses.

Constant Negativity

In relationships, you should learn to choose your battles. Even if your partner is doing something wrong, it’s not every wrong thing that you comment on, complain about or intend to change. Choose your battles. There are somethings you should just let go off completely or let go off in the mean-time to address later. You have to be wise about it. Negativity is draining and constant complaints are irritating, therefore it is important to learn to encourage, celebrate and appreciate your partner more.

Putting Everything Else First

Everyone likes to feel special and when in a relationship, it should be a priority to make your partner feel special as often and as much as you can. Your partner should always be your first priority. Even if you have to deal with something else before your partner, be courteous and let your partner know either before or after you’ve taken care of whatever it is. Remember, no one likes to feel unimportant, including you.

Forcing Your Partner to Conform To Your Ideals

Remember, your partner is not your doppelganger. As much as you two might have a lot in common, you can’t have everything in common. Therefore, there are certain things you will allow your partner do or believe out of respect for who they are, to make them feel comfortable and to make them feel loved. It might not make you feel comfortable at all, but if it matters to them or they are unable to change it (no matter how hard they have tried), you don’t force them, you learn to accept and accommodate them that way.

Being Unkind

Be kind to your partner in your words, in your thoughts, in your actions and in your deeds. Be kind. Always ask yourself before you do or say something to your partner, ‘Is this kind?’, ‘Can he or she bear this without falling apart?’. Kindness is simply the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate. Remember to be kind.


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Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by Nobody: 6:27am On Jul 25, 2017
imstrong1:
even with the right person technically their is not a right or wrong person.. but one you are destined to be with, life is basically ones happiness, have seen severally people leaving toxic relationship just to be happy.. Like me for now have been out for a while now and am doing fine ....
Nice picture by the way.. you are pretty
Its very healthy to leave a toxic relationship.
Re: 5 Things That Are Hurting Your Partner And Killing Your Relationship. by Nobody: 4:57pm On May 09, 2018
far far far from reality.
she chats constantly with your male nieghbour across all social media platform even at odd hours, and you let her continue becos its what she likes and it will make her happy.

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