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begoniaa:
You too, you're lucky I am in a great mood; for the second row of days again...

I can do without your backhanded compliment, and it'll be better it dies in the abyss of your thoughts the next time you think of ever telling me such again.

. You're one hell of a bitter soul.

Kiddogarcia:
Anyhow wey Una wan do sha,sha remember say na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

My next Post is on sex ''Conquer her through sex'' you can advertise your product anyhow there.

begoniaa:
Mtcheeeeww. Yawns.

you are quite good at poetry, that's if it's not copy and paste o. Now your hissing does not negate the fact that what I wrote is true.

Ehinjuola:
This one don loose from bandage.

Welcome to the new world bro.

yes so.

One of my relationship thought me alot about the nature of women. I won't forget how I simped because people told me not to give up on her. I was calling and she won't pick my calls and when she does, she was rude. Now people kept advising me not to give up too soon despite the cold shoulders. I did some simp stuff that am ashamed of mentioning like crying over the phone( Too much of romance movies) thought that will work but it made things worse, because women are attracted to masculinity.

Well, why I simped so much was because I was advised by simp men to simp more. Their reason was that if the relationship should end, it shouldn't be from my end.

Women are attracted to signs of masculinity, that's their nature, that's why opposite attract. You can't impress a woman by being over her, That's feminine.

When you start exhibiting feminine characteristics, she will go out in search of a real ( Masculine)man.

Take the lead. Show affection but not excessive. Dominate, most especially in the other room. Be assertive. There is power dynamic, women always test men to know if they are man enough, don't blame them it's the way they are wired. They would want to dominate, and if they do, they would feel your not man enough.

All am saying is that treat your woman like your Child, afterall you call her baby. Respect, Spoil and pamper her but be firm and assertive. Women love this.

Now women love masculinity that's why they love men who are;

Finer than them,
Richer than them,
Taller or bigger than them,
More educated than them,
Spiritual than them,
Older than them.
Lead them Etc.

When your woman starts insulting you then she sees you as a woman, and it's your fault. Some men try to do damage control by hitting her and that's wrong. Let her know she is replaceable by your actions, whether your married or not. Women knows am saying the truth.

Lastly, there's a thin line between fear and respect. The goal is to make her respect you not to fear you because there's no love in fear.

never endure in a toxic relationship whether you are a man or woman.

