My girl has decided not to associate with me since valentine because I did not spend the day with her.
I spent the thursday before val with her b/c I knew I would not be available that val.
What do I do?

I was actually thinking she was my lost rib

Did u tell or explain to her why u wuld not be available on val's day and that u were spending time with her on thurs cos u wont be available on Sun?

I did.
I just got a new apartment and am slowly setting it up.
I spent the period after church at home.
I also told her I came to see her that thursday b/c I wouldnt be with her on val.
She wasnt happy about it that day.
However I never knew she would take it this far

Lmao @ lost rib.

All sorts.

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I did.
I just got a new apartment and am slowly setting it up.
I spent the period after church at home.
I also told her I came to see her that thursday b/c I wouldnt be with her on val.
She wasnt happy about it that day.
However I never knew she would take it this far

It's all your fault, you would have done the setting up together.

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I did.
I just got a new apartment and am slowly setting it up.
I spent the period after church at home.
I also told her I came to see her that thursday b/c I wouldnt be with her on val.
She wasnt happy about it that day.
However I never knew she would take it this far

What a best way to have spent val together!!! Nothing stopped you from inviting her to arrange ur  new apartment 2gether.It wuld have been fun all thru.But are u sure u were alone that day?Confess now cos she is not here so that we will know hw to go abt it

Eya! She is just forming, she'l soon give you a heed ya call  

but i think there is more to this than ur telling!

I agree that I was wrong.

I have called her many times but she is cold towards me.

What is the way forward?

I miss her terribly

[size=13pt]sniff sniff i smell a dead rat somewhere

are you sure you were not arranging the apartment with someone else??
cos i dont see any reason why that should hold you back from seeing her
she has not gone wrong in her reaction
cos many things woulda gone thru' her mind that day
just keep on begging her maybe she ll come around eventually [/size]

Assuming you were in her shoes what would you do?

were where u? answer dat first.

You could have invited her over to the apartment on vals day to help with the setting up.

All the more reason why I insist that blasted day should be scrapped. Where you not with her the previous day? Did you not tell her that you wont be available the following day (VAL)? Have you not apologized?

Bros, the handwriting is clear: she wants to move on. It's time you do as well.

Hmmm. . .something fishy!

then have u now found ur lost rib

nikkykay:

What a best way to have spent val together!!! Nothing stopped you from inviting her to arrange your  new apartment 2gether.It wuld have been fun all thru.[b]But are u sure u were alone that day?[/b]Confess now cos she is not here so that we will know hw to go abt it

i dont think the guy is alone, your girl should undertand you more than that,

because of new apartment you refused to hang with your chick on val day. home boy you deserve the treatment you are getting because that is a bogus excuse. you could have invited her over to help you set the place up that way you will build new memories together. you could have had her come and sit while you work then later go out or do what you do but you didn't so lay on that sword

I no fit shout.

She is thawing.

I delayed my movement to my new apartment till dis weekend cos I wanted to spend time with my sweet during d Val weekend.
I knew it could bring trouble if I excused myself.I didnt even go to work last Saturday.

Mai Suya:

All the more reason why I insist that blasted day should be scrapped. Where you not with her the previous day? Did you not tell her that you wont be available the following day (VAL)? Have you not apologized?

Bros, the handwriting is clear: she wants to move on. It's time you do as well.

my friend that is not a good advice, arranging an apartment is not a reason for not celebrating d val with his chic. Atleast he should have invited her so she can c for her self or even join him in the arranging of the apartment. Or he just used that as an excused.

Mai Suya:

All the more reason why I insist that blasted day should be scrapped. Where you not with her the previous day? Did you not tell her that you wont be available the following day (VAL)? Have you not apologized?

Bros, the handwriting is clear: she wants to move on. It's time you do as well.

my friend that is not a good advice, arranging an apartment is not a reason for not celebrating d val with his chic. Atleast he should have invited her so she can c for her self or even join him in the arranging of the apartment. Or he just used that as an excused.

oh boy talk the truth and let the devil shame, who the hell girl you spent the val with instead of someone that love you?

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I did.
I just got a new apartment and am slowly setting it up.
I spent the period after church at home.
I also told her I came to see her that thursday b/c I wouldnt be with her on val.
She wasnt happy about it that day.
However I never knew she would take it this far

you have hidden agenda apart from this stuff cus i am sure your girl would have loved to be there helping you with these stuff you listed

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I no fit shout.

She is thawing.

Told ya These girls are quite the same