Coinwarrior:
when i met this young girl,she was homely and well reserved and she loved me then.I told all my pastors about 9 pastors to help me prayed on her with about six names to make the total names I gave to them be 7 girls.All the pastors prayed on it and they all singled out this girl that is the lord’s choice. Her parent also prayed too on their side by given my name with other 5 names to their pastors and they all prayed and their pastors singled me out that I am the lord’s choice for their daughter.And this is what further made us to get married and we got married in 2020 after we did introduction by 2019 august.All through the time we were dating i love the girl and the girl loved me too and the girl has been good and faithful to me.But i ran into a discovery about my wife then why we were on the road.when we wanted to start the relationship i asked her a question that is she in a relationship currently at that time and she said she was not into any and that the one she was b4 went into water.ok I accepted to her.But one day she was sick and I was away I then called her to know her health condition and one guy picked her call and I was shocked and asked her who was he? And he said he was his boyfriend and I said boyfriend but she never told me she was in any relationship when i met her but out of my genuine love to my wife I just told the guy to not attack her becos she was still ill.Then later when she was totally ok.I sat her down and asked her who was that guy and why couldn’t she tell me the truth then.she then begged me and said she had broken up with him at that time i met her and it was her own friend that advised her not to tell me about it.And when I did my background check I saw that she was not with that guy again because she caught him having sex with her junior.But the guy kept pestering her and begging.Then later on her sister and mother called me that they really want to see me then and it was from there I further confirmed that my wife just finished dating that guy then b4 she broke up with her after she discovered his sexcapade with other younger girls.what do i want to bring out from this narration is dawned on not being totally sincere with me. I caught her there.Another area i caught her lying was when i returned from traveling and saw a new phone in my wife hand then and when i asked her she told me her dad bought it for her but i knew soonest they truth would be revealed.in the course of our relationship then I got to discovered that the old guy that she had broken up with bought her the phone then and her aunty later advised her to return the phone back when it was obvious she would marry me when the spiritual findings of their pastors came out,i overheard her aunty telling her on phone.And when i confronted her she later lied that she didn’t tell me that her father got her the phone.she said the guy gave her the phone as part of his begging to come back.That is lie no 2 I forgave her cos of my love and warned her but the guy was pained that he was unable to sleep with her when they were courting then because my wife was telling him then to wait till their wedding night because i read their long time chat they had on Facebook why they were together then.So when we eventually married...going forward i saw my wife randomly chatting guys with whom they went to secondary school with and some guys that once toasted her and i told her to stop that when she is now married.Even her pastor called her and warned her to never anything to do with those old guys again when she is now married.But one day i just checked my wife contact and I saw a particular number she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake* I was curious what that could mean.And my wife telling me she never had sex with anyone in all her previous relationship but she said she is not a virgin because one incident that happened to her while she was growing up in the north where one old man raped her when they sent her to buy bread by her parent.I didn’t believe the narrative but the same thing she told our church pastor when they asked us during one private discussion point with them.But i stumbled on one book where I saw where she wrote *my first husband Gabriel and put two numbers but I tried to call those numbers but they were not active.Then I remembered one day we were driving out together and we saw one guy and I was talk about him and my wife said she knew him very well.it was there my wife made mention of his senior brother whose name was Bro Gabriel,she said they were in the church quoir and the brother use to called her *his children mother and she use to called the brother *her children father* she told me they took themselves as husband and wife already but one day when she visited the brother the brother told her my children mother let step this thing up by having intercourse but my wife said she just stylishly find a wise way to dogdge it by telling the brother that she is coming to do the act with him he should just wait for her to tell her sister waiting to receive sth outside then she would then come in to do the thing with him.she said she has to use that wiseness because she can’t abuse or struggle with him cos the guy can do anything with her.if that is true or not I can’t say but I am looking at the meaning of *my first mistake* that is very symbolic.with that symbol,I believed she slept with that guy hence the reason why she saved his name with *first mistake*.That is another redflag I observed.Then about one week ago my wife was telling me she would change her phone pin and pattern so that those people in her shop won’t be able to swipe her phone start using it to make calls.I said it would be good and do you know my wife changed the pattern of her and she didn’t come to me to show it to me and I was waiting for her to come tell me as being open as it should be being husband and wife.I watched for 8 days and I concluded she deliberately didn’t want to let me know .I was then wondering what she could be hiding from me when she would look my phone from morning till night.But just yesterday I then confronted her and told her I don’t know the kind of wife she is that she would be hiding things from me.Then she exploded and was telling me that she used a pattern I once know.I then said she should show me the pattern and I could see it was a different pattern and I told her baby you use to lie.why is she lieing? I then told her i have some history of her lieing and I started mentioning those lie she lied that she was not in any relationship when she was in one and she just broke up when I came.I then mentioned that I saw a number on her phone that she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake *immediately she heard that ...she kept quite all through* and the next thing was she went to her phone dialed one unsaved number which happened to be Gabriel number though the number is still inactive.I then confronted her when I saw her dialed the number while she is still married to me.That made her to start telling me she is tired of this marriage and she told me I should go and bring my lawyer to divorce and she threatened that she would walk to where nobody know.And she was crying and I felt for her and started begging her again not to sad because of the love I had for her.

she is manipulating you with tears. You are a man be a man. If she leaves you, she will find it difficult to remarry, but not you. I know you're thinking because your Pastor say so and so, but when you begin to notice lies, even if you think you heard from God directly, run o.

Michelle70:
You are not unfortunate

Ur problem is that u are attracted by physical beauty and big bum-bum and u probably didnt see their bad side.

funny enough in life, the most costly or valuable things are found in less attractive places or packages. E.g Gold, Diamond, Crude oil, etc.

blinking001:
The world is in total chaos today thanks to women and their propensity towards stupidity, materialism and egocentrism.
Civilisation as we call it is crumbling before our eyes today because men decided to give women a listening ear.

correct bro.

Sweetplum:
lol. Who's talking feminism the here?
We are saying are there not men that are promiscuous too?
No dey carry negativity to women alone.

I emphasize women because when it come to sex, women are gate keepers. A key that can open many lock is a master key, while a lock that any key can open is a badlock. Not encouraging promiscuity among men, but do you know that a woman retains the DNA of any man that has sex with her? Go and find out.

ersonleads:
The problem is that I don't wanna promise someone & at d end things didn't go well enough, then she go come use me cry at d end. Life has taught me alot bro.

sex is difficult to come by for men (at least the olden days) as commitment is for women. A woman feels incomplete if the men around her just want sex and no one wants to commit. She can have sex just to get that commitment, cos it brings fulfillment. A man wants sex. Men are wired for sex, remove sex and majority of men 99.99% won't commit long term.

BlackMan6969:
My twin sista at 29, married a virgin. I know its hard 2 blive, bt its true. She'll always tell me, i'll not hav sex with any man except he's my husband. Then i'll b like, how u goin 2 do it. & then she'll b like, i'm a christian, a practical one. No temptatn is beyound us 2 resist & Gods grace is alway sufficient 2 help ur resist & overcome. & 2 b honest, God literally reveal 2 her, who her husband will b, 4rm d number of men that were coming her way. & bliv me they living really peace. Her life style challenged even me, he twin bro. Finally ladies, don't have sex with a man except he's married 2 you. Thats how u know a serious man. When he has married u. It pays 2 keep ur self pure, that way d holy spirit of God will guide u 4rm stumbling.

Nice. Even though I did not state total abstainance, everyone has a way of interpreting the post. Promiscuity has more impact on women than men.

Fahvvy:
This is a very awesome write up OP...
There are research online to buttress EVERY SINGLE POINT up there and i wish you dropped a link to them...

However, advice all you want, well over 95% of females here would not take this advice...

Rather they'll try to shame you...
Or try to compare men and women...
Or make sarcastic remarks at you...
Some will even go as far as taking jabs at you and the females in your family...

But like I always say "the passage of time is the best teacher to a woman", allow them continue in their foo.lish.ness, time will surely tell on them ....

thanks bro, them no dey hear word.

Weirdcamila:
Story story

Feminism is like a rebellion. Women are made to be led by men (not controlled though). When given opportunity most times, women are poor in decision making. Women desire freedom but when given, they make poor choices. The more free a woman is, the more slutty she becomes. the prove is allover the society

Jeon:
So what about the Men hoes?

the way a man is wired is obviously different from the way a woman is. A man can love a woman and cheat on her, but a woman cheating on a man she loves is rear. Didn't you come across a recent post of how a man complained of how his wife stopped having sex with him and when he confronted her, she said had it been they had a quarrel, she would have killed him. Then she left him for her lover. Now not all women are like that, but it depends on her body count. Now why am saying this is because of my men. When we love we love blindly most times. Either lust ( beauty, bigboobs and yanch) or emotions cover our eyes. A runs girl before marriage will still be one after. A womanizer before marriage will still be one also.

Jeon:
Ok.

I'm hearing.

updating.........

Good day guys and ladies,

This post is not to downgrade non virgins nor the opposite sex, but to state the obvious.

1. The more sexually partner a woman has, the less likely she will bond to her husband. Sex binds a woman to her man, most especially if she is a virgin. When a virgin woman have sex, she bonds with her partner. A woman's first and true love is the man that deflowered her, and the more sexual partner she has, the less she bonds. Sex becomes meaningless to her. A woman with more than 5 body count, might likely cheat on her partner.

2. The more sexual partner a woman has, the more the experience and the more likely she won't be satisfied with her partner sexually.
Now lemme explain;

A woman will date a man or men that goes like 3 or 4 rounds of sex everyday for 2 years or more years, men that uses sexual enhancers and can go for 30 minutes to 1 hour on intercourse alone and then end up with a partner that can't exceed 10 minutes on intercourse, what do you think she will do?

I have heard women that say they need at least 2 men, 7 rounds, etc to get satisfied. And you that can't go more than 2, what will you do?

I want to advice men; before you settle down, ask questions. Get to know each other. Do your research and Know their body count.
If it's something you can't take, Japa.

Now ladies, the greatest gift you can give a man is your virginity. All men secretly wish and pray to marry a virgin, to be the one to usher her into the way of the world.

If your not a virgin, it can't be undone but you can still stop adding to the list. Don't say I didn't warn you when one di*k will not be enough to satisfy you and you start cheating secretly.

Final note: our mothers and grandmothers, stick with our fathers and grandfathers through thick and thin and the reason is because of good bonding because of little or no sexual partner prior to their marriage.

Guys it's up to you to choose. I just wrote my observation. If my article offend you in any way or makes you uncomfortable, take it like that. The truth is bitter.

Zidoh:
Yes we are here......there are many option such as Skrill, Payoneer , PayPal , Neteller atond transfer wise withdraw your earning online. We are here to put you through and also exchange your earning to Naira.

they no longer accept Payoneer, PayPal does not accept Nigeria, people no longer use Skrill, na Wa o

Romanoff:
Many people dey lie for this forum for clout. That's why.

Should I tell him to kill bet instead?

Would that have made you happy?

no, but that was too harsh.

Romanoff:
If this is a lie, your lie will befall you.

If it's true, I admire your courage.

Na God save you. An adulterous spouse can kill. Thank God she had no fault against you. Wish her well and I pray God sends you a better woman. Q

is like your brain is off. Even if it's a lie, why place a curse on him?
And to prove you are gender biased, your wishing the adulterous woman well instead of wishing her karma.

Revolution2022:
Yvonncute's
Is that a Love Machine you are holding?

please this thread is not for that, Thanks

Listen guys, they almost hacked my fb account today because I challenged them. I have fall prey before, that's why I carry this matter for my head. Most of those comments on those pages, are accounts that has been hacked. Please secure your Facebook account by ;

1. opening with Email,

2. Using a strong password with upper case and lower case latter's and numbers.

3. If you click a link that requires your fb password, run o.

4. And lastly but more important, use two factor verification.

Thank you

Coly2012:
Cloud 1 have been there for years duping people, my colleague lost over 700k to them last two years.
This people are wicked.

don't pity any fraudster whenever they are caught and punished, they are too heartless.

Dangrace01:
Yea i noticed their ad on fbk especially once you change ad location to ph and other eastern states.

You would notice a fbk page wuth bbc logo nd cnn logo but its promoting ponzi schemes

9ja people sha

Exactly. They even created a page called Nairaland, using Nairaland logo with just one post in the page. Nawa.

DaddyCK:
My new puppy need a name please? ..he is a cokapoo ...not sure if u people no what cokapoo is thou but he is a cokapoo... Cokapoo is not Police dog please.

please help!

normally na Bingo. Just try this experiment first; Just call any of your friends or relatives bingo then tell us their reaction, that's if one or both of your eyes no swell up for you to take type.

nigeriancritic1:
Diaspora President

that's what we need, a president with the diaspora touch. So that our economy will be like that of first world countries.

Good day guys, i want to inform you of the latest scammers and scam site, which is a Ponzi scheme, Crowd 1.

They have gone as far as using an actor and an OAP to influence gullible Nigerians into their dubious scheme. They promise 100% return on investment in just 2 hours. What are they buying and selling?

This is what I noticed about them;

1. They opened fake channels news and BBC news page and advertised on them looking at the history of the pages, the former was created today, while the latter 9 days ago.

2. The aforementioned pages does not have any content. No news, no media, etc. Just their logo and the so called cloud 1 promo.

3. For you to comment on their post, it would have to be reviewed by the admin. Hence my comment warning gullible Nigerians not to fall for their antiques was not posted.

Please guys, be careful.......3nity7 cares.

How come I ended in Nigeria? Upon all the countries in Europe and North America? Majority of Nigerians have their mind scrolled up. As in, they are so used to suffering and hardship that they will chose suffering and hardship over and over again.

chigoziri2403:
Biologically,Is semen meant to be retained

Not really

Immanuelsnr:
No be only na people like you dey mumu follow woman up and down

pls mind your writing. Seems you are the only person who can't see the humour in my writing.

Redpillers one man down! I repeat one man down!

OKOATA:
There's this girl when I was serving in Akwa Ibom, no need to toast this girl. You see her wondering around the village in skimpy dresses, just call her and tell her she should come into the lodge, that's all.
Na all the male corpers had a taste of her except a few who just didn't. Her name's Blessing, Na why I no fit name my pikin blessing. Infact any girl named blessing for that village na free giver. She wasn't the only one though but this particular girl just didn't care, she's like a nymphomaniac.

be lyk say dis blessing dem na cheerful givers o